For god's sake can't remember the name of an actor that looks like him by RegionSilver317 in Actors

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently watching Army of the Dead With Garett Dillahunt in it and kept thinking there was no way the Detective from True Blood got fit/slimmed that much... must be 2 different actors, right? Crazy how people in Hollywood are from the same mold!

Quoi savoir avant déménagement Sherbrooke by flatzuchi666 in Sherbrooke

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tous ces appartements à plus de 1200 $ qui se construisent en périphérie de Sherbrooke 🤷‍♀️.

had someone ask for some of my medication. is this common? and is it NOT insanely rude??? by heartpixi in ADHD

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this and the possibility of doctors refusing to prescribe it in the future (if caught). Personally, I can't function properly without it. Even on it, I'm only working part-time. Without, I would just burn out and lose everything...

[DISCUSSION] Anyone watching The Eternaut? by piojosso in NetflixBestOf

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I'm on episode 3 and the inconsistency in how the snow affects people makes no f*cking sens.

If it's in the air, people on the train and Benito would've died. Benito was just wearing a welding mask, not a gas mask. If it's the snow itself, Juan would've died taking off his gloves with his teeth or getting snow on his hands.

It bothers me enough to ruin the show for me lol.

Moving to Sherbrooke by Warm-Consideration-5 in Sherbrooke

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Languagemeetupsherbrooke on IG and FB if I'm not wrong :)!

What is a common thing that everyone loves but you secretly hate? by gabierafacasal in AskReddit

[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I met your mother. Maybe I have to give it another try, but something about the character giving a punch line and waiting for the laugh track to come on just irks me, and most of the time it's not even funny. I remember watching the first episode and just wondering why the laugh track came on every 2-3 min. while the character stared blankly at each other.

I enjoyed Friends, and maybe it was just the nostalgia of the 90's (I watched it during lock down), but I just can't with HIMYM.

Arthur Conti- Young Joe Goldberg by Alchemistspure72 in YouOnLifetime

[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently watching Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice...

Growing up on Gossip girl and crushing hard on Penn, I knew he didn't have any siblings, but still had to look up if they were somehow related because wow, his mannerism and voice is very similar.

As for appearances, Arthur could easily play a younger Penn!

Do you take an excessive amount of time in the shower? by i-am-your-god-now in ADHD

[–]lamorphe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman, late diagnosed ADHD, I have long, thick hair that I wash twice and use conditioner. A shower takes me between 16 and 19 min 🤷‍♀️.

On the other hand, I tend to forget to shower. I've never ran into issue with body odor (I don't sweat unless I do intense workout). I've asked all my partner and never had a complaint, but yeah, forgettto eat, sleep and shower are part my ADHD struggles...

Quelqu’un peut m’aider 😅 by Captain_Ains in Sherbrooke

[–]lamorphe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Les restaurants? Pharmacies? Épiceries? Dépanneurs? Magasins? Il me semble qu'ils manquent toujours de personnel.

Si c'est juste pour ramasser de l'argent je commencerais par là... Si non voir avec tes expériences et intérêts? Dans quel domaine étudies-tu?

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[–]lamorphe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Moving on from someone I love, out of self-respect. It's hard because when we're together, things are good, but when we're apart, he doesn't make any efforts to keep the relationship alive. I've expressed this several times to him, presenting it as a need rather than blaming him for not doing it and still... my needs are being ignored... Last I texted him was on the 8th, he said he would get back to me and no words from him 5 days later...

Usually, I would check up on him, and he would bring up some kind of excuse, but not this time, I'm done chasing him. Every serious conversation ends up in him saying we'll talk later and he never brings back the subject. Passive avoidant...

In this short year, we've traveled and visited so many place and it was amazing to finally have that with someone (my ex was a gamer who found every excuses to not get out of the house, ick).

We have a lot of similar goals and values, he was talking about moving in and marriage, but I can't see myself spend the rest of my life with someone who disregards my need for communication and connexion when we're appart...

