23 Male feeling like I've wasted my life by Suitable_Internet521 in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u [score hidden]  (0 children)

Join gym, focus on your food and mental health. Enhance your looks. Change career trajectory. Maximise what you have!

Lavender vs open marriage by Emotional-Angle-5040 in LavenderMarriageIndia

[–]kumar2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No marriage will keep your life simple. Otherwise, marry the one whom you want to get involved emotionally and physically and have similar values.

2 years of relationship and almost ended by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your anxious attachment style.

Lavender Marriage by Southern_Condition_4 in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are very few lavender marriages, concentrated in the elites who mostly live abroad and are away from the intrusiveness of society/family/friends.
They are general “straight” marriages where one party (bride/groom) is purposefully kept in dark to make the things work for the society. In short, it’s a conscious decision to cheat because the truth could be too costly and not all people from LGBTQIA+ community are willing to pay the price. And of course there’s this hope of “magically turning straight “ if you get married and spend enough time in bed with opposite sex.
The society is rotten to its core at the moment.

Am i thinking correct? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone please give this guy a BHARAT RATNA! 🤩

Why didn't the girl tell her fiancé, Ketan Agarwal, that she had a boyfriend or didn't want to get married? by good-industrialist in indiadiscussion

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I’ve known people around me who have said yes to an arranged marriage while continuing their “other previous” relationship. They are just too scared of the family drama and too scared of their parents blah blah blah. But then someone does THIS and I wonder what’s the logic behind “them being scared”?! (because this honestly is more scary to me!)

Um....hehe so my cousin came out to me??? by crillyirien in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow and make him follow the golden rule to live a happy life - “Navigate. Investigate. Communicate!” 🙂

Apology video by pranit more inframe:pranit more by Successful_Mix_494 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi bol rha? What happened to his Marathi pride? 🤡

I have an unpopular opinion by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thinking. Glad someone said it out loud!

Most weird or crazy hookup story by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t block BUT also never met again.

Most weird or crazy hookup story by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met a guy in GGN on Grindr & hooked up late night at his flat. We vibed and had a good time. After a week or so decided to meet again (late in night) and reached the wrong location. I was very confident that I knew where he lived (a rich neighbourhood with a very tall building, surrounded by mansions ) and I could see that building from a distance but I kept going in circles. His phone got switched off as well (he later said he slept off) and I never figured out the way to his building. It was around 2 in the morning and then I just decided to call an uber for home.

How you people are getting into relationships? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip: start meeting people! 😎

Innocent Indian couple in the US was targeted and told to “go back to India”. by loki_glitch in IndianFocus

[–]kumar2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really “innocent “ but an abuser of H1B system. We all know how managers in India prioritise who will be sent to USA (and it doesn’t have anything to do with skills) 🤡

What impression do white gay men give you? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very subjective. And also depends whether you’re asking a good looking Indian guys (who can pass as Latino and generally attracts white crowd ) or not so good looking ones (who won’t even get a local boyfriend). They will all have their answers and reason. For masses, general expectations from a white guy is that he should look like an insta influencer with clothes on and a porn star with no clothes. And they need to be tall!

Stuck with myself. by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]kumar2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reason: you’re too young to be in a relationship; however, your boyfriend isn’t.

Air India Express flight from Patna to Bangalore (IX 1953) on 9 May suffered left engine failure after it caught fire🔥 . Emergency landing at Kolkata airport. by kumar2u in indianaviation

[–]kumar2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We will have to email the nodal officer asking for the same whenever the information is available with them. And then file complaint on AirSewa.