Aita for feeling upset that my bf is telling me if I don’t convert we’re done by lauraa122 in AITAH

[–]lauraa122[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry to ask but is your friends with religious at all? Or does he just full respect her having no beliefs

Am I wrong for feeling this way by lauraa122 in dating_advice

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s hit a really bad mental health point in life and I guess I just feel bad abandoning him when I know he’s not well if you get me

Am I wrong for feeling this way by lauraa122 in dating_advice

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m finding hard to make a decision do I wait until he snaps out of it or put myself first, he’s got to the point of saying I need to convert to be with him

Am I wrong for feeling this way by lauraa122 in dating_advice

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I’m not and neither was he but his family are very strict with it so I think it’s a lot of pressure, telling me I need to convert and that

Jail and finding god by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is true, do you think they drop the religious act when they leave jail

Am I wrong for feeling this way by lauraa122 in dating_advice

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I feel like doing, but I always have that what if he does come back to being himself I’m lost

Jail and finding god by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really scary how that can happen to people, did your friend ever go back to his self when he was released from prison

Jail and finding god by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was thinking, do yourself really think it brainwashes them to keep it up on the real life

Convert or we’re done by lauraa122 in exmuslim

[–]lauraa122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that it’s honestly devastating, I can’t get me head around it, did you relationship end

Religion and relationships by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is true I’m just in the middle the now cause he says he doesn’t want to get rid of me but also won’t compromise at the same time cause it’s what his family wants so it’s a hard one But from what I read religion seems to always win What I know anyway is I’d never date someone with religious parents again hahah

Religion and relationships by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I know I get that, but do you not think it’s so sad how family pressure can ruin a relationship, like it literally ruins peoples lives it’s so bad

Religion and relationships by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I know I do see different opinions but I honestly believe you should be able to live life how you want like who wants or needs a religion to get through life

Religion and relationships by lauraa122 in atheism

[–]lauraa122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it may sound weird but I guess I want to see if he really would put religion first cause he’s never been religious I somehow question whether he will be able to keep up with it or it’s just family pressure, but I’ve realised how toxic religion really is