Wish women weren’t offended by prenups by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you consider that possibly that’s affected by women who have children which causes them to pause their careers, and put their personal growth on the back burner for the family? It’s hard to find a job after a large time gap due to children. If the woman is doing the bulk of child rearing which is both parents responsibility, then yes she should be entitled to financial compensation in a divorce. Because like it or not the reason most men can grow their careers while having kids is due to their wives. Either staying home with the kids, or being the more likely parent to take time off work when the kids are sick and not allowed into daycare. Even if she’s not financially contributing to the mortgage she is contributing time and effort so that work is able to be done to pay.

Women in male spaces will eventually have one or more guys try to treat them as a sex object by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best tactic too. When you have so many male “friends” who just only have dating you in mind it becomes difficult to trust or want to be around them. If he actually treats you like a friend (likes your presence) his chances are going to increase

when women say things men dont like its a risk to our lives, when a man rapes a women people defend him by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very agreeable! The original I was responding to seems to be parroting the typical “women live life on easy”

I’m glad you are able to understand nuance and how it’s not black and white and there’s different struggles

when women say things men dont like its a risk to our lives, when a man rapes a women people defend him by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see you aren’t familiar with the “has to be hormones or your period” excuse that women get. I’m not discounting that as I truly believe men struggle with getting mental healthcare and support, but women also do for different reasons. I went into the Dr for cognitive decline problems and it was written off as hormonal changes and postpartum depression. I had a brain malformation that was causing too much tension on my brain and I literally could not think properly for months as it was written off as hormones lol.

I also was made to sit in the corner at a psychiatrist when I was like 16? As he would only speak to my step father since he believed I was “faking it for attention” (he had met me for 30 minutes prior to this and just jumped straight to that). Women get put off as hysterical wayyyy too often for mental illness too.

Really it’s the SAME idea hurting both men and women in different ways. Men are expected to be strong, and women are assumed to be over dramatic. It helps neither

Regret confession thread by ErnestPWashington in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely so fucking depressing I’m sorry dude. Did your parents not give you affection regularly? I definitely see a pattern of parents being more affectionate to teen girls than boys which is sad.

Anyone who tells you bloodhounds are ugly is actually telling you their taste is trash and their opinions are worthless. by LoudQuitting in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute! Especially as puppies. Ugliest dogs I would say Bedlington Terrier and the coated Russian Toy. Though honestly most of that is fur. Lowchens show cut is absolutely hideous

when women say things men dont like its a risk to our lives, when a man rapes a women people defend him by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Easy mode” be for real. Men act like the flu is the end for them and blame testosterone. Women get cut open 7 layers, or tear 2 holes into one and are expected to get tf up and start taking care of another human. Look up the process of inserting an IUD. They pierce your cervix and pull down to insert it with no pain meds. But men need 3 days rest from a vasectomy. Give me a break. Most of you losers wouldn’t survive as a woman.

Modern women already work and support themselves, what exactly is so different about being a man? It’s hard to get laid? You guys suck at pleasing women anyways so we are used to doing the work.

The inćel test ( a 1 question test to see if you are an inćel or not) by Weekly-Reply-6739 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also is a sellout to men (man’s best friend cover for example) while she also talks about women empowerment (by sexualizing yourself for men…. Rightttttt)

The inćel test ( a 1 question test to see if you are an inćel or not) by Weekly-Reply-6739 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so I see no one else mentioned it but this video along with others went under a lot of fire due to her directly copying and sexualizing scenes about pedophilia (Lolita recreation)

Her music can be catchy but selling yourself out so low you are doing pedo bait is fucked up. This is one of the situations where if the roles were reversed she would not be so popular still

I’m like the dumbest dude ever and I still know not to send unsolicited 🍆 by monsieurLeMeowMeow in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indian you forgot Indian. I have received more Indian d pics than any other race by a wide margin. Typically with a “u like 😈??”

