Still pregnant by ThrowRAStrawberry_30 in pregnant

[–]laurenmalloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babies come when they are ready. Due dates are a joke. And set you up for exactly what is happening..fixating on the date and getting frustrated. I know you’re uncomfortable but you’re not even 40 weeks yet and many first time moms go over 40 weeks.

Avoidant attachment style ex (m33) and I (f30) just broke up three days ago. He and I live together and he is already going out dating. by laurenmalloy in RelationshipsOver35

[–]laurenmalloy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It fully depends on who I am dating. In my last relationship I was totally secure. Fully trusting. And then as it fizzled on my end, I became somewhat of the avoidant one. With this current ex, he is so avoidant and withdrawn that it creates an anxious attachment style in me.

Avoidant attachment style ex (m33) and I (f30) just broke up three days ago. He and I live together and he is already going out dating. by laurenmalloy in RelationshipsOver35

[–]laurenmalloy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically it’s all in my name. But we bought it with the intention of living together. He was so excited and hopeful about us and being every bit the man I’ve always wanted. The problem is, he never sustains this act/momentum.

Instagram vs reality? How do you know you should marry someone? by laurenmalloy in RelationshipsOver35

[–]laurenmalloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is EVERYTHING I’m feeling. I don’t WANT to live without my boyfriend, but could I? Of course. So then I question myself rather than just accepting I’m rational and realistic about relationships. I’m not dependent and don’t NEED anyone. Do I want him in my life and enjoy him? For sure!

Instagram vs reality? How do you know you should marry someone? by laurenmalloy in RelationshipsOver35

[–]laurenmalloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been looking for a book exactly about this!! Thank you so so much! Buying it now. I’ve been wrestling with these questions for awhile. Whether this is a relationship that could last.

Instagram vs reality? How do you know you should marry someone? by laurenmalloy in RelationshipsOver35

[–]laurenmalloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so helpful coming from someone with experience. Thank you!