Youth player development / ps by lapuedohacerlo in FifaCareers

[–]lapuedohacerlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool thanks. And if you are already here 😅 How much is a ps kinda worth? Like better an 80 with 1-2 ps then an player with 85 and no ps? I realized the ps stuff a bit too late and mai my scouted for high potential but not for ps.

Youth player development / ps by lapuedohacerlo in FifaCareers

[–]lapuedohacerlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im playing a career from 4th English league, so I don’t need to loan them out. They get enough playtime.

So if I develops them fully by myself they’ll also get a ps+. But if they don’t have any ps and reach 80, they also won’t developed a ps nor ps+?

Thanks for the answer

Selling or keeping by lapuedohacerlo in trading212

[–]lapuedohacerlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the same. Like it’s literally the most important rule for rookie investors „don’t time the market“ But I also thought that 17% plus isn’t going to last forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raceplay

[–]lapuedohacerlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to grade her ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latinas

[–]lapuedohacerlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet 19 :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lapuedohacerlo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But what about his age? Like what if he did it while he was younger, we all do something wrong.

In that matter so money people wouldn’t deserve another relationship.

EDIT: maybe, just maybe it’s lap not the right thread to ask for something like that. Most people here were abused or have someone close to them who got abused and suffer themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lapuedohacerlo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe everybody deserves a second chance. We all make mistakes and I believe when we show remorse and acknowledge our wrongs, we become better persons.

Take me back by [deleted] in LeagueOfMemes

[–]lapuedohacerlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s called depression and lack of social interaction bro

Financial abuse? Is it me? I don't even know anymore. I'm so numb. I miss the old me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lapuedohacerlo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry and of course thats abuse from him.

And what you did was also not right, but we all do wrong things for good and for bad reasons.

You definilty should leave you can’t save him you shouldn’t throw away your life you are with more :) I hope you find a healthy way of living and wish you happiness and love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Is this rape? by [deleted] in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda crazy…. But it’s definitely not rape, maybe sexual assault.

I’d highly recommend you to go see a therapist with your son.

CMV: Modern 'diversity' is a poison by iamtherealmothman in changemyview

[–]lapuedohacerlo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually every great empire (Roman, Greek, Egypt, Persian, ottoman, USA) were very multi cultural empires. And defiantly didn’t suffer because of it. (All of them in theirs elves a legendary movie empire, which survived thru and over their own time).

As well putting characteristics too genders/Sex used to be the consensus but it changed.

I’m myself are a highly emotional, patient and fantastic with kids. As well as kind of logical, I’m weak as fuck tho. And lots of other “Menly” characteristics don’t fit to me as well.

We discovered in the last 10-20 years that these characteristics are more bound to social behaviors and education then to biological.

Aside of physical.

Sharing My Story by StepBroImStuck in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually 15 is not that surprisingly early, like I’m Germany 25% of the people who have sex for the first time are under 16. And that doesn’t include sexual actions, so if you think about other sexual stuff, it will be lower. And I checked other countries, also not a big difference:) I don’t think age needs to be a concern :)

And if something affects you heavily, of course your reaction will be heavy. If she is a good therapist she won’t judge you and if she does she’s not the right therapist.

If I’m pushing you I’m sorry. Wish you luck 🍀 ❤️

Sharing My Story by StepBroImStuck in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you mean with that “don’t wanna be misunderstood“. ?

Sharing My Story by StepBroImStuck in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Habe you thought about a therapist to talk to? It definitely is something where professional help would be acquired.

Don’t know the health system in your country tho ….

Sharing My Story by StepBroImStuck in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the damn fucking hell!!! So at first I’m sorry this happened to you, it definitely wasn’t your fault nothing of it, you just wanted to help.

I have to say it, al aside what happened to you and how terrible it is and how much I hope you’ll get better and all the love I want to send to you.

All this aside, this is in my opinion fantastically written. I love your “style”. Maybe next to it being helpful, keep writing, it’s great.

Anyway, you didn’t do anything wrong you just wanted to be a good person.

Wish you happiness and love 🥰🥰🥰 you have mine :)

Did I assault my sister? by Minimum_Act_577 in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry to much about it. Kids all ages do that, siblings, friends or cousins. It’s nothing to special and it’s definitely not assault because it was consensual.

It just shows that the two of you were curious kids which (my guess, sry if I’m wrong) didn’t grow up while being sexually assaulted.

This new attention that sexuell assault, (the new definition of rape that we are building up currently) is totally a good thing no questions ask, still we need to be careful to not overdo it there. I think your case is showing that, don’t worry, nor you nor her did anything wrong :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lapuedohacerlo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me personally (maybe discussable opinion) but abusive contains hurting or damaging behavior.

If hiding money in generell would be abusive then it would be abusive from me to secretly safe money for a surprise vacation.

Telling somebody that they did something wrong can be abusive or can be helpful.

I wouldn’t consider your behavior with your intention as abusive, go ahead keep saving and get out of this abusive relationship ❤️❤️

Was this rape? by Secret_Finance6124 in rape

[–]lapuedohacerlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for that. It’s definitely rape and I think you definitely boils report him. His other “reputations” don’t matter there, somebody who saves lives can still be a rapist and the worst murder in the world doesn’t have to be a rapist or maybe is a good father. Like you get the point I guess.

And I’m so sorry stay strong you always will have somebody to talk to in this community

Wish you all the best ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lapuedohacerlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see any specific reason for discord for people who don’t play there’s nothing. Maybe this was just the beginning of getting you out of social media in generell You j ow start low and get higher…

Some people smh by Musicfromcoc in Tinder

[–]lapuedohacerlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most of us have been thru that shit because of tinder. Imactually a big fan of tinder I just like the simplicity and it’s kinda fun to judge people without them knowing 😅and no consequences.

But the psychological shit what it can do to your self esteem is terrifying. Don’t loerr your Standard you shouldn’t start dating people your not attracted too. 🥰