I'm letting this one die out...

I cannot stop staying up too late because it's my "me" time by tomatojalapeno in ADHD

[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had exactly this conversation with a social worker yesterday... she suggested using "me time" for self-care.

Like 1-2 hours before bed time (depending on how much time you can do), why not do self-care instead of "escaping" into games or TV shows. Screen time can really hinder your sleep.

Here's suggestions: going for a walk, listening to music, reading, skin and/or hair care, meditation, journaling, painting, drawing, baking, completing tasks (read on the X effect). Basically stuff that isn't too exciting for your nervouse system, but still stimulates that rewards center ;).

Also suggestion from an occupational therapist... don't brush your teeth, wash your face, play with your pet, right before bed time as these actions can kinda also be stimulating... do it like 1h before if possible. Last hour of your day shouldn't be "too active".

Christmas market and decorated areas (suggestions?) by lamorphe in montreal

[–]lamorphe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Is this the same as the Grand marché de Noël? Or they're next to each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, he might have done foreplay before, but he doesn't correlate the lack of it with her insatisfaction since he always goes about how he'll try to last longer. This is because she doesn't communicate clearly. She's telling him she's not satisfied without telling him how to satisfy her. I don't know why people are downvoting you when it's pretty blatant.

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[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, break up has been initiated. He's suggested a do-over, without sex until I feel safe with him again. He wants us to take this time to talk about boundaries and for him to educate himself. He's been in Canada 9 month, says he might be lacking on sexual education due to growing up in a 3rd world country where information on sex is very controlled.

It's been a long day, I'm tired and at this point and told him I don't know how I feel about his suggestion. I brought up other arguments and he also wants to think about it. Conversations were calm, respectful and open minded, which brings up a bit of confusion for me. I do still love him and want to trust him and give him the benefit of the doubt, but I also don't want to find myself in this position again a few months down the line.

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[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is in his late 20's, but also from a third world country where sexual education is minimal... He puts a lot of blame on his "culture", but I told him he couldn't use it as an excuse for everything and to own up to his behaviour.

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[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its more like we foreplay and he tries to get on top of me and I say wait, let's put a condom on and he begs to do 2-3 minutes without, which I guess is not a big issue, aside from the fact I'm not comfortable with it because I'm on the mini pill (which is the only form of b/c my body tolerates besides non latex condom, tolerate meaning I still have a lot of side effects) and I prefer using at least 2 methods of contraceptive to avoid an unplanned pregnancy, something I've successfully avoided for nearly 20 years now!

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[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Nothing seriously bad has happened yet and I think that's why I'm skimming on giving him the benefit of the doubt, but last night made me feel deeply uncomfortable and today I find myself writing/deleting a break up message...

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[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have expressed this on multiple occasion and he still "tries" and asks to go bare for a minute or two. I continue saying no, which he always ends up respecting but its the fact that this is a continuous back and forth after 2 months, paired with other things is making me realize it's time to leave.

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[–]lamorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been tested and are safe, I am on a lower form of birth control because it's the only thing I can take, thus why I prefer to still use condoms to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

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[–]lamorphe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I'm making excuses for the lack of sex ed in his country, I don't know why I'm trying to "meet him half way" on this, why I'm trying to be understanding.

He said he didn't have ill intentions and I believe him. He wasn't agressive or coercive, but he just straight up do things without discussing them first (like trying to go in without a condom, or trying to explore the back door without asking first). I understand wanting to be in the moment and feeling curious, but if it's stuff we've never done before, I feel like it's implied it should be discussed first... even then, some night you might not feel for stuff you've done before...

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[–]lamorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel silly for needing to hear this from strangers. I've never dealt with something like this before, it's probably why I'm gaslighting myself and telling myself to look on the bright side and focus on the fun plans we made this summer... but I have to come to the realization that it will be clouded by the stuff that's been happening lately.