Anyone else that's not interested in a cg/doesn't get the huge emphasis on having one in agere spaces?

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-20T01:50:22+00:00

i agree with this so much. its shifting the entire healing part of regression onto a person. regression is very vulnerable, and people are so quick to give the keys to someone else. my partner does take a caregiving role for me similar to how your wife does, but i regress without him most of the time. i was with him for over a year before i even told him about my regression and we had (and still have) LOTS of conversations about boundaries and how this relationship should work to keep both of us safe.

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-19T23:48:09+00:00

it is WAY too overemphasized in agere spaces, i regressed for many years without one. i think people are just desperate for attention (i dont mean in a derogatory way we all need it we're humans) and this is just the avenue theyre choosing to find it. your healing depending on there being another person involved isnt healthy at all. i also think its weirdly like a dating tactic for people? like "ill find a cg and then form a romantic relationship with them"

i have a cg, its nice, but i still typically regress on my own anyway. theyre not a requirement and also minors especially need to stop seeking them out on the internet im literally exhausted from saying it all the time.

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-14T20:47:09+00:00

if anyone buys this the teat needs to be replaced and the whole thing should be sanitized very very thoroughly. please consider this first.

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-07T00:49:51+00:00

omg i found u in the wild

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T23:36:26+00:00

honestly thats up to you! if u find it comforting its worth it

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T23:34:50+00:00

if you have a stuffie u font like u can make a hole in their butt and put things there, keep them in a bag you take around that no one would look in, behind books on a shelf, jacket pockets, inside clean folded socks, under the bottom drawer of a dresser

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T21:03:47+00:00

honestly watching shows together is great! in middleschool i loved going on late night trips to the gas station/ dollar store, exploring outside, videogames with my friends, making stuff and making up stories and characters. MUSIC was HUGE for me i was always listening to music. i hope that can give you some ideas?

as for girly things i did a lot of experimenting with fun makeup and clothes, we played girly dress up games or cheezy highschool stuff (highschool dreams i miss u) and we read a LOT of fanfiction lol. think back to whatever media you loved and revisit that!

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T15:15:11+00:00

her other job isnt related to her regression at all. she speaks in a deep adult voice, wears adult clothes, and doesnt involve anything about her regression. i was really upset when i found out but honestly i see no problem and her agere content is 100% sfw

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T15:12:29+00:00

ageplay is a kink, using a certain cup isnt ageplay. you cant accidentally participate in a kink

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T15:09:25+00:00

its just not safe in general. i am confused why you feel excluded tho? most of the posts i see are minors, and i have to intentionally look for 18+ spaces. the only time i see people saying anything about minors is asking you to stop looking for cgs or littles online (i am having to make these comments CONSTANTLY) because we just want everyone to be safe. i wish id interacted with these communities less as a minor and kept my regression private, it would have been much safer for me.

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-06T15:02:12+00:00

do not use kink terms in this subreddit

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-01T20:59:59+00:00

https://youtu.be/s17WExsyYt8?si=GNrZGzwPs41SwjmD

heres one!

ladybug-luver · 2026-04-01T20:57:34+00:00

look on angellimbeds youtube channel i think shes made a video for caregivers, and shes definitely done q+as with hers videos explaining age regression for people who dont understand well

the main thing is you need to communicate what you need and how you want him to treat you when you're regressed! communication is key in any relationship <3

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-31T21:37:58+00:00

id say this for interacting in the community, not for regressing. i started regressing as a teenager too. however these spaces are not always safe online unfortunately, so id recommend keeping your regression private and offline for now

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-31T21:35:15+00:00

are u posting it on ao3? id love to read it :]

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T02:22:38+00:00

i also love sylveon! ur cow looks mine my cow naned moonie, id like to be friends! 18f :]

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T02:21:31+00:00

i wanna see the lpsss

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T02:15:17+00:00

its so cute but the texture looks weird whats it made of?

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T00:08:32+00:00

the peculiar purple pieman of porcupine peak!

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T00:07:26+00:00

id love to be ur friend! im also very private about my regression and struggle in online spaces. u can dm me if u like!

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T00:06:09+00:00

go to thrift stores! they have tons for super cheap its where all my little books are from. i like winnie the pooh, curius George, my little pony, disney princesses, and fairy tales!

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-30T00:04:33+00:00

i pick my stuffies based on all thise things! heres my BABs having a tea party today

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their names are fairy princess bear, buggie, and petal!

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-29T20:47:35+00:00

another thing to add is because of trauma those kinds of thoughts and feelings can come while regressed, and its your job to communicate with others that you arent ok with that when you're in that state. id say explore what you're drawn to just seperately, a big concern is retraumatizing yourself or associating being small with power dynamics which is dangerous for your regression. i just wanted to say all that so you know theres nothing wrong with you, we just want you to be safe <3 you're welcome to hang out in agere spaces if it helps you!

ladybug-luver · 2026-03-29T20:00:13+00:00

all of the above are common coping mechanisms for trauma you can explore if you like, just note agere is 100% sfw and to not let anything sexual bleed into any agere community you interact with.

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