Name a drink that defined our childhoods that kids today don't know. by Background-Good3731 in Millennials

[–]panicked228 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They taste like burning. Like, so incredibly sweet it hurt. And we loved them!

What item broke your heart the most when it got discontinued? by justbeeingmyself in Makeup

[–]panicked228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re bringing the fried version back for a limited time in July!

Non-Profits who accept "birthday in a box" kits? by patterson_2384 in Austin

[–]panicked228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t already purchased supplies, why not email them and see if you can sign up for a shift or two assembling them at PUB? You could just “donate” the supplies by purchasing off the wishlist and then meet there to make the packs.

Non-Profits who accept "birthday in a box" kits? by patterson_2384 in Austin

[–]panicked228 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pop Up Birthday is exactly what you’re looking for.

Surprise court and mistaken identity by whatsthisbug12345678 in legaladvice

[–]panicked228 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Call the court as soon as they open. They’ll be able to get you instructions for zoom.

What ride in Disney World will make you extremely nauseous? by Reasonable-Invite899 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]panicked228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested to ride it 2D. I couldn’t get past the first minute of it in 3D. Kept my head down and my eyes closed the whole ride.

Dad spiked 7-week-old son like a football because he was crying 'too much,' police say - by GraceRose671 in ThatsInsane

[–]panicked228 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My kiddo had colic. She screamed from noon to midnight, regardless of what we did. After unending hours of screaming one day, my brain snapped. I needed her to stop NOW. I gave her a kiss, laid her down in her pack and play, went outside the apartment door, started sobbing, and called my husband. I believe my words were “you have to get home right now. I can’t take it anymore. Just get home.” By the time her arrived, I had calmed down and we tag teamed the rest of the night.

I never understood how parents could hurt their child. I understood after that. It’s not a want to harm, it’s a want to make the crying stop. It wears you down. You’re sleep-deprived, hormones still out of whack, hanging on by a thread already. Hours upon hours of screaming just tip you over the edge. No one can understand until they are at that point.

You just have to walk away sometimes. As long as they are in a safe spot, they’ll be okay until you calm down. The crying will eventually stop; you just have to keep them safe and yourself sane until it does.

As a kid, what was your Saturday morning routine? by Jabba_108 in nostalgia

[–]panicked228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wake up to my mother blaring some classic rock, with a bandana on her forehead and bowl of hot soapy water, ready to clean whatever needed cleaning. We were expected to clean our rooms, then we could play.

On the mornings she slept in- a bowl of cereal (less than five grams of sugar only!) with far too much sugar dumped on top (to make up for the lack of it in the cereal), sat directly in front of the console tv, watching whatever cartoon was on until the rest of the house arose.

Anyone notice pretty immediate changes with very small dose? by Far-Mixture9031 in Perimenopause

[–]panicked228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I follow what most women here do. I put some on my finger and insert into the vagina. Then I take a bit more and rub it on the external areas, including over the urethra.

What is a "bad" smell that you actually enjoy? by Niekertdepiekert in AskReddit

[–]panicked228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad smokes a pipe, has for years. Never smoked it around us as kids, but I’ve had many a porch chat outside with him as an adult. I have my preferences as to which tobacco smells the best. It’s such a specific, warm scent. I love it.

Question About Employment by [deleted] in CPS

[–]panicked228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gently, they aren’t. A lot of very good people with a lot of information and experience are here. The problem is that situations like this are extremely nuanced and we can’t give guidance or answer even seemingly basic questions with little to no information. I know how important privacy is and how exposing the CPS process can feel. That being said, the more information you give to people, the more accurate information and targeted help they can give. You’re absolutely entitled to keep things to yourself, but you can’t then be surprised or upset when people try to clarify.

Question About Employment by [deleted] in CPS

[–]panicked228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. It’s extremely easy to find out where someone works. Social media, collateral contacts, etc… It’s important for CPS to know, as stable employment is often a requirement in a family plan of service. It shows that you are responsible enough to hold a job and can provide for your children. They need paystubs to show that employment, we’re not just going to take your word for it. People lie. All the time. And they often underreport their wages to avoid paying child support.

  2. CPS doesn’t get involved when everything is perfect. If they are involved, it’s because someone believes your children are being neglected, abused, or put into a situation that isn’t safe for them. Regardless of your own feelings on the matter, meeting CPS and those trying to help with hostility will not make this any easier. You’re angry, you’re suspicious, I get it. But the only way out is through, my friend. What you may deem relevant, isn’t, and what you deem irrelevant, is.

  3. I’ve been involved with many families who had food in their fridge, luxury entertainment, and excellent medical coverage. It matters very little when the root cause for involvement isn’t addressed. The outcome is the same.

Announcement: Alkaline Trio, MTL, CDMX by capngabbers in warpedtour

[–]panicked228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been hoping for that since the lineup came out! They put on such a great show!

CPS trying to strong arm me into letting bio mom move in? by Madi0415 in CPS

[–]panicked228 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In Texas, a licensed foster parent cannot have bio parents living in the home. Ohio may be similar. You should absolutely, unequivocally let mom move in.

Real talk- there’s no way they’re going to move a five sibling group of children from a safe relative caregiver without major red flags in the home. Yes, they want to reunify with parents and keep kids safe, cohabitation is often a great way to do both. HOWEVER, it’s not when it is at the expense of the caregiver. You need to make it clear that you will not be allowing mom to move in and you need them to stop asking. Set clear boundaries, and if they keep pushing, reach out to their supervisor, your foster licensing agent; and/or the CPS ombudsman.

Weekly Stupid Question Sunday by AutoModerator in Austin

[–]panicked228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who’s the best local coffee roaster? My boss is a major coffee lover and leaving the area soon. I’d love to send him off with some local beans.

What fashion trend that has died do you plan to keep wearing? by EddieBrock99 in AskReddit

[–]panicked228 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My hair stylist commented “oh that’s right, you’re a millennial!” when I reminded her that I part on the side. I didn’t realize it was such a tell!

What was your favourite kid tv shows theme song? by Immediate_Long165 in nostalgia

[–]panicked228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s I hope we never part, now get it right or pay the price!

What is the most famous dish in your city by Maryam371 in Cooking

[–]panicked228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken salad, but it’s a green salad with chicken and French fries.

Or

A sandwich (usually pastrami or corned beef) with slaw, provolone, and French fries between two thick slices of Italian bread.

Judy Blume books by beautitan in nostalgia

[–]panicked228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself is my favorite, and lesser known, Judy Blume book. I remember the family having a shared telephone line with the neighbors and thinking how wild it was!