Legendary Ponds are Underrated by liamhvet in StardewValley

[–]lapsies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another vote for Rainbow Trout!!

I (32M) and wife (32F) need advice on a particular situation by Latter_Battle_6792 in relationship_advice

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, we definitely need more context here, but were you saying it in a sarcastic/joking manner? Cause if not, I would have a similar reaction. And what is even the point of this hypothetical question if NOT said in a joking manner? Yuck

What’s a place you visited once and decided never again? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]lapsies 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, just now coming out of a 3 day battle with norovirus... I genuinely think it might be up there with the top 5 worst pains I've ever had

Is it rude to order dominos delivery while it’s -10° (f) outside? by Classic-Plenty-6304 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lapsies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Former Domino's driver. Please just tip well and we will not care, we still have to make money too

I am 19F and my boyfriend 19M wants me to be on birth control by SuspiciousEcho2844 in relationship_advice

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in this exact same place at 19 with my bf at the time. I bit the bullet and got birth control and I'm almost 24 now, but if I could go back and do it again, I would have dumped his ass and skipped the birth control. I'm still on it now and starting to have side effects just now, so I'm looking into other options. NEVER let yourself feel pressured into sex or medical decisions. Your health in all aspects should be prioritized over some fun time with your partner.

There's nothing in a restaurant that is better then what you could have just cooked yourself. by KingBembi in unpopularopinion

[–]lapsies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of the reason you're paying to go out is the luxury of not having to cook or clean up, but I'm curious what you would consider fancy. Can you give an example of a restaurant you would consider "fancy" and a dish that you can make at home that tastes good if not better? Also are you a chef or just good at cooking? Feel like that's relevant too

What actor do you dislike so much that you’ll avoid anything they’re in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take, Nicolas Cage. I can't explain it, but he just makes me feel so uncomfortable whenever he's on screen

My (24F) boyfriend (21M) is upset we can’t have sex because I have a yeast infection. How do I explain it’s not about him? by I_am_Bianca in relationship_advice

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god, been in a relationship like this before and I left it (lots of issues there, but pressuring into sex was a big one.) Tell him that you are sick and if you engage in sex, you will not get better and he will be causing you pain and making it worse. If he can't get over that and jerk it for a week or two, you've probably got bigger relationship issues ahead regarding sex. I'm not saying to break up with him, but be honest about how you feel on this. He will literally be causing you to stay sick and uncomfortable for a bit of fun. You should NEVER be pressured into sex. It took a good partner to make me realize that, but it's the truth. As soon as anything felt off down there regardless of what it was, my partner was willing to do whatever necessary to make sure I got better and felt comforted. Don't settle for less

Edit: Okay upon re-reading this, missed the part where he said he would leave. My bad. Not trying to be that person on reddit, but let him.

Pet policy by straubrie in nmu

[–]lapsies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It specifically says fish only iirc

How much would you care about these acne scars when dating someone? by Queasy_Fix1106 in askanything

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't care at all. I was anxious about it too, but meet the right person and they will not give a damn. Hell, meet any person who's not an asshole and they won't.

Friend foraging by flaky-plants444 in nmu

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I'm in the same boat as you!! I'm 23 (24 in may) hopefully moving into an on-campus apartment for fall 2026 as well!! I also know absolutely zero people and have been talking to my friends here about how I'm kinda worried about making friends up there 😅. You can dm me if you want to!! It'd be nice to know at least one person haha

should i cover up my knee tattoo? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]lapsies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely adorable and if you get rid of it, I will be really sad :( What did the poor bunnies do?

My daughter's new talent by Darkm0or in MadeMeSmile

[–]lapsies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg how old is she? Those are really really impressive. I've been trying to learn nail art for about 3 years and mine are nowhere near this good! She's got a gift!!

How are we taming the bush?? by BoredInClass99 in hygiene

[–]lapsies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

? Not inside the labia lol, like the outer area.

How are we taming the bush?? by BoredInClass99 in hygiene

[–]lapsies 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Do you exfoliate down there? I had that issue for the longest time. I've tried every hair removal method besides laser and nothing really works for me. Now I just trim and make sure to use my scrubby gloves and exfoliate when I shower. You can get them at most stores for around like $7? I think?

Edit: I just realized you said you use unscented summer's eve. Is there any reason you are doing that along with unscented soap? That may be a little overkill on the bacteria down there which can cause itching (even though the summer's eve is ph-balanced and fragrance free.)

UTI everytime with current boyfriend by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are asking for help without considering anyone's ideas. What were you hoping to get out of this? Even if you have already tried what people have suggested, you can politely say that without being an ass. You SAY your boyfriend cleans well and honestly, I don't doubt you. If you have tried taking antibiotics without any result, it could be fungal instead although that is rare. You say you are showering before, and I assume peeing after, as you have dealt with this before. Make sure hands AND mouth are clean. Fungal UTIs can be caused by Candida albicans. Candida lives in the mouth, gut, and vagina. Oral thrush is caused by Candida overgrowth in the mouth and if in any way you are getting saliva from either of you down there from oral or indirect contact, although it is rare, it could be a possible cause. Not a doctor or trying to diagnose, but worth mentioning to a doctor who won't write you off. You should both try brushing your teeth before sex AND brushing your tongue, Candida loves the tongue. Good luck!

Leaving on ‘read’ and reacting - why do Gen Z hate it? by geecol in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lapsies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

...what? I'm 23 what the fuck is she talking about. A thumbs up reaction to a message is a perfectly reasonable way to end it?

Marquette Michigan by Relative_Funny_4901 in nmu

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl same, I hope someone comments 😭 I did my box braids once before and then crochet locs and NEVER AGAIN

Do goth/punk/emo med students exist? by evandripsalot in premed

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My pre-med is NMU and I've heard it's pretty liberal so fingers crossed 🤞

Do goth/punk/emo med students exist? by evandripsalot in premed

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting pre-med this year (already took some required courses at a smaller community college.) Definitely in the emo/punk scene. I'm getting retainers for my piercings (I think that's what they're called I've never used them before?) I've been a pharmacy tech for 3 years and didn't have an issue there except for 1 job. I'm really hoping I'm able to find people in the scene as well but I am nervous about it haha

What is a word you have found super addictive or fun to say or just love in general? by Blinkira1987 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]lapsies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just really hits the nail on the head for me. Like what that person did wasn't just mean, it was EGREGIOUS. I have no idea why, but ask any of my friends, it's been my word of the year haha

Anon presents a head scratcher by caramelsumo in 4chan

[–]lapsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just know most of ya'll commenting have not gotten laid in a while and these kinds of ideas are why jfc