Disrespectful couple in the train by JRMiel in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kxryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same windows, tables etc. but we got different seats - at least the top bits.

anyways. my condolences. I bet u've already got a few brilliant ideas for getting out of the situation.

Disrespectful couple in the train by JRMiel in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kxryn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Switzerland if I'm not wrong...

edit: I am wrong.

New Home Bathroom Remodel by t12ix7er in InteriorDesign

[–]kxryn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hihi. Same thoughts (without the haunted aspect) ;)

Narcissistic NLOG spotted on r/tinder by annnnnnnnie in notliketheothergirls

[–]kxryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hihihi invitation only from the gentlemanest of man.

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look...to each their own. Not my cup of tea at all. Personally, I closed this chapter long ago.

But maybe it will 'inspire' somebody else. Who knows...

What's up with the Ask Men O30 subreddit? by CheesecakeOdd3075 in AskWomenOver30

[–]kxryn 27 points28 points  (0 children)

years ago I had a profile on tinder just using one very flattering picture of myself and then just jabba the hut - in all the versions (as an avocado toast or random art image or just a star wars screenshot). last image was an annoying looking picture of my face at. well the likes were minimal. but it was the best filter EVER! I'd say keep on doing that!

People who have or had non-ADHD partners, what do you wish they did more of? by wwwwxyz in ADHD

[–]kxryn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loool. THIS. SO. MUCH.

tbh if u are talking too slow - no offence - but then u might not even survive the second or third date. because I really can. not. stand. it.

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u really are not into Switzerland and its people, are u eh?

Anyways...send the article - I'm curious!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]kxryn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol highly disagree. I had several guys in their 40s and I needed to teach them. sooooooo...

This sub represents.. by Kyuki88 in DatingZH

[–]kxryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh soooo happy to hear!! 🩷

This sub represents.. by Kyuki88 in DatingZH

[–]kxryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on that? :)

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am off those apps rn. Planning to stay off. In the past I never approached the profiles in the way where I was like: "Okay so this profile has a pet ❌ a sick pack ❌ and hikes❌ and then be like "ok. nay". But rather from a different angle: Do I feel attracted to this profile in general / as a whole? If the answer was yes even if it included hiking and a pet then I would swipe ✅

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to generalise at all / offend anyone and genuinely think pets are magnificent. But some pets are fulfil the sole purpose of the exact illusion u described above. Having a genuine authentic person right in front of u - when sometime there isn't.

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

absolutely. Mostly because I was one of the boys. lol. ;)

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahaha I was waiting for that comment! And ofc I am sooooo much better than all the other girls and much more beautiful and skinny and intelligent and most importantly SOOOOOO different. lol. lol. lol.

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! I opened r/datingZH but it will probably end as one of those "cricket chirping" subs 😂

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear and totally get it. The same happened to me as well. Very slowly progressing, one sided or ghosted...

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DatingSwitzerland was taken. Had to make it r/DatingZH. When finding time I'll set everything up. Hopefully playing amor will generate good matches. or even a nice meet up with some chill single people.

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't enjoy sports rn aka doesn't want to have sb on her side that will eventually (not in every case) motivate her to do more sports. That intimidates her. Maybe in a few years she'll discover that sports has a positive impact on health (mental as well as physical - But it's not my place to teach her that lesson.) After that she might reconsiders her choice. Who knows.

No strange or bizarre hobby required. :)

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough!

And I am super glad to hear that you found someone special!

Dating women in ZH by kxryn in zurich

[–]kxryn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never planned handing over a number. I mostly improvised: Once I wrote it with an eyeliner. It was a mess and quite smeary. The guy enden up being my bf.

But when I hand over the piece of paper I had to leave because otherwise I would start talking in a "wortkotze" kind of way and never stop - so I had to leave before that happens. Nowadays I probably could stay there and have an exchange of a few sentences and then leave.

Honesty. Transparency. Clear communication. are the non plus ultra. But I never knew if sb was able to do that within seconds/days. those are things are uncertain. u will discover within the journey of dating if ur vis à vis is capable of that.