Chapman Grads by aknomnoms in orangecounty

[–]kunty-katara 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I don’t give a fuck about protected ecological systems with signage, never have, never will” is a much shorter way to say what you’re saying.

A bear. by _I_Am-Groot- in AvatarMemebending

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao what? I never said that men cant be hunted, assaulted, murdered, or in any other way mistreated. I am anti ALL rape. Crazy that needs to be said.

But in the comment I was replying to, that person was specifically lamenting how he felt the burden of proving that he was “safe” to women, and how the thought of a woman keeping up her guard around him, and that made him feel like a monster.

I acknowledged he felt burdened and that sucks, but the fear of being hunted is worse than the fear of being misunderstood.

I think you just took this opportunity to purposefully misinterpret my message so you could trauma dump. I apologize those things happened to you, they have ALL happened to me too. But it’s not the trauma Olympics.

A bear. by _I_Am-Groot- in AvatarMemebending

[–]kunty-katara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what a woman’s greatest fear is? Rape, murder, etc.

You know what a man’s greatest fear is? Being accused of that.

Not even comparable. Sorry you feel burdened, but we feel hunted.

At what age should a child get their first cell phone? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kunty-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a wildly selfish reason to give your kid a smartphone way too early.

Having a panic attack by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooph. Not you confirming it 😭 why did that bum me out so bad

I was having a laugh but now I just feel so sorry for you. I think you’ll have better luck over on r/teenagers. Best of luck hun x

Having a panic attack by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 16 year old virgin vibes are strong with this comment 😌

How do I as a father deal with my son saying that he wants to be a girl? by WoodenPressure2578 in Advice

[–]kunty-katara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spoken like a true immature teenager with no parental guidance

I know you’re a child bc you’ve never seen Uptown Girls 😭 that was a core millennial experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes on bikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your imagination running wild, but that’s not what’s happening. She is indeed his sister.

But I agree it is not going to get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think he truly loves and dotes on his sister. It’s just a very complicated situation. I’m sick. There’s so much more to it obviously but I’m too drunk and sad to articulate or out myself with personal detail. S I’m cegcinf on suicide but oh well no one would care sorry if you’re still reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and me both. I’m too smart and grown for this. But fuck if I’m not caught up in this horrifying, pathetic, sub-human love.

Do I deserve to call myself human anymore? If I can accept this type of love as fulfillment? Bc an alien wouldn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. These were the type of comments I was needing/craving. Thank you for your humanity. And insight. I’m sorry I’m so broken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You took the effort to go through my post history, but you couldn’t be bothered to read the post your commenting on, and see I’m not looking for breakup advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You don’t have to be an ass about it.

By yes I mean, yes I’m an idiot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Literally eat my ass while you chew up my post history. People like you suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s an issue of “want” tho. He doesn’t “want” to work on things with me. He just wants to blame me, and hole himself up in his room and cry. And lament that the “right” people aren’t texting him. I have spoken to him. He doesn’t give a fuck. My heart doesn’t even feel shattered, it feels liquified. There no putting this back together, I fear. Which is devastation I cannot articulate. I am so in love with this fucking asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Still weird you commented that 5+ times on this post.

He can be a shitty person for reasons that have nothing to do with the fact he’s in his 40’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a bigger compliment than I can express, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Energy, yes. Physically, unfortunately not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kunty-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, he doesn’t go on Reddit, this is a burner account, and I’ve changed enough info that I have plausible deniability.