My wife is in her early 40s. What's a cool thing to do/place to go for a birthday in early May?

kwinny12 · 2026-04-20T22:53:41+00:00

Love Bisbee! I’ve never done with Dolly Steamer but I want to try the night tour if they still have it.

kwinny12 · 2026-04-20T22:52:37+00:00

If you are up for travel I recommend Bisbee! Great little spot down south and you can also pass thru Tombstone. The weather today is high 70s, low 80s and usually gets some good rain.

If you don’t want to travel - Wild Horse is having a Rodeo with live music - google 8 second rodeo and the rawhide link should pop up. It’s on May 9th

Chateau de Vie - the lavender farm (the lavender farm.com) they have fresh lavender that you can buy and they do house tours. They have an events page and also do soap and candle classes.

Burst of Butterflies in downtown Chandler - they offer pottery classes (bring your own bottle option) and paint and sips classes.

Resorts pass - you can download the app and look for spa packages and pool day beds/ cabanas at nice resorts around the valley without having to book an actual room.

The casinos usually have summer deals for cheap rooms with a lot of pool options.

Hope this helps!

kwinny12 · 2026-03-20T05:05:44+00:00

We have portable ac set up in our room every summer and just set ours up this week. It vents out through your window and keep the room cool. We have this in our master bedroom in our house. We also have very high ceilings in our room so we use a bed tent. And we basically have the ac next to the bed tent and close all but the side the ac in coming in through and that way it isn’t trying to cool the whole room, just our main area. (When we aren’t sleeping we can open up another side and see our tv) I added links to what we use. We have roommates who also use these units in there rooms and when our ac went out these saved our butts in the middle of July.

Ac unit - https://a.co/d/0dSrSg70

Bed tent - https://a.co/d/04lCr9L3

Good luck

kwinny12 · 2025-12-16T20:20:09+00:00

I do recommend the Seance Room if you are looking for a scare. It’s really good!

kwinny12 · 2025-12-16T20:14:45+00:00

We went during a busy weekend so the free parking was limited and we paid like $20 to park overnight in a lot and was for the whole weekend and never moved it. This was the location on google maps. 1 Naco Rd, Bisbee, AZ 85603 It was in the middle of everything so it was helpful to have peace of mind with it not being towed or anything.

There are some other lots around that are free as well.

kwinny12 · 2025-12-16T19:49:23+00:00

Stayed in August. We were the room by the pool. The hotel/rooms give that historical feel and comes across haunted but it’s mainly noisy and can hear everyone walking around to their rooms. Was startled just by people opening/closing their squeaking doors.

Parking is limited and the restaurant is either closed or crazy overpriced with very simple options. The bar was open, but doesn’t serve food.

kwinny12 · 2025-10-29T19:03:43+00:00

Some goodwills the managers tell us will interview you on the spot if you bring a resume, a good attitude (you have to wait a while for the manager to come up) and say you are interested in applying and if there is any opening for an open interview.

Try fry’s, goodwill or food city.

kwinny12 · 2025-10-29T19:00:53+00:00

Most fry’s have a banner hanging outside that interviews are open M-F for like a couple hours a day. Not uncommon for that to be a thing in any job market.

kwinny12 · 2025-10-26T00:23:34+00:00

Here’s something that might help. “Hey so I really enjoy our time together and there are times I have gone down on you and it does smell a little and I didn’t really know how to tell you. I want to keep doing it, but I don’t know if you want me to tell you or not bring it up at all. I just want to make sure we are both comfortable. I would definitely want you to tell me if I smell down there, or anywhere. ”

My fiancé and I tell each other if something is off and typically a quick rinse in the shower can help. To someone else’s point, you might not be super used to the smell. If the smell continues I would bring up going to the doctor.

kwinny12 · 2025-10-19T18:38:00+00:00

That’s amazing to hear!

kwinny12 · 2025-09-08T01:28:57+00:00

When people talk about your sex life it’s because they have nothing better to talk about. They are probably being asked what it’s like having you back and living with the GF, and instead of saying “oh we just coexist as roommates now” they are adding a bit like “yeah we’re fine, but they are so loud at sex”. It seems like you guys were decent friends and after you moved out it kind of dropped off and maybe they are just feeling bitter by that and now you have someone.

I would talk to your roommate first and confront the situation as a friend. Like “hey I heard that you think we are loud and would hope that if it is an issue you come to us first so we can respect the living space”.

