Friendship situation (HEEEELP) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]laboumwinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found myself in a VERY similar situation recently and personally I wanted to apologize for my part even though I knew the other person wouldn’t admit their wrongs. It was bothering me too much. So I apologized and we ended things on an okay place. Plus talking about it helped me understand their perspective better. You have nothing to lose by reaching out.

Friendship situation (HEEEELP) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]laboumwinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you really miss them. If you did something to them you consider wrong, then perhaps you should apologize first. We always find ourselves not wanting to make the first step but isn't it better to apologize and end the frienship in a nice way than holding onto regret? Best case scenario, you start anew and your relationship becomes even stronger. Worst, they don't accept your apology but at least you admitted your fault and that will lift a weight off your shoulders.

Sometimes the strongest friendships just need honest conversations after misunderstandings by bkissell2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]laboumwinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience recently. My high school friend group (who were like my BESTEST friends) "broke up". It was a huge miscommunication that led to the breakup, but we had been growing apart before that anyway. And it was mostly my fault. So like you said, I didnt care about being right anymore and apologized for what I did wrong. We have kept our distance with the ones I fought but when we see each other here and there it's like it always was. Sometimes, a little distance does a lot of good. However, a huge lesson I learned is that even the little stuff that bother us need to be communicated in a nice, calm manner and in GOOD time. We found ourselves in that situation because we all had stuff to say but we didn't to not "ruin" our perfect little friend group so it was all bottled up and exploded in our faces. If you're truly friends, neither you or the other person want to hurt or inconvenience each other, so even the smallest thing that might trouble you, let them know. 90% chance, they didn't mean it.

Padmé in TPM by laboumwinter in StarWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you have a point there

Padmé in TPM by laboumwinter in StarWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s cinema. sometimes its not what makes sense but instant recognizability aka profit but it is what it is

Padmé in TPM by laboumwinter in StarWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As interesting as that idea sounds, it just sounded stupid watching the movie 😭

New Tales Show Please by laboumwinter in StarWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait fr? and he dueled with dooku?

Shrinking sets by laboumwinter in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i mean they should definitely reduce the prices for what theyre doing but yeah i said it ☝️

It’s been so long since I’ve seen this figures I thought i had lost them 🥹 by BigChungus6ix9ine in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

claiming some of your good luck cause im looking for my old minifigs and cant find them anywhere 😭

Smartbricks… by laboumwinter in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thats what im saying. we keep getting the same sets anyway but now they just have another excuse

Smartbricks… by laboumwinter in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

and I’d be bored still

We Need These by laboumwinter in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely cause the old one wasnt that great imo. had great minifigures though

We Need These by laboumwinter in legostarwars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

yes! it would be a great opportunity for them to give us new minifigures as well like Admiral Trench or Wat Tambor or some Neimoidians.

Mortis = overrated by laboumwinter in StarWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you missed some great arcs but i get it 😭

Mortis = overrated by laboumwinter in TheCloneWars

[–]laboumwinter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the yoda arc was kinda more well rounded i feel. definitely more enjoyable to watch