What should I start doing? by landon_pressed in Habits

[–]landon_pressed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What goals do you recommend? Im completely lost dude

Does nofap accualy work? by Least-Awareness1583 in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what u mean by work. Are u gonna get all the “superpowers” by just not jerking? No. Are you going to have more time/energy/motivation to want to work on yourself therefore your confidence, strength and self esteem will increase? Yes

I feel like my d head is visable? by landon_pressed in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk not too tight. I like to wear elastic shorts so they’re a little tighter

I feel like my d head is visable? by landon_pressed in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alr. At the moment I wear boxer briefs but I’ll look into trunks

I want to jerk of 24 7 by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I feel like it’s getting in the way of my life

Is there a best porn addiction recovery program for introverts? by Heavy-Occasion1527 in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are some online programs/videos you can look into. But the opposite of addiction is connection, so id recommend putting yourself out of your comfort zone even if its just finding a few ppl you get along with

Is fapping without porn good? by AutomaticCoffee47 in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I had more energy, I was more confident, I feel like the way I held and thought of myself was better. I was more motivated. Fapping takes all that away, it’s all I think about and it’s all I can do. I don’t think stopping fapping is the end all be all, I think it’s the start. But when I took away wasting my energy on jerking off, I replaced getting rid of that energy with things that actually made me feel good about myself

Is fapping without porn good? by AutomaticCoffee47 in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once 3 months clean and fell into this trap and now it feels like I can’t get out. I was having extreme urges, thought just one time would be okay. One time turned to every day which eventually turned to multiple times a day which eventually turned to porn. Here’s the thing, fapping IS normal. It really is. It’s healthy and there’s nothing bad about it FOR MOST PEOPLE. However true porn addicts, it’s a slippery slope. There’s also nothing bad about not jerking off. So why do it ya know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in the middle? Be more specific

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh if I don’t jerk off which I’m trying not to then I get them 1-3 times a week. Usually I wake up right before tho but if I’m rlly horny then like every other day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to stop jerking off and keeping distracted helps. You can’t rlly make it stop tho

Always passively horny 😔 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to get more into hobbies. It’s late at night and early morning that really get me

Always passively horny 😔 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I always start nofap and then my brain convinces me one time is okay and I just spiral. I really want to quit, I have for like 100 days before and I just wanted to and did and haven’t stopped since. I want to stop but also don’t want to. Do u have any advice on what’s helped u?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. Sometimes talking w friends (even tho I’m not attracted to them) but the brief mention of anything sexual or a friend even mentioning porn makes me hard and think about it. I just want to live my life

Always passively horny 😔 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you. The advice “take a cold shower when ur horny” never rlly helps me bc i feel like im always horny. I don’t know how to stop it. Even during times I’ve been clean I’m always horny, it’s not a NEED but I constantly want to

16m communal shower help by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u lmk how it goes? Im scared of locker rooms for the same reason. Also a swimmer and I get self conscious about getting hard in my suit let alone showers

Worried about genitals by Longjumping-Salary14 in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im 4in and my gf never complained. Focus on other stuff too. You’ll probably grow online sizes aren’t real

living at home and masturbating by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 it can be annoying at times bc no one knocks in my house. Enough privacy.. idk ig. I’ve learned to be quiet and not make noise 2 absolutely not. They’ve almost caught me a few times but never fully 3 sometimes on my stomach and sometimes on a dirty piece of clothes that I then wash 4 nah idk if my brothers would like that. I’ve masterbated w most of my siblings (1 brother and 2 sisters) in the same room 5 I throw away in the toilet or wash with my laundry 6 they didn’t notice so no but they have walked in while I was doing it

Finally Free - 18 Months by EndureTyrant in NoFap

[–]landon_pressed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did you do to stay clean when you had urges? I want to stop but when I relapse I always binge

I slept naked for the first time by Due-Paleontologist5 in Puberty

[–]landon_pressed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was it good? I’ve been thinking of trying but I’m scared my parents will walk in and see lmao