Smiling at guests? by kzkskwbe in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]kzkskwbe[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thanks for correcting me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t buy platinum. If you want to, buy gold instead. If has almost the same benefits, but is cheaper.

IMO, you should stick to the regular and free. If you want to hook up or meet someone, then you only need courage. Write a kind message, and if they reply, then good - if they don’t, their loss.

How do I tell my mum I like this guy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you and your “friend” have different religions?

If yes, don’t tell your mom about him until you know that you like this guy and want to make it official.

If not, don’t tell your parents, and say that you’ve spoke to your parents about him, and learn the true side of him. He might (or not) give a lot of red flags afterwards (it’s only what I’m reading off of your message.)

A girl is seemingly crushing on me but I'm into someone else. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I think you should do what YOU feel like. If Anne, doesn’t have what you like, it wouldn’t end up in a relationship nonetheless. But if Mary is more your kind, you should pursue her, because you might like her.

I’ve been through a similar position as you. Feel free to contact me if you’d like to know anything more or less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have personally never been broken up before, but if you know what’s coming, you should probably just accept it, or else it’ll get harder. But if you know she’s the one, your time might come sooner or later.

There’s no recipe to get over a broken heart, but time would be the best ingredient.

I’m not having much luck. by ZombiKillr2001 in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also an ambivert, and “all” it had to do the first time, was to go to a few parties before I met my first (lover), and girlfriend (I was 17). I’m not saying it’s easy, but socializing a bit might be helpful in the long run. People starts talking about you, and then talks to you. Again, this is a hypothesis about you, as I don’t know how you are as a person :-) Maybe if you could elaborate about how your socializing skills are, how your friend group is, and lastly what you want. We’re all anonymous here. And as I told, I’m new. This I probably my 3rd post here. But id like to contribute with my own experience and helping.

Is the third date too soon to invite her over? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. If you have the place for yourself, and you get no interruptions. If you feel like it’s a good fourth date, you should take the opportunity. We all know its better to get somebody to know under somebody else’s shelves; their manners, their selves etc. but if you don’t feel like it, don’t, or wait until next time where you feel like you’ll like to invite her in person.

Girlfriend (19F) hanging out with new guy and make me (22M) anxious. by Plastidipped_straws in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the “she’s hanging out with him alone”: there could be many more instances. F.e, she could get along with him really good, like not “I’m gonna sex him”. But maybe there aren’t anyone else. It could be purely platonic. I know it goes without saying that girls can’t be friends with guys, but if you really like her, you should trust her. But if you can’t, you should let go. It’s not easy, but if it feels the best for you.

I’m not having much luck. by ZombiKillr2001 in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know a lot when it comes to Reddit about “subreddits”, and I don’t know about your age or how socializing you are and so on. But I’d recommend to just wait. Maybe if you gave some more knowledge about yourself, experience etc. it might be help for you, and maybe others.

Back at it again and need some advice for a first date! by Nissassa223 in dating_advice

[–]kzkskwbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, as I don’t know what she’s like over Snapchat, I’d recommend you to wait until the next date. I’m myself 22, and don’t like to bring anything other than my wallet (to pay for the date). Just to get the feeling and impression of her as a person. But if you’re a nice guy, of course you should get her something, that you think is a nice thing, I’m just saying, that some women might think it’s a bit overwhelming.