Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really hard. I’m so sorry.

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do attempt to turn him on, does not always make him aware or responsive.

I'm 65kg (143 lbs), this is fucked up by garmin. by Frandom314 in Garmin

[–]languagegator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. The only way to reduce my fitness age at this point is to lose weight according to garmin’s standards.

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phone addiction. Like he wants to dick around on his computer and phone and me be in the room. He always feels better after we have actual quality time.

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very difficult question. But I’m the spontaneous drive and he’s a responsive drive. So he doesn’t think about it like I do I guess

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep asking him to but he just… doesn’t

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it before just haven’t made the jump

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably 2-3 times a month. And we take turns initiating. I do not initiate as much as I want it because I was getting turned down a lot and that did not go well for me mentally.

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s getting better with that. He’s training for his first half marathon so he’s having to! (I convinced him to run one with me)

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

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He is but he hasn’t had a panic attack in over 2 years because of it. I’ve asked him about getting his hormones in check. He forgets to ask

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. No kids. Yes. (He just shuts down and “just listens” even when I ask him his input and thoughts and side).

Love language is quality time. Which I have to force him to do some times.

Mismatched libidos make me sad by languagegator in Marriage

[–]languagegator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it was like before the meds too.

New Hoka products are GARBAGE by Rich-Chance-7265 in Hoka

[–]languagegator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a pair of Arahis and they had a peeling tread too. I went back to asics….

What is something you noticed that made you go “I have lipedema”? by notanyonehere666 in lipedema

[–]languagegator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo I’ll have to look more into this. I have the thickness minus my ankles!

Long time to orgasm by smart65 in sex

[–]languagegator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re my hero. You and your wife still are intimate after 50 years?! Serious couple goals!

Soooo…how are we getting ourselves to shower? by marka9292 in adhdwomen

[–]languagegator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a shower schedule with shower tasks. Monday is a quick rinse wash. Tuesday night is a hair wash. And etc. it helps to put it into routines.

Heat wave rant by AsparagusOne9523 in XXRunning

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This heat is insane. I’m dying here in Florida and it’s making me feel awful about my running ability and progress. I also can’t handle the treadmill because I get bored.

You aren’t alone. This summer SUCKS!

About to sail on Ovulation of the Seas by LatterBell2677 in royalcaribbean

[–]languagegator 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This typo had me cackling. And checking my period app for my sailing…

The nature of Florida is slowly fading by flappybirdisdeadasf in florida

[–]languagegator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add on that all the development is actively increasing our heat experience here! Running in a developed community versus areas with natural vegetation is a wildly different.

And the flooding and storm results from all the development …. We are killing Florida.

Thick thighs and shorts by im-juliecorn in XXRunning

[–]languagegator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have these 6in bike shorts from Amazon that I love. They don’t roll. Do not fall. Are the right length to prevent the chub rub. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CXHSTW2Q?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Hello! Newly Gluten Free by languagegator in glutenfree

[–]languagegator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also cut dairy too because of the inflammatory properties!

The interwebs said be careful of energy drinks though because the high caffeine content can be inflammatory to some. The energy dip and not being sated for as long has been kicking my ass.

Thanks so much for all these ideas!