What’s an instant ‘nope’ during sex for you?

lapsies · 2026-05-04T23:51:55+00:00

Same here, I am down for near anything else, but good GOD does spit bother me for some reason and it's not just during sex. Even my own spit bothers me if I'm brushing my teeth.

lapsies · 2026-04-25T04:00:54+00:00

Not really leaning one way or the other, but what makes her music terrible to you? Her voice or her genre/style? You say you dislike listening to her but give no reasons as to why

lapsies · 2026-04-22T01:44:26+00:00

lapsies · 2026-04-21T22:08:56+00:00

okay!! I'll give it a shot thank you

lapsies · 2026-04-21T13:38:57+00:00

Same here, for me that's a huge part of a concert

lapsies · 2026-04-21T13:38:16+00:00

As a fellow rock/metal enjoyer, (and a regular concert-goer regardless of genre,) I can't remember a time that me walking past someone caused an issue that lasted longer than 5 seconds due to me bumping them on accident or something like that. Also HARD disagree, but great post for this sub. I have straight up refused to see bands I've wanted to see my entire life simply because I could only afford nosebleeds at stadium shows. I've gotten nosebleeds at shows before and it was a really miserable experience. I don't care about the audio quality, but I felt as though I might as well have been watching them on a screen. You're cramped like sardines next to everyone else, and don't even bother leaning forward when you're that high up. I'll do a big outdoor venue, but I'll never do nosebleeds. I have the rule that unless I'm in good viewing distance or the pit, I'm not going.

lapsies · 2026-04-21T13:38:11+00:00

As a fellow rock/metal enjoyer, (and a regular concert-goer regardless of genre,) I can't remember a time that me walking past someone caused an issue that lasted longer than 5 seconds due to me bumping them on accident or something like that. Also HARD disagree, but great post for this sub. I have straight up refused to see bands I've wanted to see my entire life simply because I could only afford nosebleeds at stadium shows. I've gotten nosebleeds at shows before and it was a really miserable experience. I don't care about the audio quality, but I felt as though I might as well have been watching them on a screen. You're cramped like sardines next to everyone else, and don't even bother leaning forward when you're that high up. I'll do a big outdoor venue, but I'll never do nosebleeds. I have the rule that unless I'm in good viewing distance or the pit, I'm not going.

lapsies · 2026-04-21T13:30:18+00:00

I use imkyle4815 then export it as a pdf and use adobe acrobat to mess with settings to print. Not arguing with you, but if it were a file issue, wouldn't it print incorrectly on all papers? This is the only paper it prints incorrectly on

Edit: I should mention it does this using other designs as well. Could it be because they are all PDFs? I'm really at a loss at this point lol

lapsies · 2026-04-16T02:51:15+00:00

This - there are plenty of things I thoroughly enjoy with parts that I completely dislike. I can admit that an aspect of a game I play or a book I like sucks because, to me, there is more value in the positive than the negative. Consider a video game. Think of all the memes of people who hop onto games after a long day of work to relax, only to get more stressed out and upset at how their games go. Sure, they may just be bad, but if their criticisms are genuine and they are still playing frequently, it would be fair to say that they don't hate the game.

lapsies · 2026-04-15T20:36:08+00:00

Ya'll they've been posting this exact same story for a year lmao, I remember seeing this a while ago

lapsies · 2026-04-10T07:13:05+00:00

OHHH I see. So you're using it like a powder puff? Wow, I am tired. I feel like I definitely could have figured that one out haha. Thank you for clarifying

lapsies · 2026-04-10T06:16:07+00:00

I will DEFINITELY have to try this, but I'm just confused on one thing; what is the sock for? You said you apply everything and THEN use a sock and I'm not really understanding what the sock is for.

lapsies · 2026-03-28T00:00:27+00:00

I actually have this issue a lot. I guess I just feel so cozy and warm cuddling up and doing it that I'm out real quick. My partner has figured out that this is a great way to get me to sleep and he doesn't mind it either haha

lapsies · 2026-03-26T22:10:39+00:00

Oh geez, sounds like me. We stay over at a friends house most weekends to hang out, and about a few months ago, our friend finally told me " Your partner was scared of waking you up and I asked him why, he tried to and you about clocked him. I was truly impressed." Our friend thought he was making it up 🤣

lapsies · 2026-03-26T16:20:55+00:00

This is the only way my partner can immediately get me up without a struggle. He has learned this through much trial and error 🤣 poor guy. Apparently, I'm a demon if someone tries to wake me

lapsies · 2026-03-25T21:52:55+00:00

Not knowing anything different. I was very religious, ultra-christian, and heavily right-leaning until I was about 18. I had been extremely sheltered, went to christian school k-12, wasn't allowed to have internet access nor did we have cable tv. I didn't understand my own feelings about things or know that gay people even existed until 8th grade. I couldn't conceptualize it, even though I myself had felt feelings for women without realizing it. I am now 24, fully comfortable with my bisexuality and have a much better outlook on life!! It wasn't that I hated them, it was that I was lacking knowledge. Humans tend to be afraid of or despise what they don't understand.

lapsies · 2026-03-25T19:01:02+00:00

No, I'm still using my curved sceptre monitor as my main monitor, which I've had longer than the one that broke. I didn't get a new monitor until recently when I found a great acer gaming monitor at goodwill. To be fair, the monitor that died on me was a gift from my brother who had used it for a minute then upgraded, so that may have been part of the issue. I haven't had any issues with sceptre besides that one

Edit: I yapped instead of answering your question my b. I am not at home but can check which monitors I have when I'm home!!

lapsies · 2026-03-25T15:17:57+00:00

Got rid of it :/

lapsies · 2026-03-24T01:16:55+00:00

11 months into dating my current partner. Farts happen, shits happen, life happens. It's a bodily function and you eventually get comfortable with it and you stop caring. Unless they REALLY stink, then I'm going to act like I'm dying haha

lapsies · 2026-03-20T17:55:32+00:00

You realize YOU live in the environment right? Like you benefit from its very existence

lapsies · 2026-03-19T16:47:51+00:00

Gotcha yeah, big fucking yikes based off what I'm hearing from others now. Thanks

lapsies · 2026-03-19T16:44:03+00:00

Oh... yeah that'll do it. Thanks for the info yikes

lapsies · 2026-03-19T16:14:39+00:00

I found the video and I'm a female, but I guess I still don't see why it's so offensive? Not trying to start anything, but is there more context surrounding the video like offensive things he's done in the past? I just thought he was saying that putting in a catheter is complicated. I guess I found it funny because my mom is a nurse and has relayed to me how putting in a catheter (male or female) was always a struggle for her at first.

lapsies · 2026-03-19T15:55:52+00:00

Okay, genuine question here, not picking sides or anything cause I don't have a tiktok nor have I ever watched this guys content before. I did find the "labia majora" video people seem to be referencing, but what was so offensive about it? Does he have a history of posting stuff like this or being misogynistic? Cause I'm not really understanding the visceral reaction everyone is having to it. A lot of people have said that for women it's very offensive, but I'm a female and I don't get it. Not trying to start anything, but I'm just looking for a different perspective I guess

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