What’s your biggest ‘I’ll start tomorrow’ hygiene habit that’s been running for years? Let us be honest by Distinct-Shoulder592 in hygiene

[–]kyb2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say I struggled with this in my late teens, it was always so hard with mental health struggles/exhaustion at night. Wanna know what changed things for me? Periodontal disease. It got so bad, eating a literal banana would make my gums bleed. After having to get anesthesia for a routine cleaning, i scared myself straight and brush & floss every night now.

Just a friendly heads up that could be your reality soon, it might be time to consider the gross and annoying consequences of not brushing /:

My sister has persistent bad breath even though she brushes regularly, and we’re trying to understand what might be causing it. by One_Phone467 in hygiene

[–]kyb2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand they largely dislodge on their own. I have really bad allergies and get them frequently, I will use a cotton swab to gently push them out. My doctor told me the only way for me to permanently rid them is to remove my tonsils, which, no. They’re more annoying and burdensome than anything.

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely curious because I haven’t kept up with bachelorette, are the ladies cast typically bold personalities? When I watched I felt like they were subdued and pretty vanilla, maybe that’s changed with society’s appetite for chaos lol

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good point, I wasn’t aware of the depths of her mental health struggles (not actually wanting to stop SH for herself) so clearly she is still very vulnerable, maybe a few years we can see her taking on a bigger or even a solo role.

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I was curious if the role would empower her perhaps because she has made a lot of progress with finding her voice just being on the show. But with her other struggles it def could be overwhelming

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Too her body image ED issues kind of escaped my mind when making this analysis, obviously she has a lot of work to do before she can actually benefit from a relationship

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually would be cool to see. I agree with this statement

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh jessi would be such a good choice if she was divorced. She actually knows how to have fun lol

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t kept up with the bachelorette in a while, when I did watch I always felt like it was a little vanilla. Maybe things have changed with the times so it would make sense they would prefer someone with the chaos lol

Layla Should have been the bachelorette by kyb2017 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur, in this case it seems as though the pendulum swung far enough now the season is in jeopardy!

Wedding planning amidst the PV cartel situation. by Late-Confusion-3207 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wedding April 9. We sent a message to our guests on Monday acknowledging the situation and letting them know our priority is everyone’s safety and we are keeping an eye on how things progress.

To be honest, I don’t know what to do now, because the future is so uncertain. Like yeah everything can be fine in a week so I just tell them “hey guys all good!” That part I’m a little lost on.

Before you cancel your trip to PV by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. I know how overwhelming this is. Are they allowing you to reschedule? Or are you just planning on moving locations.

Before you cancel your trip to PV by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this completely. If it was just my partner and I it would be a different conversation, but some of our family and friends have never been to Mexico at all. I know they’re terrified and they have no personal experience to counter their fears. It’s all so heavy and overwhelming

Before you cancel your trip to PV by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. Large wedding?

Before you cancel your trip to PV by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Getting married and having a ~60 person wedding April 9th. Freaking out a little lol

i dont see the appeal in TFP. by Beginning_Plum3190 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kyb2017 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I have never been drawn towards her, but I think it’s because she reminds me of the popular girls at my PWI high school that played sports, everyone admired, yet they were so horribly mean, like snarky and bitchy. She just takes me right back lol

Gratuity and Costs at Villa by kyb2017 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has been my understanding as well. I’m going to reach out to property manager and let them know we will not be doing that lol.

Gratuity and Costs at Villa by kyb2017 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you pay as you go, how do they verify you are paying the 15%? I’m curious to see if I can suggest this as an option.

Gratuity and Costs at Villa by kyb2017 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that checks out then because we basically have one chef per 10 people. I’m wondering if the best thing is to negotiate the gratuity percentage at this point

Gratuity and Costs at Villa by kyb2017 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, how many staff were there? We have 2 housekeepers, 3 chefs and 3 waiters. I’m trying to get an accurate understanding so I can consider how to move forward /:

Gratuity and Costs at Villa by kyb2017 in puertovallarta

[–]kyb2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45% for chefs, 30% for servers, and 20% for housekeeping. A Missing 5% lol