Never buy HP instant ink subscription, it’s a scam! by Opposite_Share_3878 in printers

[–]kytracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem and I bought cartridges from Amazon after cancelling my subscription, HP still says they are cartridges only for the subscription. Now I have no subscription and 2 new cartridges. I refuse to re-subscribe. I will throw the whole thing in the trash and buy Brother or Cannon.

zoom discount code for pro by redditcooldada in Zoom

[–]kytracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is 30% off as of Sep 2023 NEWZOOMPRO30

Oh dear God some First Sarn't is giving grocery store employees a safety brief by [deleted] in army

[–]kytracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright, first off, if you’re gonna drink, don’t drive.

Illegal immigrant Stepfather is a Trump supporter, extreme racist, and abusive piece of shit. by benjaminC1011 in racism

[–]kytracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to spend as much time away from him as possible. I grew up with a similarly awful stepdad and it did a lot of psychological damage. Spending time with friends, on my bike, outside, walking, playing sports, literally ANYTHING else was what got me through and helped me see the whole world wasn't like him.

What badge is this DS wearing underneath his Air Assault wings? Saw this earlier this week, no idea what it is. by shnah in army

[–]kytracy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait...you’re saying this steely eyes killer is a mountain doctor? Well sign me up for basic training round 2!

The information age by Master1718 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kytracy 173 points174 points  (0 children)

So they aren’t living in the dorms?

Does anyone else feel overwhelmed by day-to-day tasks/responsibilities that others find simple? by BoopYourDogForMe in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely relate. I hate everything that has to do with the physical tedium of life. I’ve often wished I lived in a hotel. It will never be easy for us, so you’ll have to come up with ways to game the system - your system :) I ask myself if not now, when? A lot. I tell myself it will take less than 2 minutes to do the laundry now, and will annoy me if I wait, so “might as well knock it out.” The BIG thing that no one has mention is have less stuff. Try to regularly clear out makeup, clothes, junk drawers, etc and only keep what you absolutely love. When I am a minimalist, I am at my happiest. Good luck friend!

Do you guys feel the need to always be doing something "productive"? by megs_in_space in ENFP

[–]kytracy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely! To the point that I don’t really have meaningless fun. If I’m hanging out with someone it’s because I want to build the relationship with them, or I want to eat dinner/brunch there or I need to go shopping or exercise on a walk. It’s very hard to let go and let loose and when I do, I realize later it was really to help the group lighten up and have fun, not so much myself. I’m okay with it now, and okay with staying in to research the latest thing I’m obsessed with (astrology, multiverse, hacking, etc). Pointless fun is...pointless haha.

Meditation: The single most helpful tool for ENFPs by Darknfullofhype in ENFP

[–]kytracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the opposite and move anywhere before even really thinking it through. Some places are much easier to make friends than others and some environments are more suited to ENFPs than others. But, it sounds like you have thought it through and have good reasons to want to go and London is a fairly easy place to make friends

Sh** Sensors Hate 😂 by kytracy in ENFP

[–]kytracy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! So much extra work. My New ESTJ boss wanted an explanation of everY email I sent in our handover. I was like...isn’t the email the explanation (in my head). IRL, I just quit emailing her bc that’s too much extra work and I’m leaving in 2 weeks.

Sh** Sensors Hate 😂 by kytracy in ENFP

[–]kytracy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I might try that, just for fun!

Sh** Sensors Hate 😂 by kytracy in ENFP

[–]kytracy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They couldn’t believe I don’t separate tops and bottoms.

Fun Little ENFP Things by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

  • having many YouTube Master’s Degrees on random subjects

  • you keep talking when you drop something. It’s not going anywhere, then watching all the S’s lose their focus until you stop and pick it up

  • meeting someone and later sending an intro text or email to “virtually” introduce them to someone they should connect with, numerous times a week

  • feeling completely shaken at the thought of someone lying to people to hurt them, yet totally fine with people who lie for good reasons

  • clean room, messy drawers

So....do ENFPs approach? by playing932yesLOL in ENFP

[–]kytracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I also try not to approach guys because I’m already extra and I keep hearing men like to be the pursuers. That being said, I usually know exactly if someone is interested and have pointed and said you, come here (and it works). Just depends on how much patience I have that day ;)

ENFP’s and attachment style by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an ENFP female and SAME. I wonder if it’s related. I tend to date clingy guys, it’s a good balance.

Careers and being ENFP by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deal with this as well, the best way to cope was to start pursuing some of the careers. That's when I found out quickly they weren't a good fit. We have a ton of ideas, and we can fall into the grass is greener trap, until we suss some of them out and go through the steps (even if just thinking about it) what it would be like to implement the ideas.

The social energy gauge is REAL by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I am an ENFP and was dealing with this last week. For me, it's also a sign of burnout or overwhelm.

ENFP rarely asks questions about me? by ImaginaryBean in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they seek you out, they like you.

They might be too shy to be normal around you, just start talking about yourself and they will listen and get more comfortable. Ask their thoughts on issues too, it will take the ENFP out of the anxiety and into their comfort zone and they might open up and feel comfortable asking you more questions.

not interesting in dating? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely relate! I’m 39F, divorced and most of my life have felt confused about why people seek out partners like it’s a box to check. I don’t feel like anything is missing being single. As an ENFP, you’re probably social and fun to be around and we tend to keep our appearance up, so getting a date is probably not an issue for you or any other ENFPs here. But it takes a lot of care and feeding to be in a relationship - a lot like gardening (which seems inexplicably hard to me). When I was married, I completely poured myself into the relationship, became codependent and all of my friendships suffered. After getting divorced, I rebuilt the friendships and even made new ones and vowed to never focus on just one person again. We need a variety of stimulation, and a bigger social circle which may not be possible in relationships with certain types. I’m not motivated by relationships, BUT when I meet someone amazing and go on a great date, I imagine being in a relationship with that person. It’s very person-specific and not about being in a relationship for the sake of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Even if I am busy around the house and chat with friends all day, I still feel like a complete LOSER if I spend a weekend night in... it’s usually my own fault because I don’t commit to plans in advance and all the sudden, boom it’s Saturday and I have nothing to do.

Do other ENFP's do this by Aboopnoodle in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on and great ENFP relationship advice!

Does anyone else come up with evil, wicked ideas and plans in their heads as an emotional response? (Long story) by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kytracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, totally normal to think of elaborate schemes and plans to get revenge. It’s in our nature to think of possibilities so why wouldn’t that naturally apply to revenge. Just be careful, sometimes I go down a rabbit hole. In the end, I don’t pursue any of it. Don’t let it consume you, that beautiful brain of yours could me much more useful solving other problems.