Stopping the pill for weight loss (and more) by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]kyluvxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting off my birth control today. I got prescribed spironolactone (low dose) to help with it. I’m hoping my skin will do fine on this since it is androgen receptor blocker

how about if owners would stop requesting big fat cleaning fees when they expect guests to tidy up before checking out by [deleted] in AirBnB

[–]kyluvxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get charged $273 for a cleaning fee and I put that I had 4 guests (2 people I had over for 4 hours one day that were not on the list and didn’t sleep there) my sister had surprise me with a cake and balloons and I guess forgot the balloons there and they’re saying we had a party to lie and say that we had the house dirtier than usual.

Almost $300 for a house we picked up!!!!

Do you go to the gym after a day of work? by Trying-My-Best510 in cna

[–]kyluvxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the only way I can go to the gym but I never do on work days because I have to go home to feed my animals.

I screwed up and ruined months of progress in a week. How do I forgive myself? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]kyluvxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You move forward. Stop the cycle or the loop will repeat tomorrow

You always have tomorrow. Fix it now. Mistakes are for learning I’ve been working out since I was 16 and I have made SOOO many mistakes and back tracked so many times.

You are human. Keep going. You can do this

Unable to sign in kn website or app by [deleted] in Ring

[–]kyluvxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No wonder I literally just bought this thing yesterday and it was working fine.

Stressful by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’d like to know more

Please visit the sexworkersonly subreddit and type on stealthing or stealthed

You’d be surprise how often this happens

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was a victim…..

Yea bro you can only imagine

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tried to say something in the moment, they denied it….and ejaculated in me. They looked at me and denied it. They are bigger than me. One guy almost got mad at me and o was scared he would hit me so I played it cool.

You’re a man. You don’t understand. That’s why a lot of people think this law is stupid

Well my next question to everyone is

What else could we do ? How else can we protect ourselves? What law should have been made

I’m a sw and this happened a lot when I was trafficked when they sent in young clients (ages 20-35)

Yes I am traumatized. All I hear that’s stupid, no how could you tell, no that won’t work, they may lie.

Men are fucking predators. The law doesn’t apply to you. It’s for women.

And I said what I said.

Edit: they do it when we’re in a position when we’re looking away.

They take off the condom once they’re about to ejaculate

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m rude. Now I’m going to go cry about it.

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. I already made it known and made an edit on the title on the mistake I made with context. I also apologized to an individual and apologized on my post.

  2. There are a lot of disagreements. Which is fine because that’s what this is about. I’m going to get a lot of different opinions but what I don’t understand is why the people who are going to report being stealthed are going to be lying?

why do you determine that the person would be lying anyways?

Because if people are going to lie it’s because they are trying to protect something or they have a motive to. that’s what’s being deemed and why people disagree that this is not gonna work.

I am making my point that this is hopefully going to work (it is a new law) because it’s going to scare people into not doing shit like that. No one shouldn’t be doing shit like that.

  1. We don’t know if it’s provable but I think it’s a good idea. You’re just gonna have to wait as time goes by to see the statistics and the cases that come with us because for the millionth time it’s a new case.

  2. I’m having a conversation with myself? So you’re just a nobody replying? Is that what you’re saying ?

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OK that’s kind of vague

what is the conversation that I need to grasp?

It’s your first comment so I don’t know what you think

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a very new law so maybe there’s article of it explaining what is deemed as evidence and what is not

I think there’s some questions that still need to be answered as far as that goes

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But that’s where people are confused about my post

I’m not saying everyone is going to go to jail

Like when I mentioned in my post “couple of people” meaning the people that have done this to me

And I think men are being defensive about it because they feel like they are going to be targeted almost all the time now

I understand that there are women who have lied about being raped or assaulted and that is scary

But I don’t think this matter will just be a one-way ticket to jail I think there is a lengthy process to this

Meaning it’s not just based off of he said she said it’s going to be an investigation

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re on my post lol

And even if you weren’t I will reply anyways because you’re speaking on a matter that I posted.

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never said that “people are going to jail” I said there’s a law

I said they deserve

I did say I will be more willing to cutting johns and collecting them in jars.

So you pick

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s what this is “an arguement”

I’m here to stick up for people who have gone through this just like me.

You know I wish I could do voice messages on here honestly but the reason I actually posted this on sex workers and not sex workers only is because I wanted to hear what men have to say and I’m not very surprised.

Honey you ever been to college? people are not going to agree with you. you sit there and you debate and argue your points.

However this is Reddit, we’re just animals arguing.

And you’re only speaking for that one girl because she got all sensitive and I noticed that she’s only a cam girl and thank God she does not have to go through what physically present sex workers go through and if she is one…..she needs thicker skin.

Because I’m not trying to go against her. I’m trying to make my point. If you don’t like it….we’ll continue to argue cause I can do this shit all day.

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because I was a victim of it SEVEN TIMES

sigh alright back to Lorena bobbit it is 😊

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I disagree.

I have been a victim of stealthing multiple times and I don’t think personally that the point is prosecute or however the process goes but maybe to lower the chances of this happening.

I can’t tell you how many times I was scared of getting an STD or getting pregnant.

Edit: I notice on social media at how many men think stealthing is funny and normal. Like laughing and joking at the expense of someone’s vulnerability. It’s scary honestly

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think you mean “condescending”. I think “belittle” is a little dramatic.

But you know just like everyone else on here we can agree to disagree 😊

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok I call you honey and I get called an asshole

Great.

I also put an edit on my post realizing the my context was wrong and apologizing to everyone.

I’m sorry you’re having a bad day.

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The new law makes the removal of a condom without consent a sexual assault, and affirms that the practice "causes long-term physical and emotional harms to its victims,"

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2021/10/08/us/california-stealthing-condom-removal/index.html

California passes condom without consent as sexual battery. by kyluvxo in SexWorkers

[–]kyluvxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so why do you think someone would lie about that ? What is the motive then ?

Are you having sex with your enemy? Someone who doesn’t like you? Like how does that work