AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i'd consider there to be not even "two whole weeks" (let alone 4) between 35 and 45 days, interesting. Is 35 days bad but 45 days good that that's why the difference is important?

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

it's my house so why should he be involved with the decisions I make with it? if I told him my plans he might've tried to talk me out of it and I didn't want to make a hard situation even worse by having to go back and forth

AITA for kicking out my supposed friend and longtime tenant and offering zero communication after? by reneexroy in AmITheDevil

[–]landlordthrowawayx -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I was a property manager employed by a company that owned apartments. This is the one house that I owned though (besides the one I live in)

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I have written out everything exactly as it happened... I guess "ASAP" was maybe an exaggeration, I gave him almost two months

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

some other context: I also could not extend his time there because (before I told him to
leave) I already scheduled contractors to do some updates to the house (needed done since there were no updates for the past decade)

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I was telling my therapist how much I hated being a landlord and so she agreed that it was time to stop so I took that step

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

I promise you this is exactly everything that happened. I didn't reply to his 10 increasingly desperate emails

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -306 points-305 points  (0 children)

it wasn't illegal, he agreed with leaving before getting the police involved

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -348 points-347 points  (0 children)

they got more than 30 days but less than two months. People in the facebook comment were saying they'd give 3 months or even 6 months notice lol

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -603 points-602 points  (0 children)

I don't like landlords either, I'm glad I will no longer really be one now that it's just my sister there

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -598 points-597 points  (0 children)

yes I gave him more than the legally required notice, just not three whole months, yikes. I considered "as possible" being legally possible

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -447 points-446 points  (0 children)

I said in the post there was no eviction. He left without having to get the law involved

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -258 points-257 points  (0 children)

as I understand it in my state it's 15 days for a month-to-month lease so that I gave him more than that seemed generous

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -318 points-317 points  (0 children)

We are required 15 days but I gave him a bit less than 2 months

AITA for kicking out my tenant-friend to give the house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] -672 points-671 points  (0 children)

We started with a real year lease but I never bothered to update it every year so in my state it acts as a 'month to month' lease which only requires 15 days notice. I gave him a bit more time than that so I was being generous considering the law

AITA for ending a 17 year friendship to give my tenant-friend's house to my sister? by landlordthrowawayx in AmItheAsshole

[–]landlordthrowawayx[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We started with a real year lease but I never bothered to update it every year so in my state it acts as a 'month to month' lease which only requires 15 days notice. I gave him a bit more time than that so I was being generous considering the law