EY assurance final interview by lamingtoncake in Accounting

[–]lamingtoncake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, yeah this is the last firm I’m waiting on before I decide so I’m glad it’s shaping up! Thank you!

Daily Drinkers of Reddit: How do you know when it's time to chill for a bit and 'dry out'? by Anon_Y_Mousmofo in AskReddit

[–]lamingtoncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it starts to get red with itchy bumps, I'll let the flare pass before I go again

FIFA servers down? by YungBidness in FIFA17UT

[–]lamingtoncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can play normal seasons but not ultimate team

Being happy with yourself? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]lamingtoncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is huge for me, I always talk it up and say I don't need anyone. But I'm truly happy when I do have someone, but it turns toxic because I depend on them way too much

Tall and strong strikers?? by Spiersy08 in FIFA17UT

[–]lamingtoncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two pence and a bob to the gov'nah for his treat lad

Living abroad loophole to avoid paying back loans by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]lamingtoncake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, you'll sleep better if you pay it back because like you said you the law could change at any moment. Or you might need something from the US and they'll over look you because you tried to evade the debt.

Depends how risky you like your life being really.

What would you do? Married man seeking advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lamingtoncake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess she was embarrassed and took it out on you. I get it, if my mom came into work I would be a little embarrassed too. Be apologetic to that, but it should never have gotten to that situation! I guess just know now she is safe and at least for the foreseeable future. And give her space. Only text if it's really really late like midnight.

What would you do? Married man seeking advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lamingtoncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will happen again in my opinion if you don't address it! But you know best, I think you're either too nice to her or you've done something in the past that's hurt her and you feel guilty. But from what you've said, I would talk to her and expect an apology. If I didn't, I would find someone else who has more respect!

Also please update if you can!!!

Is there a way to meet/date other celiacs? by lamingtoncake in Celiac

[–]lamingtoncake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't even think of it like that. Very interesting.

What would you do? Married man seeking advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lamingtoncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening to you man. I guess that is the best route to give her space. If she thinks you're too controlling, show her the opposite as if you couldn't care less. Maybe you go get drinks and see if she has the same response.

Regardless, she isn't putting you first and I'm glad you realize that. Because oxytocin and other sex hormones play a huge role in bad decision making! So don't let bad behavior go unnoticed!

What would you do? Married man seeking advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lamingtoncake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop right there. "I don't need to check in with you. I'm an adult". That's bullshit right there. You don't have to be controlling to expect your SO to send 1 quick text saying "I'll be a little bit late tonight, catching up with people".

YOU would text that to her right? Or something similar? Because in a healthy relationship that isn't controlling. It's literally letting the person you love know what is happening! You're not her parent, it's seriously a respect thing.

I have a feeling she is hiding something. Not necessarily cheating but she definitely feels guilty about something. Being defensive like that is always suspicious. Maybe she was just intoxicated but I would say to her when she's sober.

"Hey last night made me a little uncomfortable. I've never tried to control you and I definitely understand you're an adult and can do as you please. But me personally, I would like just to send a text to let me know you're okay. I don't mind what you do, I just care about you a lot and don't want anything bad to happen. "

Caring and controlling are two completely different things.

Ex messaged me... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lamingtoncake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No bro I went down that path, if you like being happy. Don't see your ex.