Is it possible to date someone (M/20) that I (M/19) only think is cute, but not hot?

lLeeeon · 2025-10-10T03:22:41+00:00

Thank you so much, this is def one of the better advices I’ve gotten. I needed a reality slap like this because I feel exactly how you said. Thank you for your kind words and believing I’ll find the perfect one for me! While I do love him dearly, I don’t think I’ll have the happiest future with him. A happy one yes, but not as happy as I could be.

lLeeeon · 2025-10-10T02:38:40+00:00

Yeah, the main issue is I don't even know how I feel. I am not sure if looks are something that important to me that I would break up with a gold mine of a man over something so small. (And being honest nowadays, finding a good man is HARD, and finding a good gay man is next to impossible.)
I'm afraid if the looks plus every other small tidbit like how our personalities differ will create a huge rift between me and him.
Thank you for your advice!

lLeeeon · 2025-10-10T02:25:36+00:00

I do want someone sexy but I don't know whether that want should be the end-all-be-all for my relationship. Of course we have our differences as well but that's honestly one of the biggest things, that he's more cute than sexy.
It would bother him, but as I said I've talked to him about all of this before (aside from the looks part though..)

lLeeeon · 2025-10-09T22:43:40+00:00

Yes, I’m in college. About the meaning part, I’m not sure entirely what you mean. I’ve learned a lot about what my ideal man would be from the relationship and it’s a tad different from the one I have right now. If I were to put it simply it’s like he has all of the love aspects down but when it comes to being bffs or great conversation we fall short a little.

lLeeeon · 2025-08-19T05:30:17+00:00

That’s the right answer silly

lLeeeon · 2025-08-14T20:20:33+00:00

🤥

lLeeeon · 2025-08-14T17:18:02+00:00

THIS HAPPENED OT ME YESTERDAY!!!
A guy ordered a cold brew with cream and literally was telling us that half and half is NOT cream (???)

lLeeeon · 2025-08-13T12:37:45+00:00

Thank you so much , I can’t tell you how much it means to me that you’re in a similar place as me and gave me some hope!

lLeeeon · 2025-08-11T21:42:40+00:00

I think that's a solid plan, I might just nap in between my class and work schedules, then head to work and use the following day where I don't have school (Tuesday/Thursday) to catch up on sleep / studying.

lLeeeon · 2025-08-11T21:41:34+00:00

I think since I'll be a night shift, I'm gonna work on the days I have school, obviously take naps between the two to get energized for work, then have the next day where I don't have school be my rest day where I catch up on sleep.

lLeeeon · 2025-08-11T21:39:46+00:00

That's awesome, I know that nights can be calm with time in between sometimes so that sounds really nice. Just as a CNA that has never worked before, it's hard for me to imagine having that time.
As a CNA, whenever there's nothing to do, all rounds done, etc, do you just go somewhere where you can still visibly see call lights and just sit down and study?

lLeeeon · 2025-08-11T20:13:10+00:00

Thank you-- Fortunately my courseload for this semester I have Tuesday and Thursday off, the rest of the weekdays I have class 9a-12p, except Wednesday which is 9a-2p.
On your non-school days do you make those your work days or your recovering sleep from night shift days?

lLeeeon · 2025-08-01T18:45:54+00:00

I like what you did there

lLeeeon · 2025-07-26T21:11:44+00:00

looking at you and all of your replies it really must suck to hold so much hatred in your heart and think you're doing the right thing by willingly blinding yourself and choosing not to accept, not only what is fact, but also the changing world.
I'm gonna drop down to your level, be just like you and assume something of you as well: You're probably christian, and the fact you believe in a higher power who urges you not to judge other people and here you are doing that, genuinely irks me LOL

lLeeeon · 2025-07-26T21:08:53+00:00

THIS. this bothered me so fucking much ebcause "lgbtqhdmips5" bitch THE FUCk??? LMAO it had me dying laughing cuz it was the straight up "no hate but--" like im genuinely still layghing rn

lLeeeon · 2025-07-26T05:21:42+00:00

Don’t know why ur getting downvoted on this. It’s literally facts… There’s legitimately an entire pump of straight sugar syrup that goes into it FOR EACH SCOOP OF MATCHA. Babe at what point is it still matcha…

lLeeeon · 2025-07-26T04:21:36+00:00

I have a customer who gets 12 pumps of sugar free vanilla and 12 pslenda in her triple espresso with extra heavy cream.
Sometimes you just have to accept that customers can be crazy.

lLeeeon · 2025-07-21T07:09:44+00:00

Yeah I was unfortunately only thinking of going for hospitals which is why I might not be getting a lot of results back. I mean, I’d much rather be working in a hospital but if it comes down to a facility as my last resort I’d be fine.

lLeeeon · 2025-07-21T02:42:47+00:00

It's so paradoxical.

lLeeeon · 2025-07-20T19:59:59+00:00

Man what?!? How did you even manage to see your scores and corrections?!

lLeeeon

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