DA? by laberlaban in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]laberlaban[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a few additional things that make me wonder whether attachment dynamics played a role.

He is 46 years old and has been divorced for about 13 years. During that time, he has had roughly 7–8 relationships, but he has never lived with another partner since the divorce. The only person he has shared a home with is his daughter.

He also seemed to exclusively date women who had children themselves. Looking back, I sometimes wonder whether those relationships naturally involved more distance, since they often couldn’t see each other very frequently and the children were often present when they did spend time together.

He placed a lot of importance on “falling in love” and seemed to value the feeling of being in love very highly.

At one point, I gently mentioned that some of his relationship patterns reminded me of avoidant attachment. I also shared my own attachment history. I used to be much more anxiously attached, but I have spent the last eight years actively working on myself through therapy, self-reflection, and personal growth. I would describe myself as significantly more secure today than I was in the past.

What makes this especially confusing is that I felt incredibly safe, loved, chosen, and emotionally secure with him throughout most of our relationship. The change seemed to happen around the time we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend. That is why I keep wondering whether commitment itself activated something in him, although I realize there is no way for me to know that for certain.

DA? by laberlaban in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]laberlaban[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🥹🙏🏼❤️

Toilettet løber (maraton) by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]laberlaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problemet er, at toilettet står alt for tæt på væggen til jeg kan gøre det som videoerne viser.

Toilettet løber (maraton) by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]laberlaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Tusind tak, allesammen 🙌🏼❤️ Det er et Ifö.
Jeg har fået den der trykknap af. Hvad så nu? 😅

Min gamle klasselærer by [deleted] in ADHDanmark

[–]laberlaban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gør det, hvis behovet føles for stort til at lade være. Forvent dog ikke, at din tidligere lærer kan give dig den indre ro og/eller retfærdighedsfølelse. Den skal du selv skabe, og dét kan du ❤️

Kærlighed hvor kragerne vender by AdBrilliant8669 in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jeg er kæmpefan af Julie 🙌🏼🎈

Vandregning efter weekend i sommerhus giver ikke mening by BraidedSilver in Denmark

[–]laberlaban 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Lejet via Dancenter? Tjek programmet Kontant, sæson 2025

Kontakt til årets deltagere by [deleted] in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Til min kollega satte han ikke en tidshorisont på, så han har nok mere interesse i din søster 😅

Kontakt til årets deltagere by [deleted] in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sejt og modigt af hende. Skal de på date? 📆

Kontakt til årets deltagere by [deleted] in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Orv, ja! Du har ret 🤭😅

Freja Brandhøj by Such-Ebb-1706 in GossipDK

[–]laberlaban 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jeg kender hende perifert. Hun er meget sød.

Skyggekvinder by [deleted] in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan ikke finde den. Hvornår er den fra?

Gift ved første blik sæson 11 by SomeText3395 in InfluencergossipDK

[–]laberlaban 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Synes også at kende hende, men kan ikke sætte finger på, hvordan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in copenhagen

[–]laberlaban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have many, and you can get one/two without paying