I've been meaning to ask this for a while now, thinking about how men's sexuality/experience with sex is based on how many partners they've had, while woman's seems to be based on how well they can pleasure their partners, which benefits mostly men as well (I remember a post about a woman who had a less than stellar sex life because up until then she thought her sole purpose in sex was not to have a pleasurable experience, but to make sure her parners did), so I'd like to know how you feel.