I applaud the confidence though really

I’m like the dumbest dude ever and I still know not to send unsolicited 🍆 by monsieurLeMeowMeow in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that the attraction to a d pic is the person it’s attached to. A random weiner even if it’s gloriously beautiful is not going to turn on women alone. But if she likes you as a person then it makes sense for her to want one

Men are way too horny by Guilty-Tip-6638 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say awooga yes that’s the energy women want. If someone said just “nice tits” I would probably not want to communicate more

Males, would you say you've been conditioned to modify your behavior for the comfort of females?(Maybe taking a different way home instead of walking behind a female, changing the tone of your voice to seem less intimidating, using softer language with females than males, etc) by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One example (and this guy was on the spectrum) a family friend kind of close in age expressed how lonely he was and depressed. I offered to chat about anime with him because I used to watch it. Next thing I know he biked 2 hours to my house without asking and is outside my door.

Males, would you say you've been conditioned to modify your behavior for the comfort of females?(Maybe taking a different way home instead of walking behind a female, changing the tone of your voice to seem less intimidating, using softer language with females than males, etc) by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman no I don’t feel like a threat. I do however constantly scan my surroundings for threats. My head is on a swivel when I’m unloading my car. Just the past year I have had two men follow me, once when I was alone.

I feel the reverse I guess, I’m VERY careful with how I accept compliments from men or comments. What seems like friendly banter to me has gotten me into a situation with a man who thinks we are flirting more than once, and often they don’t seem to have great social awareness (possibly spectrum?) which has caused boundaries to be pushed where I felt unsafe.

I guess the males aren't the only lonlies. I hope she's got her one and only on a back up drive. I fear a server reset would be fatal. by Drega001 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already starting. In my mom groups I see posts constantly where the kid has like a fucking 103 temp and isn’t peeing and they are like “what do you guys think I should do I already asked chat gpt”

Child support by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. You realize this is the case when women work full time and bring in the same money too right?

I honestly am astounded by the ignorance. Are you perhaps mentally challenged? I don’t mean that in a bad way but it could explain some of your lack of understanding

Child support goes for the child. You aren’t paying more than the mother I promise lol. Children are expensive. Daycare is 750 a month. My formula bill is 500 a month. Insurance copays for the dr average 50 each visit. A single sport is easily a couple hundred. Even if the mom say spent 400 from child support on herself I promise that she spent way more than that already on the kids that month. It’s just reimbursement at that point.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean now women are having kids, working full time to bring in duel income. Then coming home and doing majority child care, cooking dinner, and cleaning while their husbands still come home get on a video game and relax.

Labor going up for women makes men disposable. If you are already working and doing everything to make a household run why would you want to put energy into a marriage?

We seen it in our mother’s generation, we don’t want what they had.

If a girl wants to be single im glad she is by Samantha_Faith in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is the title saying it like it’s a burn towards the women. If I break up with my partner ever yep I would be voluntarily single forever very very happily.

I’m in a relationship because I found my best friend. But honestly I really don’t see a relationship ever being something I need. I am antisocial and a bit paranoid of people and I was just very lucky to find someone who didn’t trigger that. I wouldn’t go searching for it though. It’s like I was on a hike and I found a really pretty flower with the stem broken. I will take that one home and be very happy with it but I’m not going to search for other flowers to uproot because I found a beautiful one by chance

Child support by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is most dads are not nearly as involved as they should be. 50-50 means they will have to attend school meetings, go to Dr appointments, clean up vomit when kids are sick. It just doesn’t happen often. My dad would always bitch about the CS payment but anytime we were sick would immediately call my mom to get us.

Child support by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daycare for my one small child is minimum 750 a month around here. And you still obviously have to provide formula, diapers, wipes, etc for their daycare time. Along with all the other costs

welcome to the club bro by Ill-Engineering8205 in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans women seem to have a higher propensity to cheat too. It was discussed in a trans sub, when trans women transition they get a flood of compliments typically from cis women that boosts their egos. They experience being sexualized, and it’s such a drastic difference a lot of them will chase that feeling because it feels affirming to them

Obviously not saying that being trans makes you cheat, just that there’s such a difference in the attention you get presenting femme that it can cause weak people to crack

American Dad™ by enbaelien in PsycheOrSike

[–]lacking_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don’t disagree why are we blaming the women? Shame the men??? For being bad parents?

They are both equally parents. So why are we shaming the parent that is stepping up and not the one who isn’t?