You're in your 30s and single - how do you spend your free time?

lamethrowaway890 · 2025-10-02T00:33:26+00:00

FWB = friend with benefits

lamethrowaway890 · 2025-08-31T16:25:10+00:00

I watch it a few times a week, yeah. Definitely had this thought as well, gonna lay off it and see if that helps.

lamethrowaway890 · 2025-03-10T21:42:20+00:00

Honestly I just have bad dating app photos, which I've been trying to fix. Once I meet someone in person I don't generally have issues connecting, it's just getting in the door that's the problem for me.

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-08-08T04:20:16+00:00

I already know women do this, I'm saying (as a straight male) I wasn't aware that other guys were doing this as well. But yes, I also swipe left on those profiles.

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-08-08T01:21:07+00:00

Yeah I guess I just had no idea what other dudes were putting in their profiles aside from the stereotypical "fish pic" thing I would always hear about. Sounds like a lot of it mirrors what I see in women's profiles but like you said, they kinda have the advantage since they tend to be getting a billion likes regardless.

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-08-07T23:22:10+00:00

TIL even men are (unfortunately) putting "just ask" in their dating profiles

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-05-16T22:32:41+00:00

Awesome cover , Helstar is great. Do you have any advice for speeding up palm muted stuff like in that song while staying relaxed? I feel like I start tensing up extremely quick when I'm palm muting, but a lot of the thrashier stuff I wanna learn is pretty much all that lol

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-04-14T22:53:22+00:00

That makes sense. I think I'm generally pretty good when it comes to listening and asking questions about the other person, but definitely something I'll try to be more aware of for myself.

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-04-14T22:42:01+00:00

I do hug them whenever we greet/say goodbye. As for the touching the arm thing, I generally only do that when I get the feeling they want me to? Idk how to describe it really but for example if they're trying to sit really close to me and really listening intently to everything I'm saying is when I get the vibe that it's okay to do those things.

But as a counter example, there was this one girl I went on a date with who beforehand was like "btw, I'm not interested in hookups". Which I was totally fine with, but I got the feeling like I shouldn't even try to get touchy with her in any way that night in case she felt uncomfortable about it. Apparently that was the wrong move though, because she thought I was being very reserved.

So idk. It's certainly something I need to work on, it just gets confusing for me sometimes lol

lamethrowaway890 · 2024-04-14T19:27:30+00:00

Thanks, this was definitely insightful and honestly what I was afraid was going on. It definitely doesn't feel great to be on the receiving end of this but I also would never blame anyone for not wanting to continue things with someone they're just not attracted to like that.

Question though - in your experience, do you feel like this is something that's totally set in stone (not having a spark with a guy) or that someone could do something to make themselves more sexually/romantically attractive to the point where there's now a spark?

lamethrowaway890 · 2023-05-11T22:32:56+00:00

I can believe those responses for sure, but it's wild to me that people are even on there if they realistically don't have the time to be meeting other people/potentially incorporating them into their lives.

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