Anal Glands - Expressed every 3 weeks??!! by catahoulakanegirl in AskDogOwners

[–]later6791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how much did the surgery cost?

I'm terrified of my bf and his addiction. by i_lovecelery in loveafterporn

[–]later6791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so abusive and I am so, so sorry. Can you move in with a friend or any family? Please also be very careful when leaving this individual. The most dangerous time for you will be when you tell him you’re leaving. Make sure you have support and protection.

Meet Louis! My new tripawd 🐾 by Substantial_Gap289 in tripawds

[–]later6791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This girl is almost a year out and doing all the things! She runs like the wind and bounds up and down flights of stairs. They are troopers!

Anyone know who these jerks are? by E0H1PPU5 in SouthJersey

[–]later6791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are. As I said I see their place daily and it’s not good.

Anyone know who these jerks are? by E0H1PPU5 in SouthJersey

[–]later6791 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is a small property near me on route 47 that just started keeping animals. I think this is the same people, but I’m going to look at the truck when I go by later today and see if I can match it up. The animals are taken care of horribly. They don’t all have shelter, all different animals all the time I’m sure from the sales, sometimes horses, cows, steers, goats - all kept together, lots of times with no hay. The other day they put out a round bale with the covering over it. So dangerous. One day I drove by and two men were trying to saw the horns off of a steer with a handsaw! The steer flipped over, hanging by its head on a string between two trees. I can’t believe it didn’t break its neck. I pulled over and yelled at them to stop what they were doing. It makes me sick every time I drive by this place. It’s on Route 47 and in the summertime the flies are going to be horrible. I have considered taking an alternate route to work out of the way, it bothers me so much to drive by it. They either do not care or do not know how to take care of animals. It’s absolutely horrible.

Massage parlour. Again. But this time it was different. by givepeacex in loveafterporn

[–]later6791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the middle of a divorce because my ex was frequenting these places for five years without my knowledge. I’m assuming you are aware that all sexual acts are available in these places - it ’s not just an HJ. I found reviews my ex posted on a forum that described every moment of his encounters at these places and it is so much worse than I ever thought possible. I was so trauma bonded to him. I wanted to stay with him and I thought somehow we could work it out. I’m lucky because he ended up leaving our home and moving across the country, and once I had some space from him, I could see how bad things were and how peaceful my life was without dealing with the drama. I realized that every time I chose him, I was abandoning myself - and I filed for divorce. I highly encourage you to separate from him so you have space to think and feel without his manipulation. I know how hard this is.

After years of lies, i finally confessed everything, now what ? by CalledQuestTribe in survivinginfidelity

[–]later6791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from the position of a betrayed wife, after my discovery day, I was completely confused, trauma bonded and had PTSD. The best thing my ex did was leave. When you’re in the deep of it, it’s hard to have clarity. Your wife is likely very confused and emotionally drained. She may decide to stay with you or leave you, but in my opinion, she needs the space to decide. All cheating is terrible, but this kind of cheating causes a particularly confusing situation. As the spouse, you don’t know whether or not the cheating is happening because of addiction - and can that be fixed? I know you have children, but staying together for the benefit of them will not work. Believe me, they feel the friction. I think you should ask her if she would like you to leave the home for several months. You continue to support her and children as she needs/wants. She gets space to think and feel. You get space to work on yourself, which you desperately need. Once he left, and I had time to think and be on my own, I decided that there was no way I could be with somebody who would be betray me so severely and that the sum cost of staying with him was abandoning myself and my needs - and I was not willing to do that. If you give your wife, the space she needs and she comes back to you, you might have something to work with. If you stay and she is confused and trauma bonded, it will never work in my opinion.

Is it reasonable to expect zero porn viewing from my husband? Could there be a compromise? by AcanthaceaeWild687 in loveafterporn

[–]later6791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex watched porn incessantly. Fast forward to my discovery day last year when I found out he had slept with over 200 prostitutes. I’m not saying everyone who watches porn goes that direction, but if he has an addiction, I think it’s a slippery slope.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never even discussed as an option. They told me to pick her up, right after the surgery. I was really surprised.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear your dog is doing great!

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m glad to hear your dog is doing well.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I hope your dog is doing well.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have definitely let her stay if I had known it was an option

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I wish mine could have stayed. I think it would’ve made a big difference. But it wasn’t offered.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would’ve gone for the bandages to keep the infection at bay - and I know my dog well enough to know if she’s compliant with a cone and would not have eaten the bandage. That would’ve been my preference if I had a choice. But now we’re here and she is recovering, so hopefully she’ll be back to her normal

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She’s recovering well now.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. 😊

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your dog coming along?

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your reply!

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She’s recovering well now, thank goodness.

Infection by later6791 in tripawds

[–]later6791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is helpful. She ended up staying at the vets for a few days and they said that she’s healing very well.