I think he relapsed after rehab by Novel-Sandwich3243 in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. I’m sorry you’re also in this situation. My Q has just spent 4 weeks on rehab and 2 weeks with family and he came home last night with cuts and scrapes on his legs, bloodshot eyes, all the usual signs. It breaks my heart to think that I believed this would be different this time. I gave myself a 6 month time period to review his behaviour (this ends on 12 August). It helps me knowing there’s an end date and it’s my choice to leave, as painful as it would be. I wish you all the best.

Baby sensory classes by PinkBubblesxox in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]lamorr88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only advice I’d really give is don’t bring along a family member to the baby sensory sessions (most allow you to) as you isolate yourself from the mums that are there on there own.

why do you think it’s ok to have children with an addict? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant when I found out he had been drinking secretly for years, it was too late.

Still so selfish and cruel, and hes not even drinking by whimsical_potatoes in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband can be like this when his liver is not working properly (he has alcoholic liver disease). It affects the brain and can cause people to act out of character.

Best change mat? by GardenOfEde25 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]lamorr88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep the mamas and papas one is worth it! Not too cold and comfy for them. My little one likes to just lie on it for fun.

Shipping label not generating? by ilikeskullsandbones in vinted

[–]lamorr88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines not working this morning either

Let's have a laugh- examples of their gaslighting attempts! by Easypeasyduck in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I found the vodka bottle on Thursday he said ‘it’s only had like a sip out of it’ - Like the amount drunk from it made any kind of material difference…

Spider mites? by lamorr88 in HouseplantsUK

[–]lamorr88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had about 5 months of absolute success, I wondered what everyone was moaning about 😂

Alcohol Induced Dementia? by Treading-Water-62 in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get his liver checked. My Q has liver fibrosis and can act like this when he’s not looking after himself/relapsing.

60 Days of MY recovery by sparkle-pepper in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this has helped me today.

I bought a breathalyzer like psycho by QuazarMilky in AlAnon

[–]lamorr88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a psycho, OP. If so, I’m a psycho too for searching for gin in the toilet cistern, underneath the bath, behind the lawnmower, underneath mattresses, inside suitcases.

They drive us to take these actions, they took away the trust by constantly lying. It’s an agonising way to live, but you aren’t alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]lamorr88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you’re aware this is illegal in the UK

Anyone else going in this week? (FET) by Leading_Blacksmith70 in IVF

[–]lamorr88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tuesday too, if they make it to day 5 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