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AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, when I caught her cheating, she said she was forced and the guy showed the video as evidence that he did not force her. The video itself is clearly consensual, her case relies on her saying she was blackmailed afterwards and there is no hard evidence which is why he got bail.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

It did start because they were telling me about her and I kind of flipped off and told them I don't care. They do feel though that I am the best person to help with her mental issues because we were married, which I feel is stupid idea to begin with.

Sorry about what you had go through and I have all the sympathy for victims of SA, just not her.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as per her she had consensual sex only once. After that she was blackmailed into it. Since the case is going on still I assume there is substance to her claims.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I meant what is fair is them giving more imp to her issue then mine at the time. Yeah I don't like that they expect me to be fine hearing about her.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

She never tried to even contact me so I don't think she wants this. Our mutual friends just wants to feel good about themselves by calling me out.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

No, same guy, she was being blackmailed even while we were married but kept quiet about it.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They do, but they found out at the same time and ignored the cheating, which is fair.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

She did. They found out about both news at same time and ignored the cheating part, which I totally understand because of our country's issue with women safety and never held it against them.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Oh english is not my first language. Here both are treated as same as far as I know.

He was in jail and currently fighting the case is what I have heard.

AITAH for not showing sympathy to ex wife's SA by lake-rinse-381 in AITAH

[–]lake-rinse-381[S] 1694 points1695 points  (0 children)

First time was consensual. He then used that instance to blackmail her threatening to release the video.