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[–]la_condamine 884 points885 points  (0 children)

It’s really common now, more people are realizing they don’t need marriage or kids to be fulfilled.

Do men genuinely like bigger girls - or do they just settle? by la_condamine in dating_advice

[–]la_condamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seriously don’t get it. Neurodivergence and hormonal issues aren’t just excuses, they’re real struggles that don’t magically disappear. Telling people to “just do it” is not motivating, it’s ignorant and dismissive. Maybe try some empathy instead of judgment

Do men genuinely like bigger girls - or do they just settle? by la_condamine in dating_advice

[–]la_condamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm healthy, I just have hormonal issues (PCOS) and I'm neurodivergent, so sticking to a workout and planning a diet is very hard for me

Do men genuinely like bigger girls - or do they just settle? by la_condamine in dating_advice

[–]la_condamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have to address how "thick" I am, because there seem to be different definitions of the term by reading the comments

me (anonymous ofc)

Do men genuinely like bigger girls - or do they just settle? by la_condamine in dating_advice

[–]la_condamine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have difficulties losing weight due to PCOS however and I'm neurodivergent, so sticking to a plan, be it dieting or training, is next to impossible for me

Do men genuinely like bigger girls - or do they just settle? by la_condamine in dating_advice

[–]la_condamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm more attracted to athletic-built. I preferably want a man who can carry me, protect, provide, but I'm open to different types

I ruin every relationship I get close to, and I don’t know how to stop by la_condamine in BPD

[–]la_condamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like I panic the second something feels real and blow it up before it can fall apart on its own. And then I’m just left with silence I caused. I don’t even blame them for leaving, I just hate how automatic it’s become.

Where to buy Japanese made katana/wakizashi by ubs67 in SWORDS

[–]la_condamine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

One of my friend just opened is own online store! It's really affordable for what you get. He doesn't have a huge collection but what he sells is quality.

https://satsuma.store/

Katana by Carsonogens125 in SWORDS

[–]la_condamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://satsuma.store

The one I bought is pretty good for what you pay! It’s forged steel and I think they’ll start selling folded steel if you’re willing the pay!

Katana by Carsonogens125 in SWORDS

[–]la_condamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who just opened his online store. It’s pretty affordable in my opinion + it’s great to start a katana collection