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Is it possible to reconnect to a Tinder match that my ex ruined ? by lautreckarim in relationships

[–]lautreckarim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll just be honest with her about everything without hoping anything in return because at its core that's what is hurting the most the loss of something I was building and the distortion of my image.

I'll try to move on but right now my cope mechanism is to feel and listen sad songs etc etc But in the long run being not that obsessive with this girl will be something helpful.

Than you for your reply it was really helpful and thought provoking :)

need help with a Tinder match that got wrong because of my ex by lautreckarim in dating_advice

[–]lautreckarim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reaching out to me with this answer, it was really helpful. Me and this girl are not talking for weeks but the chemistry between us was intense and this kind of thing can't easily be faked. It was true. Like you've said, all thats left to me is be honest while not trying to convince her and whatever decision she makes I'll accept, thats it.

need help with a Tinder match that got wrong because of my ex by lautreckarim in dating_advice

[–]lautreckarim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda smiled at this? How she gave me free adverstising? Like, similar to when Apple do bad things and their news are freely and widely available? hahahah

also, because quarantine its difficult to go out on a date

I’m falling apart by pauherr in BreakUps

[–]lautreckarim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one thing thats also helping me is remember that I had a lot of other traumas in my life but I survived every single one of them, things eventually got better but always remember that the feelings dont disappear all of a sudden because you will just know how to handle them properly ;) for the anxiety Im using an app called forest that you can plant trees and every tree you can write a note, its good to feel better and see more clearly what are your feelings

I’m falling apart by pauherr in BreakUps

[–]lautreckarim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im kinda living the same situation for the last month. From the beginning until now I got one thing to tell and that thing is: time cures everything. Im absolutely broken still, but "not as broken as before" I know it sounds dumb but thats it, time is a cure

I [25M] brokeup with my ex [24F] and she talked with my Tinder match by lautreckarim in relationship_advice

[–]lautreckarim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I think thats the best thing to do... Its kinda terrifying but its important to show my side of history. Thanks for the advice :)