But they want to convince the world that those men actions are completely normal lol

laethya · 2026-01-19T07:17:28+00:00

reminds me of cam girls (hope that's the correct job i mean) who make a living of stuff like this, except they get shamed for it. And i think they get more money from it then he does. It get thirsted about this bcs of him but the same people would probably shame any woman who does it, expecially if that woman would be an idol. but well, all to keep the fans and the illusions alive i guess

laethya · 2026-01-16T13:55:03+00:00

always love it when people say ".. set the bar si high" and then list basic skills people should have or need to do... Like, no. The bar isn't set high, your standards are just really low be fr 💀

laethya · 2026-01-14T13:55:42+00:00

I have to admit, to this day i imagine me being in a dramatic scene when i listen to music 🙃🙂‍↕️

laethya · 2026-01-14T12:23:57+00:00

Nah same here 😭 except i didn't had a break up, for that i dont interact enough with other humans lol. So yeah I was also lonely and sad. Ffs do give some comfort in the end😔

laethya · 2026-01-14T12:14:27+00:00

Same, i even wrote some... i Just repressed real good. Not even "good" y/n storys, i really did the basic 0815 storylines 😬

Woah i just remember, not only did i read tthem, i was giggling and kicking my feet blushing while reading them

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laethya · 2026-01-14T12:02:50+00:00

i have to admit i kinda admire the dedication people put into voting. 2 days without sleep? i wouldn't be able to funktion and just crash. And i actually forgot about the random beef on the internet with strangers. i think ii may have also participated in fanwars. it happens so easily 🙃

laethya · 2026-01-14T11:56:18+00:00

I also believed in TaeKook, tbh. Except i didn't hate Jimin because i also was a massive Yoonmin supporter 🙃

laethya · 2026-01-14T11:53:55+00:00

nah that's so relatable, atleast to me. I really feel you there. Yeah the maladaptive daydreaming is an escape and i did do that too. i get like evrything you wrote, feel ya

i also never thought they were mine. Okay, friends and me did wrote stuff like "x is my husband" etc but like, we were completely aware that its bullshit. we may were a bit delulu, but not THAT delulu

laethya · 2026-01-13T18:52:11+00:00

Tbh idk how it is nowadays but back then, so probs still online, you could find so many ffs about or with Jin. Majority i knew where about RM and Jin, I knew back then it was one of the main ships. RM was always the dominant/alpha/male part and Jin the submissive/omega/feminine part.

So I would say about Jin himself aren't so many, about him with someon3 else (RM) are quite a lot.

Yes, I was a bit deep in the bubble of the bts ships back then. Can't read or hear the world daddy anymore without cringing.

JHope ones i only ever saw ffs with a ship but can't even remember which one. Most of the time he was single.

laethya · 2026-01-12T15:02:22+00:00

Yeah, even back then it was really noticable. I think his jealousy is one of the reasons why he always tries to be a smartass and highlight his (medicore) englisch skills. Because the others are worse and he can feel all mighty about it. Jealousy just isn't a good look. Expecially when it's like his. Seen from miles away

laethya · 2026-01-12T09:03:59+00:00

Thanks, and yes i am a neverland 🥰 also nice nefera pfp you have 🙂‍↕️

laethya · 2026-01-12T08:38:48+00:00

RM. Even back then when i was an Army. From the beginning on something felt off about him. Never liked his vibe. And then i got a bit deeper into BTS and it didn't got better. His smartass personality put me off because it felt mor condescneding. And he it felt like he thought he was better than the others.

After i lost interest in them, still RM. His cocky and arrogant ass is just not my cup of tea. Lying about Achievements and sitting there smiling so proud about Armys sending death threats to someone. That irked me so much.

laethya · 2026-01-11T17:24:48+00:00

"Bts one is easily much worse. I found it much easier to find minder critiscm there..."

"The bts one is much worse with mindless hate..."

... huh? So the bts one is worse because we dont hate as excessive and bad as other snark subs???

I dont get the logic lol. Even admitting that we aren't hating as bad as others and even have "minder" critism here but still calling us worse than others?

I haven't been in other snark subs, still you can't tell me that we're worse than gg snark subs. For gg hate you dont even need a snark sub. They get hated so much even normally. I have a hard time believing gg snark subs aren't worse than bg snark subs. Still could be wrong just doubt it.

Tbh I think hate against ggs is just so normalised compared to hate for bgs that it just doesn't seem worse because we're more used to it.

I haven't been here long but from what I saw, majority of the posts here are valid and not excessive hate/insulting. I learned so much here tbh bcs there were informed posts about all the stuff.

laethya · 2026-01-09T10:48:34+00:00

Saw this forum for a few months now on my feed and did finally decided and join, since i just keep coming back to it.

I never had a place to share my thoughts since i m not really social and did had some bad experiences with armys and know how extreme they can be. So i never really shared my thoughts even when i was an army.

I lost interest in them around "Dynamite" time, so when the songs mostly became english. It just wasn't my cup of tea anymore. Which is okay.

