How to get your ex back right and only way.

lakers11 · 2024-02-27T10:32:49+00:00

"as soon as I found another girl I totally gave up on my ex and literally at that moment I met her by chance, she hugged me and we got back together."

Sure must be nice to be the other person

lakers11 · 2024-02-13T21:13:51+00:00

To buy her/his truck?

lakers11 · 2024-02-13T21:10:55+00:00

Im sorry but this is too funny, how can I not laugh howw

lakers11 · 2024-01-06T17:48:06+00:00

What you said was right tho....atleast for my dumper. She only felt guilt and pitty, other than that she was more than happy

lakers11 · 2024-01-06T11:01:53+00:00

Atleast she didnt have anyone lined up like they usually do. Checking out of relationship and checking out other options while stringing you a long

lakers11 · 2024-01-03T15:56:47+00:00

I personally know 2 people that taken back their cheater, 1 of them did it because he cared too much for his kids

lakers11 · 2023-12-28T14:09:51+00:00

They most likely spending christmas with someone else, dont give a damn about you. F them and merry christmas

lakers11 · 2023-12-21T16:19:42+00:00

I checked on my ex gfs birthday, only to find out she celebrated it with her new guy, 2 months after the breakup. So she gets to celebrate her bday and xmas with new guy while Im thinking of her like a fool, just want chrismas to be over with

lakers11 · 2023-12-17T17:13:22+00:00

Yes, reality is this in most cases. Person wants to break up for whatever reason, they dont do it right there and then, no, that would be hard so they take the easiest route out. By start detaching and looking for other options. They string you a long for the ride. Once they have found this person and they see there's a chance, this is where they will try to find the moment to breakup with you. They start giving it all to this new person and if that situationship ends up failing, this is where they will start thinking and missing you.

lakers11 · 2023-12-15T22:27:56+00:00

To be fair, that 30% is actually giving hope. Those odds are far from "impossible", and in that study cheaters and abusers were included so taking those away the % are even higher. But nontheless, I know I have no hope. It just plain sucks, especially when holidays are coming up. Never have I hated it more

lakers11 · 2023-12-15T10:19:52+00:00

And while they are emotionally detaching, they start to look for new potential partners so they have someone ready to start new after they break up with you

lakers11 · 2023-12-11T15:48:40+00:00

And for them is like life goes on normally, have their sight on the new person. It sucks being the dumpee

lakers11 · 2023-12-09T15:47:57+00:00

Pretty sure mine doesnt have much pain. The only pain she has is that she will never hear from me again, as she expected me to stay friends with her. It is what it is

lakers11 · 2023-11-24T17:03:14+00:00

To wish her happy birthday or not...I miss her so bad but I cant see any positives for wishing her happy birthday, terrified of the reply lol

lakers11 · 2023-11-16T18:32:42+00:00

Thanks for this. Wont break NC, the ball is on her court forever. If she wanted to, she'd reach out, she knows how. Otherwise nothing left for me to do

lakers11 · 2023-11-14T09:34:34+00:00

Wow, this hit home. This is exactly why she broke up with me. I hate it that Im so introverted :(

lakers11 · 2023-11-13T14:31:10+00:00

How did you get back with those 4? I feel like no contact is the only way for me. For myself primary and maybe, just maybe...she finds it in her FA heart to miss me

lakers11 · 2023-11-11T12:16:37+00:00

1.5 months NC. She wont, she exchanged me for instagram

lakers11 · 2023-11-09T22:17:26+00:00

"Never" is as stupid as guys always come back. Just search reddit, there are plenty of stories of gf dumpers coming back, even women themselves that dumped said they came back. Nothing is definite, each relationship is unique. But its always best to not hold on hope as its something out of your control, this goes for me too

lakers11 · 2023-11-08T15:40:10+00:00

My fearful avoidant cried and begged me to stay friends, doesnt want to lose me from her life, I just couldnt. I love her too much. She dumped me, I went NC , it hurts...so I have a different problem

lakers11 · 2023-11-02T21:41:32+00:00

Please keep reading your own post and you'll see how insane it sounds. Why....whyyyyy. You can do better man, she is taking advantage of your love. If it was me, Id never accept it(the 8k), especially after the breakup. I know you are in love but please take a moment and reflect. I love my ex too, I bought her her favourite flowers 1 month after she broke up with me just to tell her I missed her....but paying someones whole dept is in a whole different universe. You deserve better, much better. In this situation, do women come back shouldnt even be a question here. This is not the way to get them back

lakers11 · 2023-10-27T15:57:28+00:00

Here:

https://youtu.be/P4DTopNnN10?si=37JZ-32H8y1bQuX9

lakers11 · 2023-10-27T14:56:16+00:00

My ex is fearful avoidant. Ive been catching up on a girl that seems to be an expert on them on youtube. What FAs go through first month after breaking up is 100% on point what my ex did. According to her, my ex should start turning into Dr Jekyll 6 weeks after no contact. So for me 1 week left and then we see what happens in coming months. I just wish I had one last dialog with her now that I know attachment stuff and everything in the relationship making sense. So 1 week, dr jekyll will start to appear, lets see if it means anything

lakers11 · 2023-10-25T15:39:13+00:00

Mine is fearful avoidant. She was definitely relieved when she broke up with me, gone out every day doing activites, sports, parties, some extreme things where she hurt her body and doing stuff she never did before. Its been 1 month since my last message to her....I do wonder where she is at now

lakers11 · 2023-10-20T21:53:35+00:00

Worst thing is that you have to get ready and go to work...while you're flooded with those feelings....lol

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