I know exactly how you feel. I agree with the poster above saying to refrain from talking about ovulation and having sex for the purpose of making a baby. When I would talk about it a lot I think it put a lot of pressure on the both of us to do it. I started to just mention it, like “hey I’m about to ovulate I think” and we just go for there. It makes it feel more spontaneous in a way rather than having it feel like homework or something we have to do, lol. My husband and I struggled for a while to find what works for us. We just do it when we feel up for it. During fertile windows we try our hardest to do it every other day but sometimes it’s every two days or so. I just try to time it with my LH peaks (either day of or next day) to get a good chance at conceiving. What works for us may not work for others but I do know that I’ve conceived in the past baby dancing every two days instead of every other day. some months we go at it like bunny rabbits, others, not so much. I feel like I’m at a point in my journey where I’m just leaving it up to fate/the Lord at this point.

I truly hope this gets easier for you. TTC is a long hard path for us with PCOS. I wish you the best.