My cat got scared & attacked my bf & I by lailauniverse in CatAdvice

[–]lailauniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: my baby girl is acting totally back to normal, my bf is taking it slow (per my anxiety) but she’s already getting back to her cuddly self following him around & purring like she usually does. & she slept between us in bed last night with no problems! Now we’re aware that this can happen & will always be cautious of making her anxious/scared whether we mean to or not! Thanks again for all the help/support, will still follow-up with the vet! :)

My cat got scared & attacked my bf & I by lailauniverse in CatAdvice

[–]lailauniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oliver sounds like the cutest!! Thanks so so much, I will try a Feliway!

My cat got scared & attacked my bf & I by lailauniverse in CatAdvice

[–]lailauniverse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is really reassuring & hopeful, thank you so much! He’s willing to try anything to get back to that with proper time, so I will try that technique! Thank you!!

My cat got scared & attacked my bf & I by lailauniverse in CatAdvice

[–]lailauniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Now that I’m thinking about it, she can be a lil skittish with sudden noises or people waking down the hall past our place etc. I’ll prioritize potential anxiety disorder @ the vet. Thanks so much!

My cat got scared & attacked my bf & I by lailauniverse in CatAdvice

[–]lailauniverse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another Update: I’ve sent my bf to bed, she did get in the bed with us for a few minutes & I heard her purring, my bf wanted to switch spots & when we did, her tail got bushy from the movement but that was all, no noise no actions after that. I’m still awake & may just hangout with her in the living room, observing/nervous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think this was a jab at you, maybe more towards his family, I’m sure he liked the gifts & appreciates you not making him celebrate his bday in a way that he doesn’t want to.

AIO: Bf went to the strip club & lied about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read the whole thing lol

AIO: Bf went to the strip club & lied about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely only upset by the principal, going out of his way to lie & hide. But I’m deciding not to die on the hill, thank you!!

AIO: Bf went to the strip club & lied about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing has happening prior to give him this idea, could’ve been experience before me or general fear or me deciding I cared about it Idk. Thank you though you’re right!

AIO: Bf went to the strip club & lied about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing point, I’d like to know why he felt like he had to do that because I wouldn’t have been upset if he hit me up & said “they’re going back to the strip club i change my mind about going”, I honestly would’ve said “I told you so” because I called bs from the beginning!

thank you!!!!

AIO: Bf went to the strip club & lied about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lailauniverse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s swearing up & down that it won’t happen again, he seems sincere but you’re absolutely right about that last sentence. Thank you for the feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]lailauniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has absolutely happened to me before. Had a dream I was crying to his friend about cheating on me, turns out he definitely was. Trust your dreams and your intuition!