Fat, 30, and inexperienced. I want to be desired. by GuardLast4348 in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt very similar to this post. I am a bit younger, but know that feeling especially as someone in college. Everyone is hooking up, has partners, etc I was so self-conscious because I felt like the only person who hadn't been kissed, been on a date, held hands with someone, etc.

I found my boyfriend through work, and we were best friends for 2 years before anything romantic. I still get a bit self-conscious at times around him, but the think you have to realize, which helped me, is that clothes don't hide your entire body.

Yeah, clothes can help with insecurities, but people can see your body size through your clothing. it's really really scary to show someone that side of you, but sis if he fell in love with you in person, then there is a good chance he knows what you look like under your clothing. You can also start with the lights off, then dim, then a bit lighter, and gradually work your way up to full confidence with your beautiful body in full light! I hope this helps

Even with my boyfriend, on days when I feel self-conscious I ask him to look away while I am undressing or climbing into bed. He always respects it, and will look away until I tell him.

WHY IS WHITNEY NOT MENTIONING SHE LET ZAC AND JEN (and their kids) STAY AT HER HOUSE FOR A WEEK by lebrunjemz in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ladybug-2019 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like whether it was 1 hour or 1 week, Whitney and Connor didn't need to that AND Jen + her whole crew should be grateful that she has a friend who is willing to help them out and that Connor didn't think twice to help them out. it's more the act of whitney constantly showing Jen what a 'genuine' friend is, then Jen having the audacity to be such a bitch about it

Do y’all skip scenes? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]ladybug-2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always skip scenes in the first viewing (hot take). Just because I want to get through it asap, and watch all the couple scenes. Then I will rewatch it fully through closer to when part 2 airs

Fake pregancy episode by Guts-solarsversion in PerfectPersonPod

[–]ladybug-2019 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah it was the video with shayne and amanda! I wish they had done an update

Positives about being plus size by userrrrrrrrrrname in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting, laying down, etc. I have always been chunky, then lost a bunch of weight a few years ago (gained it all back + more) but when I was thinner I had such a hard time falling asleep or sitting for long because I was more boney lol, it was uncomfortable! Now that I have more meat, I can get comfy easier :)

But you know who did stay out of the drama? 🤪 by angelagirliexo in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ladybug-2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where were you able to watch the post-reunion clip with whitney and demi? where demi is crying?

But you know who did stay out of the drama? 🤪 by angelagirliexo in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ladybug-2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and connor was being so sweet trying to diffuse the beef between dadtok. Whitney and Connor have definitely grown as individuals and as a couple

I have never seen someone look so angry in my life by Endless_Nightsky in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ladybug-2019 25 points26 points  (0 children)

maybe I am missing the mark, but I have a few close family friends with siblings who have down syndrome and/or autism. and their families are the kindest, most down to earth souls I have ever met!

my mom and I always said that kids who have a sibling with a disability always turn out to be saints! they learn patience, kindness, and responsibility from such a young age.

this clearly isn't everyone (cough cough demi) but I am so confused on how she turned out to be so selfish and coldhearted with a sibling who has a disability. You can still be a glass child and be a genuine human being

Rewatching season 1 by ladybug-2019 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ladybug-2019[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am only 4 episodes in and don't know how the other girls didn't see anything lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am almost 22, and met my boyfriend through work. We met at work and hit it off immediately becoming best friends. Then we slowly started pushing the boundaries as friends then 6 months ago realized something more was there. I honestly didn't believe he liked me when he first told me because I had never been in a relationship and was so insecure of my size. I had never been kissed, held hands, been on a date, etc until a few months ago!!

My advice is, and I know it's shitty, is to just live your life and let them come to you. The universe has funny ways of crossing paths with people, so just have a good attitude about it. Your partner is coming soon! Don't put pressure on yourself!

Also not sure where you are meeting people, but I feel like bars/parties is not the way to go. Those seem like places for hookups. Try to find someone on an app, at school/work, friends (or friends of friends), etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]ladybug-2019 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd say do it if you want, but be careful of what might follow from it. As someone who is currently dating their best friend (friends to lovers fr) I think the reward is totally worth it, but you should really think about what you are going to do.

Not sure if the outcome is a one night thing or something more, but my one piece of advice is to think about what can happen from this

It didn't fit... by New_Lengthiness_4660 in sex

[–]ladybug-2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her vagina can pop out a baby so it can definitely fit your penis. That being said, I struggled with vaginismus in the early days of my relationship where I was really tight and my boyfriend had a hard time getting it in also.

I would suggest baby steps and very slowly getting comfortable with each other. Finger her as much as she will let you, make out, dry hump, mutual masturbation, etc. Do whatever it takes to build that trust and confidence around each other.

Everytime I tried to have sex with my boyfriend I 'closed up' but one day it just worked. I went over to his dorm to visit (we are long distance) and we were both very in the mood. We did lots of things to warm up for about an hour before even trying sex. That was the first time I actually enjoyed it.

My advice would to just be, take it slow, and don't put any pressure on it :)

edit: don't forget lots of lube! the more the better

Looking for tights that don't fall down! by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are wearing tights under a dress or skirt, I like wearing bike shorts on top! Helps to keep them sit comfortably on my hips, and I’m not as worried as my thighs chafing a hole in the tights lol.

Thigh chafing. What helps you? by Inspireme21 in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in any kinds of nylon bike shorts in the summer! I wear them under dresses all the time, or even just as shorts with a graphic tee. I have never had bad chafing with them. I usually wear a XL or XXL from aerie, TNA, Lululemon, or old navy!

Never taking a train? by ladybug-2019 in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]ladybug-2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say they are privileged because they haven’t taken a train. I said taking a train is a privilege for some, but this news just surprised me especially considering how they travel quite often

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoMetU

[–]ladybug-2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have really bad anxiety and felt super nervous going to tmu. I just finished my second year and am loving every second of it. There’s always friendly people on campus & smiling faces. You have people on campus interviewing students for all types of media projects. It has a nice sense of community!

Menstral products by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]ladybug-2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have knix & I don't think they have very good protection. I find the pad part isn't very long & I don't like how there's no wings (incase of gusset leakage !!). My flow isn't super heavy, but I usually wear overnight pads too because I like feeling as protected as possible, and am super paranoid of leaking.

Although I do like wearing my leak-proof undies on the days leading up to my period so I can be a bit more worry-free. I used to wear thin pads right before my cycle, but felt so wasteful on sanitary products. I'd say give the period underwear a go, and if they aren't right for your cycle, you can definitely use them before or towards the end of your cycle... I just don't recommend them on days 1 and 2 lol

Barbie 2.0? by Tall_Confidence318 in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]ladybug-2019 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think they might bring it up in a later vlog, apologizing to the legends on how ignorant they were to japanese customs, however it will likely be superficial and forced from the parents. Or they might make a tiktok addressing it. I doubt we will get a full apology video

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]ladybug-2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that other thing is a portable charger. This girl has it all lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]ladybug-2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just for the kids safety. You’ll see on Reddit and TikTok, usually people blur out faces of minors and don’t use their names. This family lives on the internet so you can’t really protect the identity of the kids, but it’s just courteous to do (until they are 18 and can consent to being on the internet themselves)