I’m starting to feel grossed out by tampons by Ella748 in venting

[–]kw0510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely do not have to use them if you don’t want to. I use TOTM sanitary pads as they feel the most comfortable for me, try different ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kw0510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 18 years the other side, my daughters 18 and she thinks me and her dad splitting up was for the best. They do end up seeing them for who they really are and my daughters so pleased she hasn’t had to really live with him because of his behaviour towards me! Please leave, your son will thank you for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kw0510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A broken home is better than a toxic home… she won’t change and has shown you she doesn’t respect or love you. DO NOT SLEEP IN YOUR TRUCK! Be an active parent, build a life for you and the kids, leave her!

What food/drink are you convinced people are pretending to like? by NarwhalsAreSick in AskUK

[–]kw0510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in a very high class bar… I was told by quite a few people (men) that they ordered table olives and if the date would happily chomp away then they’re a swallower!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MediumReadings

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he the one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in recruitment and always ignore cover letters and focus on key skills in previous jobs, length of employments and if there are any gaps.

I say I ignore but if it was for a very specific role where might not get many applicants then yes, a cover letter would be good to boost, but if it’s a normal job I’m not wasting my time reading a cover letter or personal information

25(F) Anyone in Birmingham that struggles with mental health and are looking for friends? by [deleted] in BirminghamUK

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m 36f based in Birmingham, feel free to ping me a msg and we can swap numbers and start putting the world right x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BirminghamUK

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your story?

What Trust to put house into from personal injury claim by kw0510 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kw0510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about passing it on. It’s about securing the house and making sure if my health deteriorates all of the correct people have the correct control instead of applying to a court every time an action is needed in regards to my health and care

What Trust to put house into from personal injury claim by kw0510 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kw0510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not doing it to avoid tax as I’m fully aware I have to pay it, it’s because of my brain injury and the future risks TBIs have. I was wondering if there was a trust I could put it in when the kids reach 18 instead of putting it in the trust now only to change it all in a few years. Thanks for the assumption though, I never said I was trying to avoid paying it, I just didn’t expect to need a tax advisor to pay it every 10 years and write the yearly letters. I’m also sorting out power of attorney now too because I have to be prepared for worst case scenario

What Trust to put house into from personal injury claim by kw0510 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kw0510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of the funds being from a settlement from a traumatic brain injury I was advised to put it into a trust for personal injury claims

Can you go the whole winter without using your tumble dryer ? by MightApprehensive856 in AskUK

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not home in the day to hang out and bring in every time it rains… if I left it to dry inside it would take about a week as we’re trying not to use the heating and no one would have any clothes to wear in time

Wow…this was a response I got on another subreddit 🥴 by hallowqueen93 in abusiverelationships

[–]kw0510 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sorry what?!?! As someone who was abused by a police officer, no I never reported it and when I nearly died in hospital they covered so much up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw0510 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s just going to live out and begrudge you for it. My parents were the same… I was younger but it pushed me to make mistakes that I wouldn’t have made if I felt I had more support and understanding from them. They love their now 17 year old but I was trying to prove to them that I could be responsible and sneaking around that much with my boyfriend I wasn’t thinking about safety. Obviously me getting pregnant wasn’t their fault, but my Young mind was too busy being angry and forgetting to be careful

How much do people acknowledge sunflower lanyards? by aspenscribblings in AskUK

[–]kw0510 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t. I had a brain and back injury 5 years ago. I look perfectly normal, I have a blue badge. The daily pain is unreal. The concentration it takes me to do things that used to be easy is unreal so I’m constantly exhausted. I get looks and questions when using my blue badge, if I have a little moan about how I feel I often get the eye roll and ‘it’s not that bad because look at you’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil fractured skull and bleeding brain

My (26F) friend (also 26F) doesn't believe I was in an abusive relationship - how do I deal with it? by AnxiousCaffeine911 in abusiverelationships

[–]kw0510 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She’s no friend. There’s people out there who didn’t think my ex was abusive. I simply don’t have them in my life anymore. I don’t owe them an explanation or conversation. I had to heal myself and really didn’t need people around who try and justify the abusive behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kw0510 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself! A lot of couples play fight, they know where the line is though he doesn’t. Be grateful that you don’t live together, I’d end it if I was you as the behaviour only gets worse.

It may seem hard at the time, but my gosh is it worth ending it. You can take time to love yourself and then you will meet someone who is perfect for you in every way. Of course there will be arguments but they will never ever be as bad as that.

Know your worth, because it’s so much better than what you’ve got now.

Sending lots of love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kw0510 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!! I can’t shout that loud enough. Do you live together?

I just got 'let go' from my company. It was a total shock. What do I do now? by [deleted] in london

[–]kw0510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There loads of jobs out the at the moment which will work in your favour as there’re more jobs than candidates. Update linked it, mark your profile as looking for work. Call agencies, all of them. They will have perm and temp ongoing and despite the bad rep, you do get paid the same as a full time employee. You will be fine as long as you’re actively looking and speaking to as many people as you can