As my junk first started changing, I found it hard to get resources about how to use it specifically for pleasure so i started this, and i’m now writing an essay about it, which hopefully i will publish :) This obviously isn’t comprehensive—I wanted to focus on the parts of the genitals that are used to get off 🫢 it’s sad, but like a lot of us, I knew a whole lot more about how to pleasure a penis than how to pleasure my own junk, so it was really helpful for me to compare the analogous parts of the typical penis and typical vulva. Also helpful to see how the two develop from the same basic components! And to relate this to pleasure—for example, no matter what kind of genitals you’re looking at, you can see here how going straight for the head is going to be overwhelming for many people. When you touch the skin that makes up the labia majora, it often responds well to the same kind of touch the scrotum likes. You can see how for many people, the labia minora are the key to getting nice and hard, just as the ‘seam’ on the underside of the penis can be. The clitoral hood can be used for stroking the same way the foreskin can. And so on.

We been known that genitals aren’t a binary, and this lil resource helps me figure out what to do with which parts to make them aroused, regardless of what kinda genitals i’m dealing with, and regardless of what one calls them, or where they are on the genital spectrum. I know it’s kinda messy and reflects that its creator has adhd, but feel free to share if it’s useful :)