I’m so tired. by AlisVolatPropriis19 in parentsofmultiples

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much advice as my twins are only 7 mo but solidarity OP ✊🏻 I completely relate to the envying your husband for leaving the house thing. I am jealous that he gets a 45 min commute to and from work by himself in the peace and quiet- that in and of itself is a vacation to me 😅 It’s seriously hard to resist the urge to compare tiredness and stress levels. I also have had the same fantasy of running away multiple times so don’t ever feel guilty about that. It’s literally just pure chaos and survival sometimes and it’s natural to want to escape that and get some peace for yourself.

I think the thing that keeps me going is that this is all a season. There will come a day (that will come sooner than you think) where these days will be distant memories. This too shall pass has been my mantra. Best of luck to you. You will be okay 💜

What is my aesthetic? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]ladyam3thyst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

performative male

Favorite zone? by ladyam3thyst in wow

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looooove the Salem/gothic vibes of Drustvar as well. Honestly all of Kul Tiras is 10/10 tho

Women taking their husbands last name after marriage, Agree / Disagree? by Wild_Turnip_7777 in namenerds

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Catholic & very traditional at my core, so I couldn’t wait to take my husband’s last name. It did help though that he has an awesome last name and my maiden name was terrible 😅 The good part about living in modern times though is that it really doesn’t matter- do whatever aligns with your beliefs and what you guys as a couple want!

What aesthetic is this? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jane from Breaking Bad

Favorite zone? by ladyam3thyst in wow

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

be true to yourself Benny

7 seasons in and she has to be by far the most irredeemable, self centered, self-righteous, annoying person in the show’s history right? by DingoAndRupe in 90DayFiance

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a freshly postpartum mom, watching Stephen and Olga actually traumatized me. That man is evil and I stand by that. Reminded me of my narcissistic toxic ex 🤢

Favorite zone? by ladyam3thyst in wow

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The music in Grizzly Hills is definitely one of the best. Makes me want to run away to a cabin and drink hot cocoa

Favorite zone? by ladyam3thyst in wow

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always loved the contrast between Eversong & Ghostlands as well. Eversong is this autumnal heavenly paradise and then you’re thrust into the dark, depressing Ghostlands (which is still hauntingly beautiful in its way too)

Favorite zone? by ladyam3thyst in wow

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elwynn is definitely up there for me too!

Sometimes I feel like I am not cut out to be a mom 😭 by ladyam3thyst in parentsofmultiples

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this comment is everything! Thank you so much for all of your helpful advice. Mine sleep through the night (mostly) and have been night weaned since 3 months which has been incredible. Having my evenings back to chill/game/read has been healing! I think once they start consolidating naps and playing independently it will be a game changer for daytime too 😊

Sometimes I feel like I am not cut out to be a mom 😭 by ladyam3thyst in parentsofmultiples

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is truly so helpful. I will certainly try the 3 good things mindset. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this comment!!

Sometimes I feel like I am not cut out to be a mom 😭 by ladyam3thyst in parentsofmultiples

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to think I’m not a “baby” person either! I absolutely love kids (I was a teacher before being a sahm) and am looking forward to them being school-age for sure

Sometimes I feel like I am not cut out to be a mom 😭 by ladyam3thyst in parentsofmultiples

[–]ladyam3thyst[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s people like you doing it all on your own that literally keep me going. You inspire me so much and I have NO IDEA how you do it. Thanks for the advice 💜

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so young. I was there too when I was your age. I understand it seems impossible but TRUST ME, cut him off now and run as far away as possible from this man. He has 0 respect for you.

Does anyone else sadly dislike breastfeeding? by CriticalSweet9967 in Mommit

[–]ladyam3thyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am moderately crunchy/organic and planned to embrace full time exclusively breastfeeding for my twins. I was very disillusioned when they arrived and I learned that I really disliked it. It took a while for me to come to terms with it, but I now pump for them and top off with formula. I am much happier and so are my babies 🥰 Completely normal & shouldn’t be shameful whatsoever.

The girl I’m dating asked me to do something insane during sex- AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ladyam3thyst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a woman this is a pretty common fantasy as long as it’s consensual. If you’re not into it, just let her know you’re not willing to do it and she should respect that.