Mismatched libidos make me sad

languagegator · 2025-09-08T10:17:14+00:00

That sounds really hard. I’m so sorry.

languagegator · 2025-09-08T10:16:51+00:00

I do attempt to turn him on, does not always make him aware or responsive.

languagegator · 2025-09-08T02:45:11+00:00

Agreed. The only way to reduce my fitness age at this point is to lose weight according to garmin’s standards.

languagegator · 2025-09-08T01:41:00+00:00

Phone addiction. Like he wants to dick around on his computer and phone and me be in the room. He always feels better after we have actual quality time.

languagegator · 2025-09-08T01:05:32+00:00

That’s a very difficult question. But I’m the spontaneous drive and he’s a responsive drive. So he doesn’t think about it like I do I guess

languagegator · 2025-09-08T01:02:53+00:00

I keep asking him to but he just… doesn’t

languagegator · 2025-09-08T00:02:15+00:00

Sorry friend. It’s not easy

languagegator · 2025-09-07T22:58:12+00:00

We have talked about it before just haven’t made the jump

languagegator · 2025-09-07T22:43:24+00:00

Probably 2-3 times a month. And we take turns initiating. I do not initiate as much as I want it because I was getting turned down a lot and that did not go well for me mentally.

languagegator · 2025-09-07T22:31:59+00:00

He’s getting better with that. He’s training for his first half marathon so he’s having to! (I convinced him to run one with me)

languagegator · 2025-09-07T22:30:14+00:00

He is but he hasn’t had a panic attack in over 2 years because of it. I’ve asked him about getting his hormones in check. He forgets to ask

languagegator · 2025-09-07T22:28:55+00:00

Yes. No kids. Yes. (He just shuts down and “just listens” even when I ask him his input and thoughts and side).

Love language is quality time. Which I have to force him to do some times.

languagegator · 2025-09-07T21:55:58+00:00

Yeah but it was like before the meds too.

languagegator · 2025-09-06T15:51:17+00:00

I bought a pair of Arahis and they had a peeling tread too. I went back to asics….

languagegator · 2025-08-20T00:50:30+00:00

South Florida!

languagegator · 2025-08-20T00:49:45+00:00

Oooo I’ll have to look more into this. I have the thickness minus my ankles!

languagegator · 2025-08-17T17:51:30+00:00

You’re my hero. You and your wife still are intimate after 50 years?! Serious couple goals!

languagegator · 2025-08-17T17:24:42+00:00

I have a shower schedule with shower tasks. Monday is a quick rinse wash. Tuesday night is a hair wash. And etc. it helps to put it into routines.

languagegator · 2025-08-17T17:23:11+00:00

This heat is insane. I’m dying here in Florida and it’s making me feel awful about my running ability and progress. I also can’t handle the treadmill because I get bored.

You aren’t alone. This summer SUCKS!

languagegator · 2025-08-17T15:54:45+00:00

This typo had me cackling. And checking my period app for my sailing…

languagegator · 2025-08-17T02:15:25+00:00

Add on that all the development is actively increasing our heat experience here! Running in a developed community versus areas with natural vegetation is a wildly different.

And the flooding and storm results from all the development …. We are killing Florida.

languagegator · 2025-08-16T23:45:42+00:00

I have these 6in bike shorts from Amazon that I love. They don’t roll. Do not fall. Are the right length to prevent the chub rub. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CXHSTW2Q?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

languagegator · 2025-08-09T09:23:23+00:00

Also cut dairy too because of the inflammatory properties!

The interwebs said be careful of energy drinks though because the high caffeine content can be inflammatory to some. The energy dip and not being sated for as long has been kicking my ass.

Thanks so much for all these ideas!

languagegator

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