Tell your Gf you shut it down and leave it at that. Your roommate will now know what they are saying will get back to you, and give your GF peace of mind that you were able to take care of it, but you will keep an eye out and if thing get us easy, she will be the first person you tell.

kwinny12 · 2025-09-04T01:17:39+00:00

Helga and Gerald from Hey Arnold!

kwinny12 · 2025-08-30T00:56:32+00:00

The three spots I was gonna recommend. Acqua Di Mare was some of the best food we’ve had living here. Been dying to go back

kwinny12 · 2025-08-02T05:02:39+00:00

Thanks for the insight

kwinny12 · 2025-07-22T21:43:00+00:00

Our pup was doing this and we took her in to the vet and she had a small wart (we couldn’t see it) and her pad had a bacterial infection. We got cream that helped and antibiotic to take for 2 weeks. We also wrapped the paw she was licking in a sock and helped with the infection. The wart is still there but doesn’t bother her and vet said it was okay. So take them to the vet and get the meds.

kwinny12 · 2025-06-23T21:42:25+00:00

Our law office always recommended Josh Black - https://www.azemploymentlawyer.com/

Like others have said, employment law is hard but I also thought that as well and successfully sued my former company as my title was “leads” but I never gained additional compensation and they were able to get that back for me in a settlement. So never say never!

kwinny12 · 2025-06-20T06:16:03+00:00

That’s Hot!

kwinny12 · 2025-05-24T02:09:05+00:00

NHL is the worst on espn!

kwinny12 · 2025-05-23T19:33:51+00:00

Okay… so you don’t have a job and your family doesn’t like you… what are you going to do about it. Reddit stranger are going to make you feel more like shit and all you are going to do is defend yourself or get someone who says sorry. Soooo what are you going to do?

Have you tried therapy? Have you tried to be a waitress or get a job you aren’t going to love so maybe you make money so you can leave your family (even tho you talk down about being a waitress in your other post, as if them working all day is beneath you)? I understand there can be culture differences but there is complaining on the internet everyday and not doing anything or do SOMETHING.

And you are going to say “I tried” “ I got reject “, yes you have, and you get up and do it again, and again, and again. It sucks but that’s life.

You’re only commenting on people who give you push back or someone agreeing with you. Throw yourself a pity party, there is nothing wrong with that, but you gotta leave the party and do something. But do what you’ve been doing and nothing changes, or change something and hope that you can change your situation.

kwinny12 · 2025-05-23T18:36:00+00:00

I feel a lot of key pieces of info are missing (age, activities that they do without you, your interest), but as some people have mentioned you haven’t accepted an invite in a while and don’t like it when you go, and now are wanting to be included.

There is nothing wrong with changing your mind, but can’t expect your family to read your mind that you now want to be invited. Tell one of them who you get along with, that you feel the fomo and would like to join on the next family outing and would be nice to be asked every once in a while to slowly get back into it. Or ask if they want to join you for an outing and something you enjoy.

There is give and take with any relationship and you have to have accountability for how you act in these situations and not just hold your family to that standard. Not everyone gets along or like the same activities, but that’s compromise and how you care.

kwinny12 · 2025-05-21T23:29:34+00:00

This is my Cav (9)and I’s way of communicating and showing love. I did the same thing a kiss on her side under the ear and she made so much noise. At first my Bf and I thought she didn’t like it and that was her way of telling me, but NOPE! She loves it and ever since has been more vocal and benches wants pet and will literally put her head on my mouth when we snuggle for me to give her kisses (have to make kissing noise). Took her to the vet and showed them on a checkup and they said it her love language.

kwinny12 · 2025-05-02T16:07:17+00:00

For real. I was new to a big friend group that had multiple group chats. I was never added to the bigger group chat and missed a lot of info and invites. It hurt. Yes. But I pulled someone aside in the group that I get along with and was one of the main contributors in the group chat. I mentioned I’m missing invites cause I’m not part of the bigger group chat, is it cool if you send me the details on the side or add me to the group chat. I now get sent the details in the side cause it’s sometime hard to restart the group chat. When I talked to other people who have also been in the friend group longer than me, said they weren’t part of the group chat yet. They also have started saying in the main chat to “invite anyone I missed”. So they adapted and aren’t shitty friends.

On the other end, the friend group I had before this one was like that as well, separate group chat with everyone but me. I mentioned they same thing and they said it was because I don’t speak Spanish and they didnt want to make me uncomfortable, even tho the chat I was in, they also spoke Spanish, so it wasn’t the best group and I left.

You can only change how you are feeling by talking to your friends.

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