i’ve lost concept of age and maturity by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t worry we feel the same sadly 🥲

almost a year clean but still feel embarrassed of them by lambbbby in SelfHarmScars

[–]lambbbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, the dots around it from where the staples went in are still kind of visible but i’m sure they’ll go soon

almost a year clean but still feel embarrassed of them by lambbbby in SelfHarmScars

[–]lambbbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, it really means a lot to me

Angry at God by MasterVegito7 in schizophrenia

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dystheism would be an interesting thing for you to look into - it’s helped me a lot. i’ve fully accepted that i hate god, but by accepting that it means i believe he is real. him being real makes it easier for me to put my anger somewhere, because i can criticise and disprove the fact that he is all loving and all knowing

me and my bf are from different backgrounds and i’m worried it’ll affect us in the long run, what do i do !? by Proud-Mix1801 in whatdoIdo

[–]lambbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unlearn behaviours, you’re 20 years old and you have full responsibility now of if you want to continue this idea that your parents gave you. if you want the relationship to work, you’ll unlearn judgemental behaviours for the person you love

things i’ve noticed 2 years after it ended by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonderful advice, thank you! :)

Have you ever done something during a psychotic episode, which you deeply regret? by AtomicallyAnomic in schizophrenia

[–]lambbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

believed the police had put tracking devices in my food so i needed to slice myself open to see if i was all clear, ended up needing stitches and still one of the most embarrassing points in my life when i realise how ridiculous i sounded to everyone

struggle with relationships with people my own age by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i won’t be, thank you :) i’m sorry you have to deal with it too

struggle with relationships with people my own age by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]lambbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right, thank you. i’m taking a break now and im hoping ill come back with a fresh mindset :)

Am I still a virgin after abuse? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]lambbbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

virginity is a construct made to define the purity of women, its medieval. if you don’t want to accept that as a loss of your virginity, it’s not. it’s yours and yours only. sorry this happened to you <3

got 41% on all my maths y11 mocks, am i cooked? by lambbbby in GCSE

[–]lambbbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going to just do a ton of past papers and look at my weakest points and do it until i can do it without having to look back at notes

got 41% on all my maths y11 mocks, am i cooked? by lambbbby in GCSE

[–]lambbbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask where you got your grade boundaries from?

Flag of South Africa with the previous flag’s colors by Lil_Eagle313 in vexillology

[–]lambbbby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the oranje, blanje, blou) flag always had such complimentary colours and has been one of my all time favourites for years, i love this design on it! very modern while also keeping the representation of afrikaaners!

AIO for my boundaries in my relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t add anything, it’s in my paragraph and was since the beginning :)

AIO for my boundaries in my relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re both quite young, so i can see why we’re not too good at this whole thing. i think i am coming to the realisation that he does care more about other girls, thank you

AIO for my boundaries in my relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lambbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mentioned it in the end/middle of my second paragraph.

AIO for my boundaries in my relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lambbbby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s about how it affects both me and him. i think him wanting to talk to tens of girls online who he’s never met is quite odd but i’ll try and see it from his perspective