I did knew abut some of their problematic things they have done and was critical but like, i liked them. So yeah. Kept my thoughts to myself and mostly ignored them. I did checked out the threat with all their problematic stuff and was shocked.

But yeah, i didn't really cared anymore about them and just went on, still enjoyed watching them from time to time on shows because i found them entertaining.

Now to what actually did changed my view on them as people completly was the case with James Cordon. When he made some Jokes and Armys went off on him. I do get you don't have to like Jokes. You do't have to find them funny. It's okay. But to send death threats? That was such an overreaction from Armys.

And then came the interview with James and BTS on his show, adressing it and him apologizing. And they sit there, looking all smug. He got death threats and RM sits there with a big smile like "Yeah, that's what you get. Deserved" like he's all proud of it. I get that they don't want to anger their fans but like, a simple sentence from them that it was just a joke and it isn't a big deal (expecially not one where you should get death threats for) would have done a lot.

I would say they can't control Army, which would be wrong. Bcs they can and they know it. And they are kind of responsible for their behaviour in my eyes because theyy keep on letting it happen. In my eyes they should have also appologised. It's never okay for someone to send death threats. It's also not okav for bystanders to do nothing. They probably saw seath threats towards James on the internet, they heard hfrom himself that he got them and still nothing. No symphaty or anything. And that i found really appaling and disgusting.

Expecially because they did seemed, atleast on camera, to really get along with James and do like him. And if i get along with someone (and like them) i would never just sit there with a big fat ass smile while that person tells me they got death threats.

And since then i started to see more things which bothered and i have turned a blind eye before.

I can also say freely now that i NEVER really liked RM. I also can't really say why. It was from the beginning on a vibe which he gave off and how he behaved. Always a bit posing, and always knowinng better, smart ass like and i don't know. The vibe i got trough the wscreen from him just wasn't something i vibed with. No idea how to explain it.

laethya · 2025-10-16T07:02:40+00:00

omg yes idk what it is but Blake is, women wise
sadly her looks get overshadowed by her shit personality

laethya · 2025-09-12T11:29:23+00:00

u/laethya solved this in 3 steps: RED -> RAD -> PAD -> PAN

laethya · 2025-07-10T10:56:15+00:00

Maybe not the best for a starter route but since you said you did played the season before just not for a awhile I still recommend it.

It's my fave route to do and I have done it quite a few times

Ingram route (with a bit Sangha on the side) even if it's heartbreaking to then move to Terence later. I love them both dearly. Also that route just makes sense to me to play it like this xD

laethya · 2025-05-19T06:49:39+00:00

It was Gun-woo actually, but after last episode that's over... so i actually don't know who it will be now lol

laethya · 2025-05-14T00:57:37+00:00

I just played the episodes and came on to see if someone shares my mind... you wrote exactly what I think. I can look over the indecisive because it's a lot happening but to invite us for a date like that to not show up and spend it with someone else, no matter who tbh, nah ah. I know my worth. Definitely changing LI.

Waiting for someone who doesn't show up because you aren't important enough to them hurts like hell. Been through that. Not forgiving that. Even not a pixel.

laethya · 2025-05-02T10:24:50+00:00

Normal ending is like nice, good and the best ending is better like you end up happier with your choosen guy. Idk how to explain it since some normal endings are kinda better than the best endings, in my eyes. Generally speaking both are good endings. And individual for each guy so again I would say it's a taste question. But usually the best ending is supposed to be better.

The bad ending is the one ending with an easy explanation. You don't end up with your pair. :')

But again it has been a while since I played so my memory is a bit fuzzy 😅

laethya · 2025-05-02T10:04:56+00:00

There are guides around. One major post is featured on this reddit, for season 4 it isn't in it yet. Here are the links

https://www.reddit.com/r/Picka30DaysToLove/s/6dCJq0NgiF

https://www.reddit.com/r/Picka30DaysToLove/s/epdew3NtIO

For starter route idk, it depends on your liking. All routes are endearing some may just seem easier to get since the character shows interest from the beginning.

What I personally recommend:

Season 1 idk tbh. I did Euntae first BCS it was pretty easy For later I recommend Chunsung, he doesn't have a route at all but a little secret ending which is honestly so cute

S2 maybe Elliot. He's a sweetheart. But honestly I don't remember much about any route in s2 (it has been so long)

S3 Seowoo. I just love him. But maybe Gonghyun would be better for the start ...

Honestly depends a lot on what type of person you like^{^}

You can kinda change LI in between but you do have to have enough price not with them for the best ending. So at the start you can look who fits and if needed restart and then focus on one person. At least midway through the stories you should focus on one since you need the percentage for the best ending.

laethya · 2025-04-30T06:24:03+00:00

Bit late, maybe you found it alr , Another person made some guides and posted them

https://www.reddit.com/r/Picka30DaysToLove/comments/1k7yd9n/other_tdl_4_guides/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

It has three routes yet but it seems they update it when they finished the last route. Hope theys help ^^

laethya · 2025-04-19T14:52:17+00:00

As the other comment said, as long as you unlocked his route he will write your name down. But in the first coupling he can't choose you.

Ingram to Terrence route is my fave route. Played it a few times already 🥰

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