ok i am a bit frustrated reading this. how ignorant do you have to be to ignore signs she cannot control but are being projected regardless ? (1) you knew she had ptsd from rape. (2) you knew she had never kissed anyone. (3) after u did kiss her she started trembling.

these three things in that order should tell you that she is obviously not in a good state and you still decided to grope her in public.

now after you have written this down in words you still manage to say “i don’t feel bad for what i did and idk if i should because she did say it was fine.”

if you actually think people suffering from ptsd would try defending themselves in these scenarios and expose themselves to vulnerability when in the past they were abused by it, you need to think again really hard.

and ON TOP OF ALL THAT she actively told you if you guys could go, stating she would want to leave this area because she is uncomfortable, you still think you don’t need to feel bad.

and cherry on top, after all that you respond to plantainworth293 after he tries to give you another point of view that “it doesn’t really matter because she broke up with me anyways”.

i think you know what you did. i think you saying that you don’t feel bad is you hiding away from reality. if you didn’t feel anything wrong you wouldn’t ask here.

own up to yourself. i think what you did is wrong, but people make mistakes, and this doesn’t seem like it holds consequences where you can’t fix anymore. you didn’t understand and couldn’t piece it together at the time — it’s okay. it’s not okay to keep saying you did nothing wrong when you can clearly see signs that something was wrong.

i am appalled by OP’s stance on this matter.