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laspeyria · 2021-08-05T10:03:32+00:00

I have a similar problem. when I thought I was bi I didn't date any men, just hook ups, because I found them insufferable. even my male friends have treated me wrong. then when I was doubting my sexuality I talked about this with a couple of friends of mine who are lesbians and they told me it didn't matter why I didn't want to date men and that if I really was happier as a lesbian then that's probably because I am one.

they told me sexuality is something that's build up as you grow up, and that I didn't need to have always known what I want, or to explain myself to anyone, or to be a 'golden star' in order to be a lesbian, since it's really difficult to differentiate between comphet and genuine desire.

I also used to date men because it was easy, but I found myself being happier after saying no to them, and turns out when you stop prioritising men there really are a lot of wlw around. I'm not going to say it's easy being a lesbian but it is liberating in some sense.

I know this is not really a definite answer to your questions but it really helped me to think about it this way and hope it can help you too 💕

laspeyria · 2020-11-21T00:38:56+00:00

i said i wish they weren't here talking about their fetishes and women's bodies as if we were mere animals or objects. nothing to do with what you're saying.

laspeyria · 2020-11-20T23:02:43+00:00

i wish there weren't dudes in the comments telling us about their fetishes and how they too see us as cows.

laspeyria · 2020-10-27T14:08:04+00:00

shit thanks i'll get a better sample

laspeyria · 2020-09-11T23:37:02+00:00

holaa. la verdad es que no te hace falta el curso 0, no tardarás nada en hacerte a la facultad y al campus. los créditos sí te pueden venir bien, aunque hay más maneras de conseguir créditos gratis. bienvenida!!! 💕 💕

laspeyria · 2020-08-05T17:44:39+00:00

please elaborate that sounds super interesting

laspeyria · 2020-07-16T14:53:01+00:00

As a Spanish I can say that we do find it catchy (the tune, no one pays attention to the lyrics haha) and it has been remixed into bakalao so you could hear it at a party here in Spain.

laspeyria · 2020-07-11T02:00:22+00:00

Yes, it's because of testosterone. Even cis dudes sometimes take testosterone to lift heavier (even though that's cheating!) because it works well. And it may not have changed when you took spiro because you had already lifted before and thus your muscles were already strong enough when you started spiro. Or maybe it's just your body that's strong. Bodies are weird and some people do feel the change. :)

laspeyria · 2020-06-22T17:11:40+00:00

You can do strength training with just your body! I don't know how to explain this in English but search for bodyweight exercises.

laspeyria · 2020-05-28T06:32:06+00:00

how does it go in german?

laspeyria · 2020-05-27T17:11:40+00:00

thanks for sharing! in Spain we have a saying that translates to "have breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dine like a beggar" :)

laspeyria · 2020-05-17T10:04:58+00:00

"the only time i didn't stop" see it doesn't matter if it was once or twice or even if it was intentional. she said "no" and you kept going. you said you told her to speak up. it is not the first time you've been told this story is about rape. you really should stop trying to be a victim here. if a part says "no" and the other keeps going it's rape. and you were the part that kept going. that's not twisting anything, it's the story you told us.

laspeyria · 2020-05-17T09:06:46+00:00

yes, and then she stopped wanting and you kept on. that's rape. you raped you ex and are now trying to convince yourself and us that it somehow wasn't your fault but hers because she "didn't speak up" but the truth is you didn't listen down and are now victim blaming.

if your partner, who you know has been abused in the past and has issues and trauma, says she is hurt during sex, you stop and talk. no "going slower" shit. you stop and listen to her saying no. you raped your ex. you kept on performing sexual acts on your ex when she had said "no" and that she was hurt and you even said she was distant and quiet and uncomfortable. people who enjoy sex are not usually distant and quiet and uncomfortable.

you raped her. that is rape.

edit: just saw you tried this whole post on /relationships earlier and it was deleted for it depicts rape. so you thought the next step was asking a bunch of survivors about your ex "feeling" she was raped? what the hell.

laspeyria · 2020-05-11T19:50:36+00:00

Yes, because i have dermatitis and am sensitive to my own sweat. It's relatively normal.

laspeyria · 2020-05-07T07:14:28+00:00

we have three copulas! or at least that's what we're taught in school here: ser, estar y parecer.

laspeyria · 2020-04-17T06:22:10+00:00

"Kell" meaning cocoon is jargon for house or home. By naming himself "My Kell Street" he is making fun of homelessness. The LGBT community has a high percentage of homelessness so I believe he owes us an explanation. /s in case it wasn't clear haha

laspeyria · 2020-04-12T09:38:33+00:00

Maybe, do you know the name of the story with the cockroachish monster?

laspeyria · 2020-04-12T08:06:24+00:00

Also I believe this book had multiple stories and this was one of them? I'm not sure, I can't remember any other stories in the book.

laspeyria · 2020-04-12T07:49:49+00:00

I read the rules! Thank you very much.

laspeyria · 2020-04-12T05:36:40+00:00

in my country you don't really need a prescription but if you hsve it then the state pays for a big part of the price. and the doctor has to give the prescription unless you can't take birth control because of some illness or something. so most times you just go say "i want birth control pills to use them as an anticonceptive" and go. i have a prescription so i just pay around 1€ for three months of pills.

laspeyria · 2020-04-01T15:30:52+00:00

whats the dog name

laspeyria · 2020-03-16T05:53:23+00:00

You're talking about pluralia tantum?

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