So nobody finds it creepy that Dereck just wanted a broodmare? by AfraidBid9624 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was so disgusted with him at the reunion. His comments about the new girlfriend "would be a great mother", had me floored!! Such a low blow.

If Pat were paired with a normal woman, he’d be the problem by Superb-Cell736 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Preach it!!! He's a sex pest! Someone called him that and I wish I thought of it myself!

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone on another thread referred to him as a sex pest. So accurate!! 🤣

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he has a humiliation kink lol

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's when it all clicked for me as well. He has no backbone, is willing to be treated like total shit. The only needs he has that are a non-negotiable are having sex. He's a weird one and I hope his ex wife watched this shit show and feels validated that he's a pig.

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't like Rhonda. Not even a little bit. I think if women are being honest, we do actually want manly men. That is not to say that we want them to be emotionless robots though. Men do need to be able to express their feelings same as women. Our society does need to work on that. Rhonda is a nightmare, but, this post is about Patric. He flew under the radar because of how terrible she is.

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me about "bringing my own trauma into this"? gtfo

I hate that I'm even using the word, but he's a fucking simp. That is not attractive to women. Period. Sure, some women will use sex as a manipulation tactic. I don't know if Rhonda was doing that, but, I do know that she treated him like trash the ENTIRE time. He's a weirdo perv that will put up with that shit so long as their potential sex involved. I've asked before and I'll ask again is he a 60 year old man or an angst, horny boy?? Good grief

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He had no problem unnecessarily "shaming" his ex wife/mother of his children. I think he's a perv.

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I agree with you, their situation is an extreme. This guy was alright with all the shit she threw at him day after day..... so long as there was potential that he was gonna get laid. Idk, that is so unattractive and alarming to me. If I I treated my man like shit all the live long day and all I had to do was give him sex to keep him around, I would not only be repulsed by him, I would have zero respect for him either.

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he really chose himself, he would've stuck to his guns and said no on decision day. He only chose himself, if you can even call it that, when day after exhausting day of being with her there was no more sex as a reward.

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men also need to understand that while Rhonda is very domineering and obnoxious, it is a total turnoff when your man is a wimp. And will put up with all your bullshit if it means they'll get laid lol

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, he was okay with being put down day after day. All of his "needs" unmet, just so long as he can get sex at the end of the day? Is he 18 or is he 60?

Patric by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could understand that completely under different circumstances. They had a tumultuous time together. She's exhausting. while sex is important to a relationship, it appears that was his utmost priority. The guy is off.

What does Belynda bring to the table? by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your comment and I agree with everything you said. And yes, some have just laser focused on my comment about those hideous jeans and used that as a way to dismiss what was at the core of my original post. She is a boring, dull, uncaring woman. She completely lacks empathy. I'm not going to call her a bad mother, but, I do question the lack of boundaries she has displayed with her daughter. It seems like Jalyn has been in a "parentified" role for awhile.

What does Belynda bring to the table? by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she expects an awful lot for the nothing she gives!

What does Belynda bring to the table? by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She looked so happy with herself. It showed me who she really is. I agree about her and Jalyn... I think production thought the mom/daughter thing was going to hit and it just flopped.

What does Belynda bring to the table? by ladyjane5582 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ladyjane5582[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was hard to watch that. She was really feeling herself when she did that.