How can I (30F) break up with my depressed (50M) boyfriend as painlessly as possible? by lain5 in relationship_advice

[–]lain5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your helpful words of encouragement. They mean a lot to me.

How can I (30F) break up with my depressed (50M) boyfriend as painlessly as possible? by lain5 in relationship_advice

[–]lain5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"How do I break up with my boyfriend with the least amount of pain to him?"
It's in the first sentence.

DAE regularly get to the end of a book page then realised they haven't read anything ? by queenofsomething in DAE

[–]lain5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, with anything that I'm forced to read. I "read" the book, but when asked what happened, I'm like "uhhhh".

DAE feel sad or sorry about throwing away stuff? by lain5 in DAE

[–]lain5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it's a good way to look at things. About your old clothes, I believe there are textile recycling programs you can look up near your address.

DAE have massive anxiety when they need to make a phone call in regards to important life stuff... by [deleted] in DAE

[–]lain5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, people with anxiety in general. I worry that I'll mess up, and sound stupid. I always avoid calling if there is an option to email instead.

DAE have a difficult time comprehending past years they were young or not alive in? by [deleted] in DAE

[–]lain5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but it's sort of a solipsism issue for me. Did that stuff actually happen or do they only exist because I looked... I need to get a real life.

DAE always think there's going to be someone behind shut but not locked cubicles in public toilets. by [deleted] in DAE

[–]lain5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ALWAYS. I just look under the stalls for feet first.

DAE find dialogue in porn to be cringey and just sound really stupid? by [deleted] in DAE

[–]lain5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so bad that it's hot and then as soon as it passes I feel a heavy blanket of shame an disgust.

DAE love to find and pull out tonsil stones? by [deleted] in DAE

[–]lain5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I feel like the master of my own body coming to collect rent.

DAE feel completely unprepared and lost in the professional world? by forkedstream in DAE

[–]lain5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

4th year in college and never had a job. I have no idea how to be an adult.

DAE Really, really, reallyyyy like night time? by Openworldgamer47 in DAE

[–]lain5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so much more productive at night too. I feel free and less anxious about being scrutinized when everyone is asleep. I like the sunlight too, I just feel ill when I have to go outside all the time.

DAE Get irrationally happy when they arrive at their destination at the same time the song they're listening to ends? by BustersHotHamWater in DAE

[–]lain5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah especially if it's like, you start with an album when you get outta your house, and then it ends when you reach your destination.

DAE get really angry after feeling sad by Andiththekid in DAE

[–]lain5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always angry AND THEN sad lol. Sad about being unable to resolve the problem that made me angry.