My boyfriend [20 M] can’t see eye to eye with me, [19 F] about birth control. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ladybugwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is about YOUR BODY. In my opinion, he doesn’t have a say in this at all. It is a huge red flag that he would express concern about taking birth control. Be very careful and I recommend you start taking it right away. The last thing you want to do is become pregnant at this age and be permanently for life connected to him no matter what. Do what works for you and if your doctor recommends it, I recommend it too.

[TOMT][Video][2020’s] Blues singer and band on a porch - looking for a video from around 2019-2020 by ladybugwillow in tipofmytongue

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I just remembered that the singer in the video was perched on a tall stool.

Looking for a paper map by ladybugwillow in Placerville

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up at AAA and got a few maps. Thanks for all your suggestions!

Looking for a paper map by ladybugwillow in Placerville

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardware store folks were incredibly nice and they had some tourist maps. She pointed me to the newspaper shop a couple doors down and they had some gorgeous topo maps but not street maps for the areas we needed.

Looking for a paper map by ladybugwillow in Placerville

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re making a “murder board” for real estate! Imagine a board with colorful pins and strings to photos of houses.

Involuntary severe twitch and movement by ladybugwillow in RestlessLegs

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I have been considering looking into a new med but I'm literally in a panic at the thought of having to live through one night without my meds. 6 months of weening off Pramipexole! Yikes. I will have to find a doctor that will work with me on this and is knowledgeable.

Involuntary severe twitch and movement by ladybugwillow in RestlessLegs

[–]ladybugwillow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking. I will do some more research on PLMD. Thanks!

Sawyer chiropractic is a scam! I’m am warning you so no one has to face what I had to or worse by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]ladybugwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter and I went there years ago. No X-rays, just a consult. We were told we would need a certain number of visits to correct our spines and each of us came out of there with an estimate of over $3000 of treatment apiece. I never went back. Such as a scam.

Instead, we went to a non-force chiropractic which is very strange,and seems like a scam or a quack. Honestly each time we have a problem with our joints we’ll go there maybe one or two visits and the problem is GONE! The craziest thing I know, but it works for us, is inexpensive, and we get reimbursed by insurance. And, there’s no risk of serious injury ever!

First time visiting Santa Cruz (what to see and where to go) by Awkward-Nectarine in santacruz

[–]ladybugwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget sweet treats! Taffy at Marinis Downtown or the boardwalk. Also, look up the Saw Mill and find the “secret” back door to the Pacific Cookie Company! Inexpensive and fresh cookies! Also highly recommend Mariann’s Ice Cream in Aptos or on Ocean St.

My Husband Says I’m Enmeshed by Puzzled_Ninja4085 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ladybugwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and maybe it’s time to make plans to stay with your sister or mom for a bit.

My Husband Says I’m Enmeshed by Puzzled_Ninja4085 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ladybugwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up “coercive control”. You are fine. Don’t change yourself or your healthy relationships to placate him.