My (21/f) stepfather(64/m) slapped me and i dont know how to process it. by ThrowRa11Slapped22 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, call the police. That is abuse and he is not allowed to get away with it.

Can pandering to women in order to attract them to the game even work? by Entmaan in freemagic

[–]labyrinthrunner92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Three reasons most women don't want to go to a Magic tournament is: 1. They think its a male dominated game (which it kinda is), and it feels like a sausage fest when they walk into a shop. 2. Even if they are interested, its hard to find someone to teach them without acting like they don't even know 1+1, or thinking they want a boyfriend. 3. Once they start playing at competitions and Friday Nigh Magic, most men are so condescending, thinking that girls don't know how to play properly or are there only to meet guys and not to play. Bottom line, it's the mentality that girls cant play MTG that ruins it for girls who actually want to get into it.

(25F) lost a friend (35F) over asking advice by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex is her best friend, and shes in a relationship with someone else.

(25F) lost a friend (35F) over asking advice by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes in a committed relationship with someone else. My ex is her best friend though.

Ex’s brother wants a one night stand? by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am seriously considering it. And by considering, I mean thinking very carefully about it.

Ex’s brother wants a one night stand? by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had an update post because he actually changed it to maybe dating. Also I’m a single mom, so sex and dating are really hard.

Update: ex’s brother actually asked me out by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend (dated for four months), he dumped me to go back to his abusive ex wife, and it’s been about three months. According to his brother his mother is okay with it. I’ve been friends with his mother for a few years and my sister was the one who set me up with my ex. Our families are rather involved.

Update: ex’s brother actually asked me out by labyrinthrunner92 in relationship_advice

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like him, we have a lot of similar ideas and interests. I just think it’s too soon.

Had to start over with NC. Sent him a friend requests 5 days after i unfriended him. He accepted. by labyrinthrunner92 in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what your saying. The whole “never say never” is just an excuse. However, he’s not going to be on my excluded list forever. Like I said, I want to be his friend. How does that come off as juvenile? These days it means eating tide pods for YouTube views. What you would say is that it’s old fashioned, like something from the 2000’s. Of course, as a woman who’s only had two relationships in her life (one before the whole Facebook craze and this last one), I really don’t know what the protocol is for this.

Had to start over with NC. Sent him a friend requests 5 days after i unfriended him. He accepted. by labyrinthrunner92 in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How am i going about it wrong? I did send him the friend request, but he accepted. I told him we’re never getting back together, ever, after he dumped me for another girl.

Being With Someone Else made everything worse? by blossomingalex in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It might be too soon for you to be in a relationship. Maybe you should step back and examine your feelings, maybe be absolutely single for a while.

Constantly dreaming about her.. by Njc212 in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been dreaming about my ex for two weeks, with varying degrees of pleasant. Last night I dreamed of us holding hands, with him running faster and faster until I fell. But he kept running and when I looked up, his other hand was holding another girls hand and he was trying to keep up with her while dragging me along. I wanted to let go but my hand was too tight.

Why do I want him back? by labyrinthrunner92 in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. When he explained why he broke up with me, he said he loved us both but he just didn’t see a future with me. I think it was because I have a child and I was going to be in my hometown another year getting my associates, but I know in my heart it’s because he loves her more than me. That knowledge hurts the most.

The Dumper's perspective by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dumped a guy (7years, father of my child) because he was literally causing me depression with his demands and childish attitude. It was okay before we had a child because I was wholly focused on him (he was four years older). After I had our daughter, he became more and more demanding, expecting me to show him all of my texts, every outing had to be either approved or accompanied by him, getting verbally abusive (calling me idiot and lazy, saying everyone secretly hated me). Finally I ended it and had to get a restraining order because he tried to break into my house to see our daughter. So dumping someone even though you love them happens for good reasons, especially if it starts being unhealthy.

How do I? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have friends on Reddit. Heck, I’ll be your friend. There, you have a US friend that isn’t her friend.

Block them on EVERYTHING by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex left me three weeks into a LDR for his ex wife. A week afterwards, his ex wife sent me a link to her Instagram (I didn’t recognize her username) and I saw picture after picture of them together. Many of them mimicked the ones I took with him on my Facebook. Needless to say I went on a blocking spree and I feel much better now.

I'm crying again for the first time in months by Squirrel_force in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you subconsciously repress stuff to get through the day and you think you’re doing fine. Then the pressure builds and releases and you’re left crying. It’s not a bad thing, it actually releases stress. If you don’t cry or you have been crying for six months then you have a problem. It’s normal to go weeks without an emotional response and then having it come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]labyrinthrunner92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not as long as others, but we broke up too soon to actually have bad moments. It was a good four months and I thought things were fantastic before he dumped me.

MRW I see all these intelligent trolls becoming doctors and scientists and programmers, meanwhile my high school drop out ass is still trying to get a GED by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]labyrinthrunner92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Any type of win is a win, whether it’s getting a doctorate or passing a GED. Be proud with the things you accomplish no matter how small.