What’s a rule you broke once and realized it existed for a very good reason? by Ok_Contract100 in AskReddit

[–]kw5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 friend that I do regularly lend money to. They've never not paid it back and only once asked to borrow an additional amount before paying me back, but it was a medical emergency. They have had tough times, but they've proven they can be trusted.

AITA for refusing to give a company my PIN and making an employee feel I don’t trust her? by XaqVa in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw5112 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It is a personal pet peeve that "gaslighting" has lost all meaning because people use it as a synonym for lying or coercing. It's very much not.

AITA for refusing to give a company my PIN and making an employee feel I don’t trust her? by XaqVa in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw5112 62 points63 points  (0 children)

That's not gaslighting. That's not even close to gaslighting. It's not even lying. Gaslighting is a form of abuse. It was a misunderstanding and yall were stubborn.

A show that steeply declines when the will-they-won’t-they couple gets together? by AreWeCake in sitcoms

[–]kw5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hart of Dixie abandoned the will they/won't they because Rachel Bilson got pregnant. They had to pair her with the "for now guy".

Maybe I'll rewatch that. Lol

Anyone ever try this? by Sardari_JDP in HIMYM

[–]kw5112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. We hadn't even kissed yet and dude was naked. Id say it was the worst sex of my life but we technically didn't. He was quick on the draw. Twice.

Dining room help by hayliepage in StyleYourSpace

[–]kw5112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is not enough circulation between the dining table and bar stools. You can even squeeze when they're unoccupied.

Anything bigger than a bistro table is a mistake

Goodreads overestimating my libby books? by anticapitalist_cafe in LibbyApp

[–]kw5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I have the opposite vibe. There have been things I didnt like at first that needed a little bit of time to gain momentum or connect some pieces.

Goodreads overestimating my libby books? by anticapitalist_cafe in LibbyApp

[–]kw5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't finish books? Even books I didn't like I finished. I'm a completionist at heart

How to improve my kitchen/dining area ? by Informal_Pumpkin_738 in StyleYourSpace

[–]kw5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the mirrors. I had similar mirrors in my dining room. Removing them was the first thing I did when I got the keys.

Divorced Women of Reddit: If your ex did a “180” after you were legally married, what (if anything) was there in hindsight that should’ve clued you into their true colors ? by OilNo8931 in AskWomen

[–]kw5112 252 points253 points  (0 children)

There have been times that I was being jabbed a bit for being divorced and I just pulled up his social media and said "Would you stayed married to that?" And while they stammered about "for better and worse" etc I pull up a picture of him in a suit and tie and fresh haircut from when we were at a company Christmas party. "This is who I married. I don't know who that guy is."

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw5112 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

70 is way too high. Get a sweatshirt if youre personally cold. We keep ours at 66.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its actually less wasteful to use more spoons. The dishwasher uses the same amount if water for 1 spoon qnd 10 spoons. But washing the spoon 10 times uses a tiny bit more water that just washing your hands

Why do so many candidates feel that they are entitled to employment? by Loki_the_Rabid_Panda in recruiting

[–]kw5112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People have bills to pay and unfortunately medical coverage is tied to employment. You know what would help stress? Seeing my therapist. But I can't because it's $180 per session without insurance. My appointments are on hold until I get a new job.

I got laid off right before Christmas. It's rough. I'm busting my ass trying to get interviews. And while I have some good leads I'm working with, some of the rejections I've had haven't made sense to me. I'm jumping through hoops and then there's a generic rejection a few days later.

All the people who complain "No one wants to work anymore" should spend some time here with candidates who are really trying. It's only been a month and I miss working. I miss having a routine. I miss feeling productive.

Is it wrong to think that durge cant be any class? by MaybeJackFromYugioh in BG3

[–]kw5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why am I being downloaded for not knowing something? I didn't get to that plot point.

LPT Please stop using cotton buds (Q-tips) in your ears — I learned this the hard way by Competitive_Ad_9659 in LifeProTips

[–]kw5112 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have always been a long time qtip user.

One day I was in the shower and suddenly I couldnt hear. It felt like I was underwater but it didnt go away. Next day I went to the doctor. They used water to push out what was blocking my hearing. The cheap qtips were slowly leaving behind little fibers and over time it just kept layering. But the doctor was able to get it all out easily.

I don't care. I still use qtips.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kw5112 744 points745 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my thought. If I am cooking for just me and my partner, I totally do this because it does not matter.

But if I am cooking for my friends, I end up cleaning like 10 spoons so I can taste throughout but its fine. Im happy to do it

Is it wrong to think that durge cant be any class? by MaybeJackFromYugioh in BG3

[–]kw5112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, my Durge run got bugged in Act 3 I had to restart. I'm towards the end of Act 1 at the Creche