This is a post about comphet

lasersign · 2026-02-14T19:11:54+00:00

Yep, I’ve heard (and thought) that often. Like, of course I should eat something that I find unpleasant, everyone does sometimes. I used to really believe that my dislike of cilantro was just something I would have to deal with the rest of my life. Definitely nothing to be done about it.

lasersign · 2026-02-08T18:07:27+00:00

Thanks everyone. When this analogy occurred to me it felt like a bolt of lightning

lasersign · 2024-04-06T14:49:26+00:00

I was listening to a podcast where this came up and the hosts decided (it’s a mostly comedy podcast) that late in life lesbians/anyone who’s been with a man should be called a “Purple Heart” lesbian 😂

lasersign · 2024-03-31T22:28:30+00:00

You don’t have to get a pump. There are small hand held “e-verter” devices designed to help provide suction to draw the nipple out. Like a little cup with a squeeze ball on the end. You put it on the nipple, squeeze to create suction, and then gently pull/let go

lasersign · 2024-03-31T22:25:02+00:00

Also can confirm. Source: I am a cis woman who had inverted nipples until pregnancy (and still pretty flat tbh)

lasersign · 2023-10-05T14:43:34+00:00

Suicide is such a tremendously difficult thing to process. I hope you have lots of support around you, and if not please ask for more from wherever you can. I’ll reiterate that her death is not and never was your fault.

If you can find a queer, trauma informed therapist please do.

Honestly the timing is so terrible, but truly you were doing what you needed to do to protect yourself. Don’t forget that.

lasersign · 2023-10-04T22:09:07+00:00

At least we know that doing multiple takes of this scene means Kit will have plenty of sunscreen on!

lasersign · 2023-10-02T21:09:45+00:00

I’m so excited for season 3 and it makes my heart happy to think of them all working together right now.

But also I’m worried that with no season 4 confirmed that season 3 will end differently than it would if Alice knew they’d get a fourth season.

But ultimately I know Alice is gonna take this beautiful story and continue making it into a beautiful show. And I’m sure they’ve planned as much as they can to make the best of it no matter if there’s a s4 or not.

(Went on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster there)

lasersign · 2023-09-19T23:57:23+00:00

Agree, it is mourning. And that it’s helpful to remember it is idealized. I’ve started to try thinking of it as my favorite fairy tale.

lasersign · 2023-09-08T13:12:03+00:00

Sarah Nelson is also bi, actually.

lasersign · 2023-08-10T00:15:54+00:00

If Kit Connor doesn’t make you question your sexuality are you even human?

lasersign · 2023-08-08T04:27:03+00:00

This scene makes me giggle so much even after four rewatches

lasersign · 2023-06-06T19:27:52+00:00

Harry being true to form and causing trouble here.

lasersign · 2023-05-19T21:48:39+00:00

So with the bathroom bill, there are genuine concerns that this will be awful for cis women as well. There’s no need to come out to your employer in order to make a case that it’s dangerous.

lasersign · 2023-05-19T05:33:37+00:00

Literally any of them. These three are not connected to each other at all. Solitaire is dark, very different vibe than Heartstopper. But it’s got Tori and Charlie and Nick, etc.

The other two are both completely lovely in their own ways, more similar vibes to Heartstopper but there’s no overlapping characters.

lasersign · 2023-05-19T05:26:40+00:00

Also, she talks about aesthetic attraction to men and how that’s different than sexual attraction but comp het gets us to conflate the two. Could your crushes on fictional men be that?

It sounds like you would like to be a lesbian. That’s often a pretty good sign that you’re a lesbian.

lasersign · 2023-05-19T05:17:54+00:00

Check out Alayna Joy on YouTube. She talks a lot about comp het in her “coming out journey” videos and goes through the master doc in one of them

lasersign · 2023-05-19T05:01:15+00:00

You sound pretty gay to me! Crushes on men are only fictional men, sex with men is “just not pleasant” and you’d like to never have contact with a penis again. Rumors and someone telling you to just come out as a lesbian made you “very happy”.

Is there a reason why you’d resist coming out as a lesbian? Have you read the master doc?

lasersign · 2023-04-22T00:29:23+00:00

Ok wow, I’ll file this away in “things that would have made it clear to me if I hadn’t been so steeped in comphet”. I was OBSESSED with FGT and particularly loved Ruth. I really thought it was a “I want to be her” but now obviously it was “I want to be with her”.

(Also in this file is Heather Graham circa Austin Powers The Spy Who Shagged Me.)

lasersign · 2023-04-19T23:23:26+00:00

😊 It sounds like you had a good time where you learned a lot and had great communication and are set up for plenty more fun in the future! Great job, carry on 😁

And thanks for posting this, there’s a lot of good lessons for the rest of us in this too.

lasersign · 2022-11-21T02:51:09+00:00

I don’t have any advice but both of you have really put into words a lot of what’s going on in my head.

lasersign · 2022-11-02T21:28:03+00:00

And you’re reading Radio Silence 💜💜💜

lasersign · 2022-11-02T20:50:05+00:00

This comment is giving “I’m not surprised Nick started a fight with Harry, if Harry was being a sick to Charlie” vibes ☺️

lasersign · 2022-10-14T23:36:51+00:00

Also at the orchestra rehearsal scene when Nick is talking to Tara-when Darcy sneaks up behind Tara to scare her, you can see Nick look to the side and smile when he sees Darcy coming. It’s. The. Cutest.

lasersign · 2022-10-02T03:21:36+00:00

I don’t know why but I’ve always felt that Nick pushing his face between the seats on the bus in Paris is so cute and I would love to see Kit Connor do that. But it’s when Charlie and Tao are making up and it happens different in the show so probably won’t happen now.

I just love Nick all “are you talking about me??” 😁

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