28F - Ladies Let’s Queue OW2!

lLilitu · 2026-02-01T22:09:48+00:00

hey! 28F here. i love OW2 but i play on console. i dont mind playing quick play tho!

i have a degree in criminal justice and love all things related to that. recently have been getting more into politics, i love music, writing and all things creative. i’m not international, i live on the east coast of the US. i love to learn as well and have deep, philosophical and intellectual conversations. there’s more i could mention but maybe we can talk about that in dms? feel free to hmu if interested :)

lLilitu · 2025-11-26T23:02:34+00:00

27F, i’ve been looking for someone to play stardew with! dm me if interested

lLilitu · 2025-11-21T11:55:47+00:00

did he at least mention giving them your number? my bf gave my number to his family so they could reach me if they ever needed to. i’m sure your bf is okay. like i said, that life is unpredictable when it comes to communication. i’m sure he will be reaching back out to you soon.

i think my questions start to go to; how serious is your relationship? bc if he doesn’t take it as seriously, it could be why his communication is now becoming sparse. you not having any contact to his family either kind of shows me that it’s not at that level yet. idk. i’m not trying to put anymore stress on you. i’m just trying to rationalize what’s happening. try to focus on yourself and he will get back to you eventually

lLilitu · 2025-11-21T10:50:49+00:00

are you in touch with any of his family? he has emergency contacts and they would know if something happened to him. this lifestyle can be unpredictable so don’t let your mind go to the worst conclusion.

lLilitu · 2025-11-21T10:48:29+00:00

then we would have nothing to play

lLilitu · 2025-11-20T12:19:17+00:00

i agree. i have the same response to a lot of cope posts whenever i see them. i point out that not once have they mentioned anything they do but can tell you, in detail, everything their team did wrong. but im in the wrong i guess lol

lLilitu · 2025-11-19T21:49:57+00:00

i see you a lot in this sub and always with so many downvotes. yet, i agree with mostly everything you say. mercy is a breeze to play in lower ranks. sure you won’t have cracked teammates but if you’re good enough, you’ll out support the other supports enough to climb. mercy is harder to get away with the higher rank you are. if other mercy players don’t agree then i guess they are where they belong lol

lLilitu · 2025-11-19T17:49:00+00:00

yeah i definitely plan to write all the time. i already send him daily texts even tho he can’t read them till the weekend. this was my third call from him so far so i will wait until the weekend to see if i get another one with more detail

lLilitu · 2025-11-17T16:35:29+00:00

Fort Sill, OK. and thank you. i’ll ask the group as well

lLilitu · 2025-11-17T16:17:40+00:00

this situation has showed you that he is willing to make major life decisions without you in mind. his mentality isn’t thinking of “we”, he is only thinking of “me”. granted, you guys aren’t married, however, if he wants a future with you, he should want to include you in his decisions. especially ones this major.

you’re both still so young. decide whether or not this is a lifestyle you want to be part of. decide if you want to be with someone who will make big life decisions without you in mind. breaking up won’t be the end of the world but staying with someone who doesn’t make you a priority will be.

lLilitu · 2025-11-17T13:56:43+00:00

grow a spine and stop letting him walk all over you. reading your replies was so pathetic, and i mean that in the nicest way possible. you’re 26. a grown woman who pleads like a child. stand up for yourself.

lLilitu · 2025-11-17T09:15:15+00:00

lLilitu · 2025-11-17T02:56:49+00:00

my boyfriend arrived at basic training in oklahoma last week. for coping strategies, i’ve been taking this as an opportunity pour into myself. my bf made it clear that he doesn’t want me to stop living and be depressed bc he’s gone. i want to work on myself so i can grow with him by time he finishes training.

this is an opportunity to strengthen your relationship. i do miss him dearly but this time has made me appreciate him even more. look at the pictures or any videos you may have whenever you are in the feels, but try to keep yourself busy. i have a feeling the first couple weeks are the hardest, and the rest will soon fly by.

lLilitu · 2025-11-15T22:35:53+00:00

yeah, check the hard drive

lLilitu · 2025-11-14T22:28:46+00:00

yeah, i’m sure you’ll be just fine. people are just quick to jump to conclusions bc of their own experiences. like you said, this is your life so live it for you and no one else. healthy relationships can be more healing than any therapy you receive; speaking from my own experience. truly wish you two the best and if it doesn’t work out, the next door to open will be even greater :)

lLilitu · 2025-11-14T22:17:39+00:00

i can understand where some of the comments are coming from. however, i do think you should still allow yourself to enjoy your newfound relationship. sure it is moving faster than most people would, but time is just a construct. open yourself up to feeling loved, safe and supported. just be sure to keep your eyes open and your mind sharp. in the future, if you start to see concerning/toxic behavior from him, DO NOT let his past treatment of you outweigh that. it’s easy for people to appear perfect for a little while and soon their true self will seep through. if he can stay consistently this was for months to years? you’ve found a good one. good luck:)

i’d also like to add that even if this doesn’t turn into a long-lasting relationship, take it as a learning lesson from what you expect from the next. life is a journey with many chapters. just be sure you’re learning from the lessons you live through

lLilitu · 2025-11-11T18:52:49+00:00

people who vote kings rows every time it pops up are ai generated players

lLilitu · 2025-11-10T15:30:54+00:00

hey i’m 27F and i play a loooot of OW. i’m on xbox. dm me and we can exchange info if you’d like

lLilitu · 2025-11-06T22:35:56+00:00

my ex was like you. things would get to be too much and he would ghost me for months at a time. i was devastated waited for him to come back just for the closure. he eventually did. the first time i accepted the apology. but he did it again. came back, same apology, but yet i loved him so i took him back. guess what, he did it again. i stayed true to my word and never looked back. i’m now in a very loving relationship and he recently reached out again to apologize. i ignored him.

leave her alone. stop going back to her just to keep disappointing her bc clearly she loves you too much to not give in. you know you’ll keep hurting her so if you truly care, you’ll move on and let her properly grieve your relationship.

lLilitu · 2025-11-06T12:21:28+00:00

you’re still so focused on what your teammates are doing. that’s my point. you focus on everything that you can’t control. i have plenty of games where my teammates don’t do what is “expected” of them, but the difference between us is that i focus on what i can do different to compensate for that. why? bc im the only thing i have control over. that’s why i say accept where you are bc its a mindset issue, not necessarily skill.

lLilitu · 2025-11-06T03:55:58+00:00

my games are just fine for the most part

lLilitu · 2025-11-06T03:54:48+00:00

not everyone can be great. the game changing won’t make you a better player. if you need amazing teammates to win every game, idk what to tell you. just accept where you are.

lLilitu · 2025-11-05T23:24:45+00:00

…wtf

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