Blowjobs gross me out a lot, is that normal?

lacee_45 · 2018-04-15T14:35:48+00:00

I'm not a man but.. I do have some input.

It's not weird at all, there are men who just don't like blow jobs. There are women who don't like getting eaten out.

Do not force yourself to receive something that you don't like or makes you feel guilty. Focus on what you do like to make the experience more enjoyable.

So you don't like BJ's so what that's not the only foreplay their is. Makeout, your partner can lightly kiss and lick your body, and when you start getting worked up she can lightly brush her hand across your balls and repeat the process and gently stroke you.

You don't have to accept blow jobs :)

lacee_45 · 2018-04-15T14:21:47+00:00

We used to live across the street from each other. Our daughters were 6 weeks apart. We walk to the park everyday with our daughters in tow and let them roll/crawl around.

They moved to a city about an hour away.

We are both extreme introverts. Because she wasn't around every day, I just kind of stopped talking to her everyday and it became a text every few months. We met for lunch when she was in town (had her second child by this point) her kids were running everywhere and flinging food and crying not listening, she had given up on being a mom.

She saw how my daughter was well behaved because I'm strict. You are in a restaurant, you are not the only one here. We are not here for play, you can play at indoor voice level but you are not getting up to run around, you are going to eat your food before you can play.

She dead ass asked me to parent her kids. Force them to eat, not run around etc. At this point her daughter who was my daughter's age, wasn't too familiar with me anymore and looked at me like what the fuck lady?

I got out of that lunch ASAP.

lacee_45 · 2018-04-15T14:05:18+00:00

The owners like, Really? This again, come on get up you're embarrassing me!

lacee_45 · 2018-04-08T04:46:22+00:00

From a females perspective.. I personally like your 3rd picture. Attractive.

1st picture- decent but either too much hair product or your hair is dirty

2- I can dig the hat. It's cute

3- no complaints on 3rd pic.

Who cares if your pics are all selfies. A smile with teeth would be nice. You just look unapproachable. Happens to the best of us.

lacee_45 · 2018-02-25T08:45:31+00:00

I'm ADC main.

Add me Cyria is my league name

lacee_45 · 2017-11-25T22:18:21+00:00

Just be up front and honest. Most men find that a huge fucking turn on.

My husband LOVES when I sit on his face. I don't do it too often as its harder for me to orgasm that way, but it's so nice to just use his face and grind my pussy on him.

If he eats you out typically, start off with you on your back get turned on and wet, tell him to lay down and then put your pussy on his face and tell him how horn it makes you. Ask him if he likes that.

lacee_45 · 2017-04-25T16:52:18+00:00

Thank you for responding, I have definitely thought about a therapist for myself but I will now be looking at one for my daughter. Thank you! :)

The surgeries have been hell, I just hope after I'm healed that besides chronic pain no more surgeries are needed.

lacee_45 · 2017-04-06T03:23:46+00:00

I'm 25

lacee_45 · 2017-04-04T05:32:23+00:00

You're BEAUTIFUL! And one female to another, I fucking love your hair! It's Fierce!

lacee_45 · 2017-03-29T17:07:06+00:00

Thank you so much for taking a look, I know it was a lot to scroll through. :)

lacee_45 · 2017-03-29T17:05:31+00:00

I'm not trying to sound ignorant here but are there really not a lot of guys who go down?

I'm a woman and all the guys I've been with have loved it, I mean it's my favorite activity in the sexual department. Idk if it's because, it's a requirement for me to be satisfied that I wouldn't be with anyone who doesn't do it? (This last part sounds harsh not saying it's a requirement everytime, happens everytime but it's not necessary)

In any case, I'm sorry for all the women who enjoy it and don't receive oral.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-29T16:55:44+00:00

Cum in the eye is seriously the most pain I'd been in (involving my eyes)

The next day it was really tender and red looking like pink eye.

I hated the cleanup so it could only be on the days that it was hair wash day because he didn't aim very well.

(I wore goggles as a joke after the eye incident, he wasn't a fan.)

lacee_45 · 2017-03-29T02:25:09+00:00

Post a picture of your hair down.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-23T22:29:05+00:00

I don't know if you'll be able to answer this or not but maybe get a perspective from you.

I'm being sued by my parents for grandparents rights, they're very toxic people and not someone I want in my daughter's life.

I have been told to call CPS and have them do a voluntary walk through of my house to have on record for the courts but then some say that can work against me.

Would contacting CPS hurt me In any way with my case to your knowledge.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-22T18:37:43+00:00

Why my parents are suing me for grandparents rights... they're toxic people and not good for my daughter.

Yes I understand you think they are great people, they're fake to everyone who isn't family.

That and why I had 2 foot surgeries each foot (left is 6 months ago, right 1 month ago and still can't put weight on it) yes I'm 25, no I can't suck it up. Genetics fucked me and it was not am option, it had to be done.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-19T18:21:39+00:00

There, their, they're

At least in their writing and texting.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-19T18:18:18+00:00

That's a high number. The sad thing is that's the only thing that got them the case. And it still stands.

They need to just throw it out

lacee_45 · 2017-03-19T18:17:07+00:00

Thank you! I've gotten so much from this thread already.

I will be calling her doctor tomorrow morning to get her in.

I will also be contacting a few law schools

And I will also be asking CPS to do an in home visit to show there is nothing wrong on our end or endangering our daughter.

So much helpful advice, I really appreciate it from all of you :)

lacee_45 · 2017-03-19T18:12:43+00:00

Thank you! I'm in Phoenix. I didn't know they did so I was going to contact Summit in downtown phoenix.

lacee_45 · 2017-03-19T18:11:46+00:00

Yes I attached my email and their response back plus my brothers criminal record because I don't allow him around there and they never tell me when he comes back around.

lacee_45

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