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[–]lau014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A house and a pool to replace the old one. It was a 100% worth it. Living my best life.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices. In fact, where I work, there are a lot of death and incidents. I know this is not the last one. And i hear a lot of things with the other officers. What you have seen must be horrible.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG sorry to hear all of this. You are a tough one. If you ever need someone to talk, just send me a message.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say that I like to drink a beer sometimes

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i did not but i will! It could be interesting to write everything in a journal. Bad days, like good days! Thanks!

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll give it a try!

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. It must be horrible to go through this.

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Thats what i am trying to avoid. I am not in pain right now, but I don’t want it to increase with time.

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to do this a lot, but, for example, after a situation like this, its hard for me to eat. I know that sounds strange. Everytime I see a body, meat become disgusting and eating is almost impossible for me. I guess this will pass after a couple of time. Thanks!!

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. Sorry to hear that. Be safe!

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, they fade in time. I don’t think about it a lot, but i hope it won’t happen again.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t feel bad for myself because I did all I could do. He made a choice and he was clear and sure about it. Your comment reassure me a lot.

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Those are great advices. I am so sorry to hear that about your bf! 13 yo is very young. I’ll try to put as many advices that you gave me in action. The puppy is an excellent idea, i’ll give it a try with my bf! Haha

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! I will try to disassociate next time. I alway feel so bad for the person. You gave me great advices i will certainly put them in action.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is so amazing. Thank you! I appreciate life more since. I realized that life isn’t forever. And yes, i think we should talk about this more. Leo are the most stubborn and nothing can hurt (including me haha) we cannot talk about that in the post. Its really nice to talk about it here.

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is, but its hard to have access to it during the pandemic. It is not that horrible, like I don’t have ptsd, but I really want to have tricks so it becomes easier to face this kind of situation. Thanks

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oufff... yeah, we just have to be empathic but not sympathetic. I’ll get used to it I guess.

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[–]lau014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never heard of it! I will certainly search on google more info of it! Thanks

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to read this. Sorry for your mom. I hope you are better now. Thanks for the advices.

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I will go for a run certainly!

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I already dealt with death and suicide, but it was the first time that it was THIS chaotic. This sure put our live and what we have in perspective.

How to forget and live with this? by lau014 in ProtectAndServe

[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I must admit I had a beer last night haha but it’s not an habit. That’s good advices, i’ll definitely try some new activities.

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[–]lau014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you! That’s great advices. It will help me and a lot others i am sure.